Wow Canli . . . your a MOD!!!  I hadn´t realised.  CONGRATULATIONS!!  

    just pretend it says Happy Mod´s Day

PT (or PC)

You are sucking up with a mod in this post while you are hitting below the waist in your previous  post.

Clever but obvious!!

 No need for the sarcasm - out of the mouths of babes.......

 Actually Handsom I posted the flowers etc because I had already taken note of Canli´s post about Rule 9,  and apologised to her (as a fellow member) not knowing she was a Mod.  I didn´t want members thinking I was "sucking up" to Canli earlier. 

So I´m not as clever as you try to make me out my dear.  You really do have a high (or should that be low?) opinion of me.  I always thought my posts were obvious, why beat about the bush when there is a direct approach?

Hitting below the waist?  Just be careful when you step in and which way you´re facing or you may get caught in crossfire

PT, you did not apologize to the people you offended, maybe that would be a good idea, what do you think?

Also, stop fighting about every single thing. You know how that ends from the many accounts of yours that you got deleted. Try to respect a wider range of people here.

Canli, tell me...how is peace train calling me a screaming banshee not a personal attack or any less offensive than what I said?  Shall I expect a public apology from you now for the offensive words directed at me? 

What good is peace trains "apology" when the behavior continues in the very next post. 

Coming from you this statement is laughable.  Cat is also a respected member of this site and that has never stopped you from hurling things at her does it? 

I am well aware that canli is a respected member.  She has my respect too.  But being respected doesn´t mean that that person can´t be wrong. 

 Come on GG,its coming and going between you and PT

İ´ve posted the 9 rule and asked you both to take it off forum so i wont get myself into such...stuff

But,this GG,is plain personal attack

And if you wish,we can continue talking about it via pm´s,and take it off forum.

Nothing personal,and you  know that too,yes?

 I have made myself clear as far as apologies go.  I have made a number of apologies this evening, publicly and via pm and that´s as far as I think is necessary.   

I think the word "fighting" is a little strong and I don´t pick on every single thing.  Read all my posts. 

It´s no secret, I deleted myself 3 times . . . this is not "many" but "a few" and one of those accounts was only ever used for posts about art, so that makes twice I threw my toys out of the pram and the first time I had to make several requests.  There are several people who have had more than one account or become disgruntled and become silent for a while, on several occasions.  This is their right and doesn´t cause harm to anyone.  I don´t think I´ve ever made any comments to people about the way they stop visiting the site from time to time, it´s not my business and doesn´t serve any purpose to remark about it. 

As for respect.  I do respect a very wide range of people here and I don´t get into heated discussions with the wide range of people some members  do.  for instance, I´m not in the habit of mocking new members or making sarcastic or cynical remarks about relationships some members have with Turkish men as I happen to think it´s unkind. 

I think there has already been an exhaustive discussion on another thread, about "respect" so forgive me if I don´t enter another.

If you´re asking me to bite my tongue everytime I read something I don´t agree with, well I already do that a lot so I´m not prepared to say I´m never going to defend someone or say I don´t agree with something from time to time (it´s not as often as you make out).  This is every member´s right and part of the make up of a thread.

If you´re asking me to control the manner of some of my comments, I can trade goodwill there.

And so is calling someone a screaming banshee Canli.  You still haven´t answered how her comments are no more attacks than mine.  Earlier you said that i was being judgemental....well....this is plainly judgemental on your part. 

You say you won´t get yourself into "such stuff"?  Well you already put yourself smack dab in the middle!  But when I ask why you won´t take the other person to task you have no answer.  Clearly it is personal.  How disappointing.