Here's an interesting diary article I just came across from the Guardian UK from Erica Kaya, an expatriot living in Turkey pointing out some of the subtle difference in male-female relationships that exist between the west and in Turkey.

http://www.guardianabroad.co.uk/diaries/article/173

I just want to add that if one STRICTLY follows Muslim rules, then a very "tight leash" is kept on females/daughters. Turkey is Muslim but secular. In the more fundamentalist parts of the country, I expect that women are definitely not supposed to interact with males who are not their relatives. This, I'm sure, is more relaxed in urban areas. But how much?

I have question for those who understand Turkish culture. Do male-female friendships exist in Turkey that aren't necessarily tied to work or some professional function? Friendships where you would ask the person (say the boy asks the girl) to go get something to eat after a class. Or, possibly, asking a girl out for a date/dinner.

I get the sense (from things I've read and experiences I've had with Turkish exchange students) that there something taboo about boys and girls being together unless they are in a relationship. Something having to do with namus and ayip.

I'm sure this varies based upon the area in Turkey you're from, but I'd like some insight from those who can say what it's like in their part of Turkey.