I wonder where Elisa is..

ablacım!

Agree with all 3 replies, lets say Id be a little less harsh than FF, but still, the essentials she is saying are right.

When a relationship starts, it is impossible to be financially secure for two people, as both were always working hard to be sufficient just for ONE. BUT, when entering a relationship, both parties have to work to a social and financial responsibility that eventually can come together and cover all needed for both parties.

Astry, from what I read so far, this man hasn't thought well before jumping into conclusions. He doesnt have to immediately buy a business, he can also work harder and more and wait till he has enough money to buy on his own, or until the TWO of you have BOTH worked hard to pay 50/50 and own the business together.
To me, based just upon the messages, he is either very irresponsible when it comes to matters of money (definitely not a virtue when living in turkey), or is very naive and thinks this love cant be saved without buying an expensive business rather than working hard, or he just loves your bankaccount more than he loves you.

Please be wise in your decisions, as what seems obvious to us doesnt seem to get through to you.

İĞRENİYORUM BU TARTIŞMADAN!!!! Siz kimsiniz, başkaları hakkında öyle konuşuyorsunuz ki! Vallahi, Türk olmak bu ise, Türk olmak hep Atatürk'ü sevmekse, milliyetçi olmaksa, ırkçılıksa, ÖYLEYSE ne mustuz Türküm diyene!!!!!!!!!!!!

In Holland, a new pill has come on the market, to protect Muslim women who are not virgin anymore. The pill can be received from a doctor, for free, and abotu half an hour till an hour after taking it, the women will start to bleed a red liquid that looks like blood. She bleeds, thus she is a virgin.

However, not all virgins bleed! Maybe in the times where this idea stems from, women bled. The chance of a woman bleeding becomes higher when she is nervous (the marriage-night, in which she will be so nervous bec the family next day will know they have done it and wonder if she bled or not), or unwilling (a pre-arranged marriage, not mentally ready, scared of sex as it was labelled as dirty and a taboo through all her life, and suddenly she has to take part of it).

The pill might be a good sollution to protect the women, but I think it will only keep the misconception of every virgin bleeding, going.