Goner, Ramayan, Kadir37, Jannissary, uYkuSuz, SuiGeneris.. come ooooon don't you all live in Türkiye Please share your information with me. Even Lyndie did, though she isn't a Turkish citizen (yet )

Ohh no, i will definitely buy it there together with Kadir Well, rent.. because if everything goes well i won't need it longer than 1 year

But i'm just trying to have an idea of the amount of money i will have to ask from my parents each month And as i don't get any scolarship..

As for the neighbourhood, Narlıdere or Bornova should do. Probably the first one, as it will be close to Kadir (the second one is close to the uni, but far from Kadir). I prefer to live somewhere close to him so that i will feel more safe, even if this means i will have to travel 45 minutes by PS each day.

Günaydın arkadaşlarım,

I would like if every person here who lives in Turkey, would like to add his/her name to the list and tell me their appartment and the price they pay each month for rent. Forgive me if this is rude to ask, but i need to get some idea in my mind. (You can use either euros or liras, doesn't matter . Btw, if you don't feel like posting it in public, please send me a PM, the information will be safe with me


For example:

Deli_kizin:
- 2 bedrooms, livingroom, kitchen, bathroom, balcony
- 600 liras

Next person:
- Type of appartment/amount of rooms
- price in either euros or liras


My appartment is figurative as i don't have one I just need a 1-person-appartment, but i would like to hear from everybody, even if they live (like Kadir) together with a friend.

Thanks so much in advance

I was just playing and singing that song this morning

What a weird coincedences in this world. Tho the post was not meant for me, i still feel it as weird

Look, it's so simple: if you change the word Religion into Belief when you ask yourself about it. "Do i want to change my belief". Doesn't that sound quite funny? A belief can change within circumstances, things will happen which will make you maybe believe different things, but it's not something you can just 'change' whenever you 'want to' from 'day to day'. It's not like: "Hmm, i don't like the color of my cellphone, let's buy a new front". A belief is something strongly within you and it cannot be just put there like a chip in a computer. It's soemthing that comes from within, not from without.

If you would change your beliefs only for your love, you're not only unfair to your own 'real religion', you're also unfair against the ones who are really muslim, which means you will not be honest against your gf, and you won't be honest against yourself either.

If she keeps insisting on converting to Muslim, i would definitely reconsider your marriage and the girl. Please don't get me wrong or feel hurt, i don't want to judge your love. But religion should never be in the way of love.
Also, i heard that in conservative turkish families, you don't just marry the girl, but you marry her family, symbolically spoken. Please don't get me wrong again I don't want to label her family either and judge peole whom i don't even know. But i think you should think really carefully about it.

Religion is a part of your life. And so is love. If these two seem 'uncombinable', you will face a lot of problems in your life, as it might start to seem you have to choose between her and your religion/God, or that you feel she is choosing between you and Allah. This is a choice that shouldn't be made, even thinking of it, shouldn't exist. There should be space in both of your lives for religion and love. And if that space of her religion makes it more practical if you stop eating pork, then do so. But don't pretend to believe in a god of which you think for yourself isn't there, or is different in your own religion.

You should not ask us. I'm gonna tell you a huge cliché now, but just look in your heart. I believe it holds most answers of human kind.