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Thread: Women cannot marry men they want

581.       alameda
3499 posts
 09 Oct 2010 Sat 08:11 am

 Ummm....are you saying gender plays no part in the biological differences between males and females? In that case, what do you think plays a role in those differences?

Quoting Daydreamer

 ............... Apart from biology (that isn´t actually ruled by gender), men and women should have the same right and responsibilities. ....................

 

 

 

 



Thread: Women cannot marry men they want

582.       alameda
3499 posts
 09 Oct 2010 Sat 08:06 am

 I wish I knew, and if I did, I wish I were able to articulate in an easily understandable manner, but I don´t and can´t. However, the caricature represented in some of today´s cultures doesn´t seem to be it either.

Differences are more than just physical. Each, male and female, have unique strengths, maybe an exploration of those would be a good idea?

What do you think Stumpy? Have you given it much thought, or done much research?

Quoting stumpy

 

 Please alameda, enlighten us about what a proper feminin woman is!

 

 



Edited (10/9/2010) by alameda [,]



Thread: Little something for each one of you

583.       alameda
3499 posts
 09 Oct 2010 Sat 02:19 am

Bookmarked....thank you AlphaF

Quoting AlphaF

This one is for oeince and alameda....both very kind !

http://www.turkishmusicportal.org/list_songs.php?type=1       Wink

 

 

 



Thread: Little something for each one of you

584.       alameda
3499 posts
 09 Oct 2010 Sat 02:08 am

 

Quoting AlphaF

I am great, no?   {#emotions_dlg.alcoholics}

 

 Yes Cool



Thread: Women cannot marry men they want

585.       alameda
3499 posts
 09 Oct 2010 Sat 01:48 am

From reading Yaşar Kemal, it seems Eastern Anatolia is very difficult and inhospitable area. Is that correct, and wouldn´t that be an issue as well? It seems getting around, managing resources and all would contribute to a general isolation and poverty. We see similar issues in other places, like the Ozarks in the US, the mountainous areas of Mexico.

Quoting AlphaF

 

Assuming a feudal structure leads to arranged, or sometimes forced marriages, only because the feudal lords are total idiots or that they are plain sadists is an oversimplification.

Main motive here is to keep family land within the family.

 

I heard that same attidude used to be valid among Brits too;  ie. first son inherited all of the land, the second son was educated to become a politician or a soldier, the third one had to go to India to look for his fortune.

 

 

 

 



Edited (10/9/2010) by alameda [sp]



Thread: Little something for each one of you

586.       alameda
3499 posts
 09 Oct 2010 Sat 01:30 am

I just downloaded it and then clicked on what I wanted to listen to. It came up in Windows Media Player. I used winzip for that. What unzip program do you have?

Quoting oeince

It didnt work with me, what am i supposed to do for this?

 

 



Thread: Little something for each one of you

587.       alameda
3499 posts
 09 Oct 2010 Sat 01:28 am

Fabulous!!!  AlphaF....it´s hard to hear classical music today .....thanks to you I am now listening to Bartok

Quoting AlphaF

The music here can be listened to as back ground music, while you are busy with other on-line activities.

 

 



Thread: can any body advise me please

588.       alameda
3499 posts
 09 Oct 2010 Sat 12:41 am

 So sad to hear that. It would depend on where she is....different countries have different processes. Even in places like the USA, each state has different processes and laws.

Quoting bella2509

i have a friend that married a turkish man in aug this year, she has only know him for 6 months and visited him for 5 weeks in that time , she is english, she now regrets marrying him and wants to get out of this marriage, is there a easy way for her  to end this  marriage or does she have to wait the 2 years before she can divorce him. any advise would be help full please.

 

 



Thread: Women cannot marry men they want

589.       alameda
3499 posts
 09 Oct 2010 Sat 12:07 am

Not only that, but there are hardly any Muslimah voices here....When they have spoken they have been belittled and demeaned told they are oppressed, stupid or just misinformed....I miss dear Canli, Elham, Azade...to name a few. They tried so hard but left hurt and frustrated. It is a fact the loudest voices here are "liberated" Western women who seem to feel they are the experts on what constitutes proper femininity.

Quoting oeince

Quote: lemon

Im on this site since 2006 and I havent seen many Turkish female members here. As if they got no voice.

 

Isn´t it? Just like non Turkish males

 

 



Thread: Women cannot marry men they want

590.       alameda
3499 posts
 08 Oct 2010 Fri 11:58 pm

 This is one of the issues I have had a hard time on here....it seems "Western" women don´t see the differences between males and females. It is no question regarding equality, but rather differences in endowments, and a recognition of those. The difference between XX and XY.....there is a difference you know?

Please don´t ask me to have to enumerate those differences, I don´t have the time, and a search on the term gender differences should be rewarding.

Quoting Daydreamer

What different rights and responsibilities do you mean? I thought we all have the same rights and responsibilities, regardless of gender

 

 



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