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Thread: Engagements

3241.       alameda
3499 posts
 05 Nov 2007 Mon 04:37 pm

Well, I guess we all have our priorities...hmmm?

Quoting teaschip1:

Quoting kafesteki kus:

Quoting teaschip1:

I happen to love diamonds and believe they are a girls best friend. You can never have too many!


I strongly disagree.Not diamonds but laughter is the girl's best friend



Give me a 2kt diamond and I'll show you laughter. lol



Thread: Engagements

3242.       alameda
3499 posts
 04 Nov 2007 Sun 04:43 am

Quoting AlphaF:

Hey ladies,

The point here is the size of the diamond, not which hand you wear it on ...



I have come to hate diamonds. They are often so contaminated with the blood of those exploited in gaining them. I can not but feel that the pain and dispair of those exploited in the diamond trade can not be good for a happy marriage.

Read about conflict diamonds....I suppose it is possible to find diamonds that are not so tainted, but even then, it's just a hard stone. Give me a clean heart instead.

http://www.un.org/peace/africa/Diamond.html



Thread: Nationalism soars in Turkey

3243.       alameda
3499 posts
 04 Nov 2007 Sun 04:30 am

This is a very depressing thread. I hope and pray that Turkia, with all it's citizens find peace and learn to live, love and prosper together.

Stay united! Don't let others divide you.



Thread: Interesting Divorce Law...??

3244.       alameda
3499 posts
 03 Nov 2007 Sat 01:41 am

Quoting mey0722:

Elisabeth, you said it is uncommon for women with children to work. What about when the child/children are old enough to go to school? Do they still stay home all day while their child is in school? How boring. Remember my American friend I told you about that is unhappily married? His wife has never really worked other than the odd part-time job at times. That is out of choice though, and very rare in the States.



It is truly sad that the role of homemaker has been so devalued. My grandmother stayed home. She raised 4 children. She had a home based business, had a wonderful garden and raised chickens, ducks and rabbits and was always there to care for her children and home. She was an avid reader a poet and wonderful artist.

What can be more interesting than watching and actively taking part in the development of your children?

Great, women can have careers now. Do you think being a homemaker is not a career? Now we have frozen dinners (made for profit,not nutrition), garments that don't fit. Children that are in the care of others most of the time. Parents hardly have time to interact with each other, much less their children.



Thread: Interesting Divorce Law...??

3245.       alameda
3499 posts
 02 Nov 2007 Fri 06:21 am

Quoting Badiabdancer74:

I just asked a similar question maybe 1 month ago and didn't get nearly the response............There is also 'forced' marriage from what I understand. If a traditional daddy finds out or suspects a boyfriend has had sex with, or it even appears they have been intimate they can call the boyfriend's father and put on political pressure. Then the parents take over and decide they should get married (this is my understanding).........



True Badiadancer....I have seen people coerced into getting married based only on having been alone. One case I saw the young lady tricked the young man into being in an unsupervised area with her. She feigned being ill, fell into his arms. He drove her home. They were alone in the car. That was some years ago, but it probably still happens.

She really wanted him....and she got him, for a while anyway.



Thread: Hamsi

3246.       alameda
3499 posts
 02 Nov 2007 Fri 12:24 am

Yes, I've heard about hamsi, never got a chance to try it though. I've heard they do amazing things with it.



Thread: Interesting Divorce Law...??

3247.       alameda
3499 posts
 02 Nov 2007 Fri 12:08 am

Quoting mey0722:

I think women get half of a man's assets in California. Tough state to go through a divorce!!



In CA a man can get alimony as easily as a woman. In fact if one of the parties is not employed, and the other is, they are required to support the unemployed one. It is automatic.

CA is a community property state. Anything has to be split 50/50. That includes intellectual property. There are degrees though. Up to 5 years it is called a dissolution and there is less property split. At 10 years it's much more serious. Unless you are very careful, everything, even inherited assets become community property.

Both parties are liable for the others bills. It is really quite complicated. I'd seriously advise anyone contemplating getting married, or moving to CA, consider what they are getting into.

Even if you wed in a none community property state, or country, once you get to CA, it's community property.



Thread: Interesting Divorce Law...??

3248.       alameda
3499 posts
 01 Nov 2007 Thu 10:00 pm

Divorce is never easy or pleasant.

Even though it may seem to be easy....it is not.

Take a look here at some of the forms that have to be filled out. This is a link to Nolos legal books. They have books on how to do your own divorce in most states. This is only the one for California.

How to Do Your Own Divorce in California



Thread: Turkish e-bay

3249.       alameda
3499 posts
 01 Nov 2007 Thu 09:51 pm

I found this dealer who is from Turkey and accepts PayPal. It says they are in Istanbul, Turkey....

sunnymailbox



Thread: Türban protokolde

3250.       alameda
3499 posts
 01 Nov 2007 Thu 09:05 pm

That reminds me of the Audrey Hepburn style...very chic

Audrey Hepburn



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