I think your assumption is somewhat misleading, alameda. Take the case of Ted Bundy. He would pretent to be hurt and when a young girl would try to assist him (assuming they were trying to be kind), he would drag them into his van and later kill them. I don´t think you have to be particularly mean or nice to people like this, they will percieve you as they see things and not necessarily see reality.
Of course, you should always be kind to everyone.....even people you disagree with regularly, on the internet!
Yes, I agree with much of what you say. Each case is unique. Ted Bundy was in a whole other class. He was a psychopath.
"In 1965, Bundy graduated from Woodrow Wilson High. Awarded a scholarship by the University of Puget Sound (UPS), he began that fall taking courses in psychology and Oriental studies. After two semesters at UPS, he decided to transfer to Seattle´s University of Washington (UW).
While he was a university student, Bundy worked as a grocery bagger and shelf-stocker at a Seattle Safeway store on Queen Anne Hill, as well as other odd jobs. As part of his course of studies in psychology, he would later work as a night-shift volunteer at Seattle´s Suicide Hot Line, a suicide crisis center that served the greater Seattle metropolitan and suburban areas. He met and worked alongside former Seattle policewoman and fledgling crime writer Ann Rule, who would later write a biography of Bundy and his crimes, The Stranger Beside Me."
I think we should step lightly. Sometimes we do not really understand how to be kind. We stomp through the forrest with thick boots tramping through the brush, breaking branches (and life contained in it) underneath our feet.
All I´m saying is maybe if we "Try a little tenderness" it can help.
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