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What about Turkish lovers?
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14 Nov 2006 Tue 09:20 am |
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Quoting CANLI: Quoting turkishgirll: ATTENTION!!!
Well, well... This is a forum and people are free of their comments and their ideas and their judgements without disturbing the others. |
surprisingly agreeing with you turkishgirl on this issue!
İ wasn't going to share in this,cause as we all know,that is the ZİLLİON time that we are talking about Turkish men !
But,that was the first time we have a turkish female opinion about this,
Which is by the way very interesting !
But still talking about it didn't brought anything new in that issue,but it really raise so many questions in my mind.
Those questions will consider Turkish men too,but in another way .
You,i mean Turkish people passing through very important phase of time.
İ am here talking about my opinion,and from the way i see things,and i hope i don't offend anyone.
Neyse,
As i was saying,you are in between 2 cultures,and 2 principles,and totally 2 different styles of life.
Some people welcome the changes very much,and abandoned all the traditions,and the principles they have been raised upon it,considering it nonsense and some kind of ignorance,ALL OF THEM.
Others refusing the changes totally,and want to live as they have been raised,and their parents been living too,and see those changes immoral too !
Others,picking from both sides,try to judge and pick the useful from the new wind,and keep the good traditions from the old times,and beeing proud about those times too,but seeing that time has came,and some changes has to be made.
As my opinion,its very obvious to me what would've i picked !
But,after reading this thread,and the posts,i find myself need to ask you,
What way would you prefer ?
Notice that any changes won't only consider Turkish men,but Turkish women as well.
So to what extent do you accept this changes to your women ?
Your sisters,your lover,your wife,and your daughters ?!
İs the Western style,in the way turkishgirll has posted before agreeable to you ?!
You really approve ?!
And that is what you pick from ALL the Western style life ?!
And btw,turkishgirll,i guess what makes Turkish men are so different,is exactly what wasn't agreeable with you to some extent,and that is exactly what attracted the Western women to them .
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Hi CANLI,
I am new to this page so I didn't check all the posts that were written, I became a member like 3-4 days ago indeed. And this was my first day post. So I had no idea what people discussed about Turkish men but I didn't simply ask about Turkish men indeed, I asked about Turkish lovers and what made them special to you guys. But I think most of them are ladies who have Turkish lovers here.
By the way, that's right. The characters are different in everyone but what I was asking about was not the character or the nationality or the education. Everybody knwos the fact that everybody's character is different and unique to themselves. But culture and traditions play a big deal on the character. That was the part I was wondering. What kind of reflections of culture or tradition fell on your lover made it special to you? For example Scandinavians are known for their coldness in the character all around the world -due to the cultural part as well as weather conditions- and Mediterreneans are known as hot-blooded, talkative etc... These don't make everybody in this way but then as I said before there are some certain characteristics of every nation what makes them different. So take my post in that aspect dudes!  It was always misunderstod so far, some people thought I was showing off with what I had etc... But then I realized the fact that to get to know new people and have them be in your private life as you beloved ones... You catch up some certain traits of their cultural and national part.
And coming to the subject which CANLI started, some people accept the cultural and traditions totally, some do reject all of them and some try to balance it.
I personally try to balance the cultural and traditional part of me. But some traditions are just not my cup of tea so I just omit them from my life.
So up to that point whereas my cultural and traditional part is being appreciated, I am also criticized harshly because of the certain traditions I omit and disagree to obey. That's me thou.
"And that is what you pick from ALL the Western style life ?!" That's the question I didn't understand thou? What do you mean by that? It isn't simply love affair part that that's Western style in me (Although I don't find it right to call it Western style, it is just my personal choices and style)
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14 Nov 2006 Tue 09:47 am |
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Quote: LoL how ego you are? who s gonna be cool? since im a member of this website mylanguage never change..dont show of wht the f have ya done with tha mens over there...respct other turkish ladies oke? i dont care wht tha hell ya talkng about urcharacter but in here many people wanna learn about turkey and turkish people..u make urslf suck thts it..
i no need attetion from any 1 here..But u need thts why u post here and show of wht the f u have done with mens..this is show how cheap you are..i come from street i learn this f languange from yahoo messeger myslf u went school we can see who is tha clever..so sht tha f up...if im loser why u talkng to me dumb idiot.. dont talk full of shit..go learn how to cook bfre open some post..(by tha way 50cent snoop dogy many of singer Around the world they are loser..coz they also not watch their mouth..)sucks...
if people need respct i ll be gentleman..but if the people talkng full of shit i ll be rain and ll be very heavy..
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What has it got to do with ego? I am not trying to show off, I didn't give you details about what kind of relationship I had with my previous experiences, nor I showed off about what they bought me etc... etc... So you had better go to an optician and have your eyes checked (or I would rather go to a neurologist and have my brain checked if I were in your shoes  ) Either you misread or misanalyze certain things here and I do believe it has something to do with your education and instead of correcting yourself with that part of you are insistent on your illeterate part, even kind of proud about it. So I pity you.
Right, there are people who would like to learn about Turkey and Turkish culture and their eyes are free, let them reas whatever they want. They can read this post if they want or can simply skip it and pass to the next post. It is their business. There are lots of posts and lots of different subject on this forum.
You know what? I tell you what... I think you are desperately in need of attention. That's why you are opposing with everyone, that's why you are creating an atmosphere of the opposition. "..(by tha way 50cent snoop dogy many of singer Around the world they are loser..coz they also not watch their mouth..)" Look at whom you take yourself as role figures. The singer who use slang language. Why do they use slang language in their songs? Just to attract attention because it is an unusual style. I believe that's exactly what you are doing here. Simply immitating them, playing the parrot of your ideal figures. Do you think we know less slang words than you know? There are many native English speaking people on this page. Do you think we are less smart than you are? You would be cheating yourself that's what you believe.
Look at the language and see who is being cheap. You are so rude as to call someone female (as dumb or as idiot) I don't have to prove my intelligence to you, I am having certain quality of education and I am happy with that.
We have not seen your gentleman part yet, Rain. I hope we are so lucky as to be honoured(!) by it some day. You may want to shock us all someday with a proper way of writing, who knows? Oh, but be careful, when you are trying to be rain and rain heavy, don't turn into flood and do not drown yourself in it. (Keskin sirke küpüne zarar hesabı
Oh, before I forgot I already know how to cook. If you want to exchange recipes you are welcome. 
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14 Nov 2006 Tue 09:49 am |
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Quoting CANLI: Some people welcome the changes very much,and abandoned all the traditions,and the principles they have been raised upon it,considering it nonsense and some kind of ignorance,ALL OF THEM.
Others refusing the changes totally,and want to live as they have been raised,and their parents been living too,and see those changes immoral too !
Others,picking from both sides,try to judge and pick the useful from the new wind,and keep the good traditions from the old times,and beeing proud about those times too,but seeing that time has came,and some changes has to be made.
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My experience … I balance or rather try to balance both cultures. My husband is a total non believer. He never went to mosque, eats pork regularly and don’t follow Ramadan at all. People talk about you from both sides. If I agree with him then I am not a ‘loyal Muslim wife’ because I don’t encourage him to follow common Muslim rules and if I don’t agree with him still I am not a ‘loyal Muslim wife’ because I am not supporting him. Both the ways people talk. So me and my husband decided that we will live as we want to. I do pray my Hindu Gods in our home. I myself bought a copy of Quran which was not there earlier. He never prays but I do. He stopped eating beef for me. It all depends on the nature.
I don’t want to talk about Turkish men in particular as everyone has good as well as bad sides. NO ONE IS AND CAN EVER BE PERFECT. It’s not culture it’s a human nature which has to be blamed. And oh there is no cure for human nature also isn’t it? A person from a first world country might be as greedy as from the third world country. Rich or poor makes no sense when it comes to greed. My husband is also from southeastern Turkey. He is orphan and was damn poor once but now with his own belief and efforts he can support our (large) family.
Regards
Geeta
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14 Nov 2006 Tue 10:54 am |
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Quote:
My experience … I balance or rather try to balance both cultures. My husband is a total non believer. He never went to mosque, eats pork regularly and don’t follow Ramadan at all. People talk about you from both sides. If I agree with him then I am not a ‘loyal Muslim wife’ because I don’t encourage him to follow common Muslim rules and if I don’t agree with him still I am not a ‘loyal Muslim wife’ because I am not supporting him. Both the ways people talk. So me and my husband decided that we will live as we want to. I do pray my Hindu Gods in our home. I myself bought a copy of Quran which was not there earlier. He never prays but I do. He stopped eating beef for me. It all depends on the nature.
I don’t want to talk about Turkish men in particular as everyone has good as well as bad sides. NO ONE IS AND CAN EVER BE PERFECT. It’s not culture it’s a human nature which has to be blamed. And oh there is no cure for human nature also isn’t it? A person from a first world country might be as greedy as from the third world country. Rich or poor makes no sense when it comes to greed. My husband is also from southeastern Turkey. He is orphan and was damn poor once but now with his own belief and efforts he can support our (large) family.
Regards
Geeta
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What a lovely message Geeta and if ONLY we could all be perfect !
Kind Regards
Jackie
xx
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14 Nov 2006 Tue 12:34 pm |
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you are sick...i dunno why nobody does anything to this sick person....
you cannot insult anybody here..its ridiculous
sen hastamısın kardesim niye insanlara hakaret ediyorsun...
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14 Nov 2006 Tue 12:39 pm |
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Quote: Quoting jackieeuk:
My experience … I balance or rather try to balance both cultures. My husband is a total non believer. He never went to mosque, eats pork regularly and don’t follow Ramadan at all. People talk about you from both sides. If I agree with him then I am not a ‘loyal Muslim wife’ because I don’t encourage him to follow common Muslim rules and if I don’t agree with him still I am not a ‘loyal Muslim wife’ because I am not supporting him. Both the ways people talk. So me and my husband decided that we will live as we want to. I do pray my Hindu Gods in our home. I myself bought a copy of Quran which was not there earlier. He never prays but I do. He stopped eating beef for me. It all depends on the nature.
I don’t want to talk about Turkish men in particular as everyone has good as well as bad sides. NO ONE IS AND CAN EVER BE PERFECT. It’s not culture it’s a human nature which has to be blamed. And oh there is no cure for human nature also isn’t it? A person from a first world country might be as greedy as from the third world country. Rich or poor makes no sense when it comes to greed. My husband is also from southeastern Turkey. He is orphan and was damn poor once but now with his own belief and efforts he can support our (large) family.
Regards
Geeta
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What a lovely message Geeta and if ONLY we could all be perfect !
Kind Regards
Jackie
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+100000000000000000000 such wise words  
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14 Nov 2006 Tue 12:42 pm |
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Cool it off ppl!
Relax calm down !!!!!
is there any smiley for it?
Ok here I will use 
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14 Nov 2006 Tue 12:51 pm |
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Quoting susie k:
Guilty as charged!!! |
count me in on that too 
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14 Nov 2006 Tue 12:54 pm |
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Dear Rain;
we all know that, they are always discussing Turkish guys and people here, and i am not expecting of their discussing any other nationality as this place's name is "Turkish Language Class".
whey they discuss it always,
because as new members are coming this site, instead of searching the database of forums, they are asking new questions, so we are taking all conversations all from start... and this is normal too. and in every thread like that all the people is saying this is not completely from being Turkish or whatelse.
the problem is not the language you use, or it is a bit problem to understand you.
The problem is YOU here, and your trying to act as a smartass, that you know the best, you know everything and your ego about your cant standing to people's talking about Turkish men or culture. they can talk why does it bother you that much i dont understand. and you love to be dominant. you are like a child.
would you mind if i ask you to use more tolerant words and keep your mouth shut? you dont have to say anything about you dont like here if YOU dont want to create a mess here.
and one more advice from me to you; while watching your self in the mirror please watch yourself wholly, not only your muscles
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14 Nov 2006 Tue 12:58 pm |
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Quoting Mary83: relationship with a turkish man
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i rest my case
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) and Bod (again...but who knows?!) I think most of the non-Turkish members had/have some sort of Turkish love interest 
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