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Turkey ranks low in world gender equality index
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 09:53 pm |
And I really don´t like the attitude of people, who work and thinks they are more worthy, more educated, more intelligent then a full time mum..
I very much agree with that statement. I do think it´s wrong to base someones quality on how educated or successful they are in their careers. Seems very shallow of people to ask shortly upon meeting you what it is that "you do" (referring to career).
That being said, I also think it´s wrong to assume a working mother would be any less of a mother because she has a career.
I think it is the best of both worlds to have the choice, and that is where the non equality of women comes from. The fact that men have ALWAYS had the choice.
Yes merih, the woman is the "host" and the one giving birth, but she did not get pregnant alone, and should be allowed the very same options as the othe responsible party
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 10:00 pm |
Just a quick question, if you had all the money in the world, and you had a husband and kids, would you be waking up everyday to go to work? Or just stay at home and enjoy?
There lies the answer......
It is not a difficult question what I would do if I had all the money in the world. Work is the wrong answer. But hey, I don´t have children so that question will never be my problem. Probably all you mothers can´t understand but I never wanted children and not for a second I regret that decision.
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 10:00 pm |
The equality issue comes down to this….do I…as a woman, have the same opportunities as a man if I choose to pursue a career or educational opportunities?
Do I have the right, in my own home, to make decisions with my partner and not be told what is what?
Do I have the same freedoms and choices as any man?
If not, then I am not on equal standing and that is the problem that women around the world are facing everyday.
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 10:01 pm |
It seems the more "modern" Cro-Magnons utilised the concept of labor division and thus the females took care of the home hearth and children. The Neanderthal women worked the same as the males. The outcome was the children were less well cared for, less nourishment, subjected to more dangers, thus this added to the extinction of Neanderthals.
Anyway....it´s something to think about....hmmm?
Well you didn´t quite clear things up for me as I was so hoping I thought you would have something to say, proving that the man could just as well as the woman be dominant parent, Even if not actually birthing the child.......
so what I will take away from this is that there is no better parent then mother!
(I do so agree with that)
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 10:02 pm |
I very much agree with that statement. I do think it´s wrong to base someones quality on how educated or successful they are in their careers. Seems very shallow of people to ask shortly upon meeting you what it is that "you do" (referring to career).
That being said, I also think it´s wrong to assume a working mother would be any less of a mother because she has a career.
I think it is the best of both worlds to have the choice, and that is where the non equality of women comes from. The fact that men have ALWAYS had the choice.
Yes merih, the woman is the "host" and the one giving birth, but she did not get pregnant alone, and should be allowed the very same options as the othe responsible party
I do totally agree, with all my heart, and I think that´s why to make a child you need two people (traditional ways of course), as it is very difficult for a single mum to handle everything. All kind of responsibilites should be shared.
But this thread started as, the woman rights and woman equality is based on working woman, and educated woman... I am very happy with the reality of the working woman, and I do think they are almost always much more successful than males, and they should be appreciated more.
What I don´t like is the attitude of these women who think that they can talk for me like I don´t have the ability to talk for myself or even to make a choice of working or not, and that i am a slave if I take care of my family, and i am uneducated if I am not working, and blah blah...
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 10:03 pm |
Probably all you mothers can´t understand but I never wanted children and not for a second I regret that decision.
Choice is a beautiful thing isn´t it!!! 
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 10:03 pm |
The equality issue comes down to this….do I…as a woman, have the same opportunities as a man if I choose to pursue a career or educational opportunities?
Do I have the right, in my own home, to make decisions with my partner and not be told what is what?
Do I have the same freedoms and choices as any man?
If not, then I am not on equal standing and that is the problem that women around the world are facing everyday.
  
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 10:04 pm |
I can help you with that.. I really appreciate your situation..
What I meant was not really to say, women should be uneducated, or slaves.. but what i meant working is not everything... you can not jugde the woman equality, or happiness with having a job.
And I really don´t like the attitude of people, who work and thinks they are more worthy, more educated, more intelligent then a full time mum..

The problem is taht we are still thinking by the male-structured values. Raising children is not something that men do much of, therefore it is not seen as a worthwhile task. The society does not value raising children as important, well-paid job (as it should be valued). Raising children IS a very important part of live and it should be given an appropriate social value, because at this point, it is seen as unpaid, ungrateful women´s work.
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 10:05 pm |
I think that´s why to make a child you need two people (traditional ways of course)
Why ´traditional ways of course´?
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 10:05 pm |
The equality issue comes down to this….do I…as a woman, have the same opportunities as a man if I choose to pursue a career or educational opportunities?
Do I have the right, in my own home, to make decisions with my partner and not be told what is what?
Do I have the same freedoms and choices as any man?
If not, then I am not on equal standing and that is the problem that women around the world are facing everyday.
I agree. But how can you decide about it at looking at how many woman senators are there in a country? Or how many working woman? Does it tell all? Pakistan was the first country to have a female Prime Minister, does it mean, women equality is there?
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12 Nov 2008 Wed 10:07 pm |
It is not a difficult question what I would do if I had all the money in the world. Work is the wrong answer. But hey, I don´t have children so that question will never be my problem. Probably all you mothers can´t understand but I never wanted children and not for a second I regret that decision.
I respect and appreciate.. Thanks
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