Quoting Merih

   Do you know what happened after 15 years together??

 

He said, I don´t feel like a man around you anymore... THE END

 with todays technology we actually dont need anything from men

ah, what is a millions of sperm comparing to one and only precious egg?

 

 

Well, I agree that women should be if possible higher educated.. but the thing is, the women loose the purpose of working easily.  Most of the women are very ambitious to be successful. (By the way i am basically talking about the poor ranking countries).  They want to do what men do and the family´s are getting ruined at the end.. A female CEO of a company most of the times forget that she is a wife and a mum at the same time.  And she doesn´t and SHOULDN´t have the luxury to leave everything to a maid, or a grandmother.  She is the vital part of a child and a marriage life, and she has to be there to wake up the child, or give breakfast, or help with a homework.  She needs to give attention to her husband.

 

The man is lucky in this sense, as the nature of life is like that.  There is a work share for everyone.  Though I guess it is okay, if you can carry out your responsibilities, and do something on the top, without letting off your main responsibilities (but isn´t it too much).

 

May be some of the ladies will get angry with me.  But to tell the truth, though the said countries have the top rankings, the very same countries suffer lack of family bonds, loneliness, suicides, etc... Because the scoiety becomes selfish.. money becomes everything.. everybody pays for themselves.. when you are 18, you are out of the house, or you pay rent..  You are in trouble, sorry, take care of yourself.

 

Final word: Did you know that a mum´s cuddle is almost affective as a painkiller?

 No.

 

Yes, but as I said, I merely tried to stress the way you put your argument. I didnt even feel like reading more of your argument after reading ´women should do this, that´.

 

As for my personal idea: I would choose the road in between, and I would temporarily quit my job if I were to give birth untill ´they´ are a few years old. But that is just a personal choice. I just dont agree with your opinion that a woman is the vital part of a marriage and family life, and the fact that ´the man didnt feel like a man anymore´, maybe has to do with ´how society sees what a man should be´.

 

 

 

Well then he probably isn´t one. If being a good parent makes him feel less of a man, he doesn´t deserve to be called one....THE END

 merih, i wouldnt want to be in a place of a woman you describe, who is a slave, not a lady. working and at the same time wiping butts of kids and a husband (excuse my language) is not a life. i donno, probably only tough women can deal it in the patriarchal societies.

just wonder why didnt your mother educate you to be free? why didnt she tell you to respect yourself, to have a dignity?

why that working lady cant have a luxury of having a maid? why not? why it is ok for a man to have a luxury to come home and relax and why a woman cant have that too?

 This is my opinion.. this is what I understand from equality..  And believe me 99% of women in the east doesn´t think like me.  You can not imagine how much pressure I have because I stopped working.. because I have more than 1 kid..

 

I think in developing countries like Turkey, woman want to be more effective in life, they want to work, compete, and give days and nights to their jobs.  At least in Australia, it is vice versa.. women work, until they have babies, stop working for a couple of years to care for the baby, then go back to work.  And believe me I did not see (of course I am talking about the educated ones) any women complaining that she is looking after the baby while the husband is working, because the fact is they want to enjoy the baby.

 Well, I think this way.. then why can only a woman give birth?  It is obviously two persons commitment, but who carries the baby?  There must be a reason.

 

 

I am hoping alameda can clear this one up for you!

 

 

 

Well then he probably isn´t one. If being a good parent makes him feel less of a man, he doesn´t deserve to be called one....THE END

 And if we didn´t have men....who would we worship?  Who would remind us that we need to take care of EVERYONE!!  You silly girl!!

 

 

 

I would say, wait until you see your baby, if you decide to have one day, and tell me that it is easy to go back to work after 3 months..  But believe, the dad will go back the next day.

 wheres australia? i wanna go there. thats super. it must be so ideally. why should i work while having a little baby? no way!

let your husband now work for both of you.