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Thread: How (not) to do it - Harams/helals

2301.       CANLI
5084 posts
 18 Feb 2008 Mon 03:45 am

Quoting thehandsom:


With all due respect to what you believe Canli, but what you are saying is kind of approval of what femme said in the first place about muslims are easily offended about the jokes. And it is also KIND OF approval of condemming salman rushdi, danish cartoons etc..
But cant you see that these ideas were always common in the west? The only difference is the internet age and the information traveling so fast. so that some cartoons are printed, guys in pakistans sees the following day..(and somehow, tragically, some of them get killed in demonstrations )
Since, we know that there is freedom of expression, and also we know that there are people thinking those things about islam.
Why dont you want to hear them? why is always people sent after those people responsible? (many people sent after s rushdi, they are trying to kill those danish cartonists, in Turkey, they burnt more than 30 intellects alive in sivas madimak-because aziz nesin published s rushdi's book )

About beliving in something and not making jokes about it: Sorry but, you are wrong and how come can you speak of all islamic people? there are many many jokes about mohammed and religion in turkish language. I can give some examples if you like..
About not questioning the bad things and simply call it faith is another thing I will disagree. I really believe that it is the part of reason why all the muslim countries are not developed!! Leaving everything to Allah kind of blocks the search for what is going wrong..

I think in this forum, we talked about REFORM in islam. What is acceptable as a joke, what is freedom of speach, what is really insulting or couple of infidels' cartoons can harm The Creater. They should all be in this reform package.
Islam should have a milder face. And not accepting any critisism or jokes is not doing any good to islam..
It is partly why in the world, christianty is expanding more than islam!!
I really think muslims should be more relaxed about these issues.


With all due respect handsom,there is much difference between critisism and jokes !
İ accept critisism,but i do not accept jokes !
Joking is making fun about you believe,how can you believe in something dont worth your respect ?!
İ dont care if those idea is common in the West or not,we have our ideas about Christianity too,but you do NOT see it in cartoons!
There should be mutual respect between religions,and of coure between people too
that is 1,2 relatioships between others ... RESPECT
İts even what our parents teach us too!

As if you are telling me its ok to insult your parents because they insult their parents ?!
Or its ok to allow them to insult your parents,because they insult theirs!

Either ways,it will ALWAYS be wrong to insult parents ,wont it ?!
PS:i dont mean 'you' as 'YOU'

İ dont get your point about development tho !
Who is stopping you ?!
What is this got to do with İslam ?!
İn İslam ALLAH ordered us to learn,to search ...so who is stopping you ?!
And i dont understand what do you mean by REFORM in islam ?!
How can we REFORM what ALLAH sent to us,and what we BELİEVE in, so by this we are Muslims ?!
REFORM islam rules you mean ?
Pick the suitable ones and leave the ones we dont like?!
İ actually dont understand what you mean!
You just cant REFORM a religion,religion is set of rules,you take it as they are,you cant REFORM it unless you are the one who have sent it !

Sure insulting or couple of infidels' cartoons can not harm The Creator.
But they show LACK of respect !

You want Muslims to have cold blood and be cool when they hear insults to THEİR religion,and they should make fun of it too ?
That is how Muslims countries will be developed ?!
Would anyone hear someone insult his parents,and he would make fun of it ?!

As you said,there is Media and İnternet,so they should know this lack of respect will reach us too,and we dont HAVE to accept it too.

So we did what would any SANE person do when hear his insult,we complained,and we STOPPED dealing economically with people who insulted us till we get a proper apology
And i think its our right too,and i agree with that,but sending people after who ever to kill...that i dont agree with,and i dont think its in İslam too,i mean who gave them the right to judge who live and who should die?!

But,how do they deal with their religion is THEİR business,what do they think of our religion is THEİR business too...i accept that
But they showing us respect is our right as we show it to them...dont you think so ?

Btw,you said there is many jokes about mohammed and religion in turkish language.
İm curios about it,so can you pls pm me some of them ?!
Here in Egypt we Muslim and Christians live together,i didnt hear any joke about either Mohamed SAV or Christ too,maybe about İmam,about priests,about Muslims and Christians,but NEVER about prophets,so yes pls send to me.



Thread: How (not) to do it - Harams/helals

2302.       CANLI
5084 posts
 18 Feb 2008 Mon 02:59 am

Quoting azade:

Quoting AlphaF:

West tells you the suicide bombers are born idiots, and you believe them. You obviously have a very clean washed brain yourself.

You cant even suspect there may be another gross reality behind the suicide bombers ! you are happy to be safe, sound and well fed among others. That is your price...



Those people who end up being suicide bombers etc. were probably regular people in the first place but due to circumstances and brainwashing they become completely different people in time. No sane person would blow up themselves (or take other people with them).
That is reality.



İ agree with you azade,no sane person would blow up himself.
Let me tell you what i've been told about suicide bombers from a Palestinian friend back at school

Family live in poverty,a mother,son,2 daughters,and some small kids
Father not there,because he's died,uncle not there for same reason.
the boy taking the responsibility to support his family,and protect it...he is the man of the family now!
He want to study to have a better future he and his sisters,and want to work at same time to support his family.
The boy accepted his fate,and try to go to school to study,but he couldnt...all schools closed or destroyed...
He wanted to work to bring food to his Mom and small ones...he also couldnt,because all roads are locked and there is no work opportunities for him !
He wanted to take care of his family...but he cant also,soldiers are coming and they will arrest him,will rape his sisters,if not,will take them to jail to be raiped there !
He wanted to defend them,to defend his sisters and mother...but he has no weapon !
He only has himself...
Would he stand still and watch it ?!he thinks.
Or would he kill himself trying to defend them so he wont be able to watch it ?!
He may kill innocent people in his way of killing the soldiers ? he still thinking
But aren't his mother and sisters,and those small ones innocent too ?
Wasnt he innocent when his father died and he had to carry the family responsibility which he failed to do too ?!
All he dreamed off is to live like other people live,the people which he watch in TV,they live in safety,go to school,and ACTUALLY live to go to UNİ...
He wanted that too..

But...

So,he just choose to be selfish,and to bomb himself,so he wont witness what will going to happen to his family!

İf this brainwashed,then yes...they get brainwashed!



Thread: How (not) to do it - Harams/helals

2303.       CANLI
5084 posts
 18 Feb 2008 Mon 02:13 am

Quoting thehandsom:


So the moral of the story is that with the industralision the religion is bound to get weaker. That is what is happening in the west. And that is what is not happening in the east.
That is what will happen to the eastern cultures with the time.


İ dont think its related to industrializing,and i wish it wont happen ,but i agree East will follow



Thread: How (not) to do it - Harams/helals

2304.       CANLI
5084 posts
 18 Feb 2008 Mon 02:00 am

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting elham:

Quoting femme_fatal:

alright.

my question is: why do ONLY muslims get offended throughout the whole world (not only on this site)?



simple answer we respect our religion



You can respect your religion, and still find humourous things about it. I have a feeling that you probably do - but would never dare to share your jokes because you want to present a good public face to other people.

It is counterproductive - we would respect your religion more if you saw humour in yourselves, the way everyone else does.


Actually,no we dont !
We dont make jokes about our religion even between eachothers because we respect it
When you believe in something and respect it you dont make jokes about it.
Even when bad things happened,we accept it as fate,as test,and we dont blame ALLAH for it
So,as japrak has pointed out the way West and east deal with religion is way much different!
That is why you 'West'cant understand why we 'East' get offended when the discussion in religions regarding İslam reach certain limit .
We have great deal of respect to what we believe!

Same as we too,we dont get it when 'West' make jokes with religion 'Christianity'
We dont get it and we dont accept it,so you dont find Muslim make joke of it tho...but,all to his ways,and its THEİR religion!
When someone talk about God as if talking about his friend,fighting with God,making fun of HİM...we dont understand it...
''HEY,that is GOD,HE is YOUR creator SHOW some respect,you respect your Mom and Dad for giving birth to you,dont you respect the one who MADE you,and MADE your parents too ?!!!''
That is what we think about it in those stiuations..but as i said all to his ways .
So you see,the way we see religion,the way we deal with it is different!



Thread: Two pennies for your thoughts ....!!

2305.       CANLI
5084 posts
 16 Feb 2008 Sat 10:06 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:


eeee?
we make a great duet, dont we?


Seems you didnt get what im saying...!
İ didnt mean YOU as you personally,i didnt mean ANYONE in personal too,its the spirit !
mmmm,would you prefer it better if i dont reply to you ?!
Awwwww,i cant do this to You !
Remember we are the best



Thread: Two pennies for your thoughts ....!!

2306.       CANLI
5084 posts
 16 Feb 2008 Sat 09:22 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting CANLI:

What is going on TC these days?!
People cant actually stand each others !



canli
there were days you were in the same shoes. did you forget?


Femme,pls dont tell me you are arguing with me for the sake of arguing ?!
We have enough in TC now,and i dont think its suitable to add our contribution now!

You open almost any thread and you find people fighting ,and even not same people,but different ones !
Was this THAT normal in TC ?!
PLEASE !
Yes,we had,or may say have our moments, me and you...but it was just you and me,not others,and others..and OTHERS at same time!



Thread: Two pennies for your thoughts ....!!

2307.       CANLI
5084 posts
 16 Feb 2008 Sat 09:03 pm

What is going on TC these days?!
People cant actually stand each others !



Thread: Turkish Men!

2308.       CANLI
5084 posts
 16 Feb 2008 Sat 03:30 am

Quoting thehandsom:


This is a really nice post actually Canli..Well done!!
he, coming to rescue her is a kind of act you see in almost all Turkish man. Somehow we/turkish man believe that women are in need of our help. The belief that they can not protect themselves, which is rooting from the idea that men are the ultimate protector of women and the man is not equal woman, is a generic disease for Turkish men.
You caught it very well.


Thanks handsom
Actually,i dont disagree of the idea that man being protective,its nice to some extent
But not to be driven from the point that women are weak!
İ like it better when he KNOWS she is NOT weak but still he offers his protection !
Ama....
A wise man pick his own armor ,or else better leave it to the woman



Thread: Heaven or Hell?

2309.       CANLI
5084 posts
 16 Feb 2008 Sat 03:01 am

Quoting AEnigma III:




Hmmmm,i knew i am wise somehow lol

As for me,İm Muslim,and i obay my religion's rules,or at least i try!
And i have no problem of being tolerant too because 'Lakom Dinakom ve Lya Dini'
'You have your believes and i have mine'
That is one of the rules too,so i see no problem !



Thread: Heaven or Hell?

2310.       CANLI
5084 posts
 16 Feb 2008 Sat 02:49 am

The only thing i agree with is AEnigma's
İf you dont follow your religion's rules,why do you believe in it ?!
You can always believe in God only,and follow what ever rules it suits you.
Beliving in religion means believing in its rules,if you dont,simply then you dont believe in it!
Or else there would be no different between İslam,Christianity,and Judaism if we all can take our picks and still be believers !
İ mean,all 3 religions based on the idea there is a God,and we believe in HİM.
What is different is our rules...take this out,what would be left ?!!!



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