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Thread: Turkish girls!!!

3191.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Nov 2007 Wed 09:39 pm

Quoting Trudy:


Ooffff, Saint Alameda is orating!



Sex Diseases Still Rising; Chlamydia Is Leader

Oh really, who is crazy? And who is promoting their values?



Thread: Turkish girls!!!

3192.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Nov 2007 Wed 09:33 pm

This conversation is amazing, and you wonder why Western Women have such a bad reputation in Turkey? Don't you have any sense of modesty or discretion?

Nobody wants used merchandise, nobody. Why do you think billions are spent to be the FIRST on the moon, the First to XXX? Men are famous for being the first to mount Mt Everest. No less would they like to be the second, third, fourth or whatever with their wife.

In the West there is a epidemic of sexually transmitted diseases. Where do you think they come from?

If two people are committed to each other they will learn to work together. Your not talking about buying a new pair of shoes, you are talking about making a committed relationship between human beings.

You certainly are reinforcing the present opinion of Western Women.



Thread: ORDU PERŞEMBE KIŞLAÖNÜ LİMANİ-3

3193.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Nov 2007 Wed 02:13 am

Great photo.



Thread: A fondness for Seccade (Prayer Rug)

3194.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Nov 2007 Wed 02:06 am

The purpose of the prayer carpet is so as to provide a clean place to make Salat, the formal Muslim prayers where different body positions are required. It should not be used on the floor for other purposes.

The prayer carpet is kept folded in a particular manner so as to keep the surface ritually clean. If it becomes unclean, it must be cleaned and purified with water in order to be used again.

A prayer carpet can be recognized by the fact that it points in a direction. That way it can be pointed towards Mecca, giving the user the correct direction to follow. Some prayer carpets even have places for the placement of the head, hands and feet.



Thread: Turkish girls!!!

3195.       alameda
3499 posts
 14 Nov 2007 Wed 01:48 am

Quoting femme_fatal:

people
why dont you take into consideration that there also could be horrible families that no elder would want to stay with?



How true! Elder Abuse is a big problem.

One has to evaluate the environment that produced them. It's not just the family, it's the whole societal infrastructure.



Thread: Turkish girls!!!

3196.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Nov 2007 Tue 10:57 pm

I didn't say it was common, I reported what I saw, and you did not see.

Quoting teaschip1:



It is not common in the states to convert to Muslim, who ever is painting this picture, is totally incorrect. Same as Muslim men converting into Christians, very few.





Thread: Turkish girls!!!

3197.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Nov 2007 Tue 10:27 pm

I am only reporting truthfully what I have seen. I made no value judgements, but reported what I witnessed. If it bothers you, hey that's too bad.

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting alameda:

The men converted to Islam and are close to the women's families.


a really nice happy end, alameda!
we should all seek to convert to islam to be happy

btw, does it also often happen the other way round? muslim men converting into christianity or other religions? or muslim women converting into other religions?
if so whats the reaction of their muslim families?





Thread: Turkish girls!!!

3198.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Nov 2007 Tue 10:24 pm

Quoting teaschip1:

..............
Please put me in a nursing home when I am elderly and unable to take care of myself. I would never put that burden on my children. I believe the parent's job is to raise their children, not to have their children stop their lives to take care of me. Just my thought.



Careful what you wish for Teaschip1, you might just get it. I've seen those facilities that "care" for the elderly and they are horror chambers to say the least!

I used to do volunteer for an organization that visited the elderly in their homes in New York City. It broke my heart it was so tragic.

My job was just to offer company and companionship. Sit and watch TV and visit or listen to their stories. Many of them had children who lived far away and hadn't seen them for years.

New York had great social services at that time. There were house cleaners, meals on wheels to visit them. They still just needed somebody to visit them. I used to think how tragic that these people had raised a family, but the only one visiting them now was me, a stranger.

I would not want to be a burden either, but then children are burdens also. Certainly carrying them 9 months and looking after them for 18 years is a lot of work. I think the integration of the whole family unit through all it's seasons is a healthy family.

Children learn about growing older at an early age. They are not shocked by being segregated into not only color, class, ethnicity, but age they learn from the elders and the elders learn and are kept young by the exposure to the youthful energy.

It has not really been noticed yet, but Senior Communities are really another type of ghetto that robs society of a valuable treasure and blinds society to the reality of life.



Thread: Turkish girls!!!

3199.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Nov 2007 Tue 09:41 pm

You have a point there AEnigma.....I guess we should never mention ANY religion directly in order to keep out of these religious wars. Some react in a particularly vitriolic manner. It does become difficult at times. I just posted about 3 Turkish ladies who married American men. In it I mentioned some of the men converted to Islam. That was mentioned as a historic fact.

Quoting AEnigma III:

Alameda, if people INSIST on turning every thread into a promotion of the beauty of Islam (talking about religion is also against the rules) then you cannot complain when people have opposite views and express them.

I believe this is the first mention of Islam in this thread.

Quoting AlphaF:

Islam does not bar muslim ladies from taking an active role in science, commerce, business etc. Muhammed's first wife was a well known business woman (Hatica) who managed trade caravans running all around the place, all on her own.

What Quran decrees however is that the natural and the best place for any woman is by her family...it is an advice, a divine guidance. Other options are open to personal preference, they are not forbidden.

If some idiots misunderstand, misinterpret and mispractice Islam, it is not Quran's fault.



Thread: Turkish girls!!!

3200.       alameda
3499 posts
 13 Nov 2007 Tue 09:35 pm

I know a few Turkish ladies who married American men. One was quite sad, others successful.

The horrible marriage, her husband beat and abused her. She had two children and had to stay in the country to be near her children, as he wouldn't let them leave the country. She was a "secular" Muslim. She worked hard to support and care for her children, he did not offer very much support, certainly not enough to actually support them. She did an amazing job raising her children, both are now in college and doing well.

Two others married American men and are happy. The men converted to Islam and are close to the women's families.



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