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Is it possible to develop a real and pure friendship with a guy?
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15 Nov 2005 Tue 04:07 pm |
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I have many girl friends. But I have never really tried developing friendship with a guy. Not even one I think. I dont know, Im afraid maybe.
However, Im always trying to speculate that this is possible without developing any further or intimate relationship in the future. Yes, I believe so.
Met several guys - work, meetings, everywhere but relating to them is only just skin deep. I always think - guys will never spend time with some women if they dont have any attraction or feeling towards them. So if I cant develop real one - forget it!
But Im still hopeful that one day this thing / this speculation would come into reality.
I hope....
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15 Nov 2005 Tue 04:22 pm |
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Of course, it isn't possible to develop any relationship with a guy as long as you think and believe so.
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15 Nov 2005 Tue 04:56 pm |
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As nice as it sounds, in my opinion it never happens! The guy always wants more, at some stage along the line. I have even had a certain male from class site tell me that unless I have a relationship with him he will not be friends with me, and now does not want to speak to me. I find this very sad as men and women should be about to be friends, without any complications.
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15 Nov 2005 Tue 05:46 pm |
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Quoting Lindaxxx: I have even had a certain male from class site tell me that unless I have a relationship with him he will not be friends with me, and now does not want to speak to me. I find this very sad as men and women should be about to be friends, without any complications. |
My god, that is pathetic!! What a sad person. I think you're better of with him not speaking to you, LindaXXX! 
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15 Nov 2005 Tue 05:52 pm |
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It is a shame Elisa, as I thought that he was a really nice person, and was happy to be friends. Like you said, it's just not worth it. 
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16 Nov 2005 Wed 05:17 am |
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heyy dont worry to close them...we boys not a dragon....we dont eat girls at the first glance...im kidding ...anyway you shouldnt afraid of boys...they are also human beings and you should also have boy friends....just suppose them as your brother.bye
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16 Nov 2005 Wed 10:31 am |
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Quoting ramayan: heyy dont worry to close them...we boys not a dragon....we dont eat girls at the first glance...im kidding ...anyway you shouldnt afraid of boys...they are also human beings and you should also have boy friends....just suppose them as your brother.bye |
yeah... i agree with this u know.. and have actually treated a lot of my male friends like a "brother" or just a friend... but they always seem to make it seem otherwise.. its very annoying... i think i should just stick to the laydeez now  hehe
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16 Nov 2005 Wed 12:06 pm |
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itchy ceyda...anybody wants to scratch her...
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16 Nov 2005 Wed 12:07 pm |
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that sounds a bit scary... hehe
i get what u mean... and no man.. thats not the case... trust me on that... 
anyway.. i will brb... 5 mins ok??
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16 Nov 2005 Wed 12:12 pm |
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thx i think you began to care me why?????
am i interesting...????
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