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Is it possible to develop a real and pure friendship with a guy?
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19 Nov 2005 Sat 01:42 pm |
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Miss Ceyda,
You are mixing it all up !
Why dont you read my enlightened post?...it is only a couple of messages above yours..
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19 Nov 2005 Sat 02:08 pm |
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Im so sad to hear that Aslan. I can't imagine how hard that for you or how you regret that it happened.
Yes should i be able to find a real one - I shall take noteo of your advice.
Thank you.
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19 Nov 2005 Sat 02:11 pm |
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Thank you, Dhang, for your concern.
And I am glad if my sad experience could be useful to someone in order to not make the same mistake.
/Aslan
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07 Dec 2005 Wed 07:10 pm |
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You cannot help but make mistakes in life - it is how we all learn and love is one of the hardest lessons of all 
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08 Dec 2005 Thu 09:38 am |
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Quoting dhang: I have many girl friends. But I have never really tried developing friendship with a guy. Not even one I think. I dont know, Im afraid maybe.
However, Im always trying to speculate that this is possible without developing any further or intimate relationship in the future. Yes, I believe so.
Met several guys - work, meetings, everywhere but relating to them is only just skin deep. I always think - guys will never spend time with some women if they dont have any attraction or feeling towards them. So if I cant develop real one - forget it!
But Im still hopeful that one day this thing / this speculation would come into reality.
I hope....
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ummmm hard to say.....but dont worry.....look at me.....im a hungry dragon....i can eat u....we men are not dragons or snakes....we are also human beings....dont u have a brother...if you have look him....he must be also human being..... i dont understand....its in your hands to make a friendship deeper and joyful...if you behave men as a dragon they will also behave same.....and if you want a skin deep friendship they will give you wad u want....so ask for more......and take more......just try....do ur best... uu will smile then....
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09 Dec 2005 Fri 08:04 am |
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Hi Ramayan,
That was a wonderful analysis on developing friendship with men. You made a big point there and Im actually speechless.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on me.
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09 Dec 2005 Fri 12:29 pm |
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Quoting dhang: Hi Ramayan,
That was a wonderful analysis on developing friendship with men. You made a big point there and Im actually speechless.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on me.
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ouh u made me blush....i began to consider myself like a philosopher.....am i descartes????or who???
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09 Dec 2005 Fri 01:33 pm |
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Quoting AlphaF: GAME THEORY
The oldest game ever in the history of mankind is the one played between Ladies and Gentlemen.
The game has few variations. Novice players may be hurt,if they fail to recognize the type of game they are involved in or if they are not sufficiently aware of the governing game rules.
Variations of the game can be listed as,
Casual intimacy,
Relationship,
Love.
They have some features in common, but they also display significant differences in philosophy, meaning, rules and tactics. Each has to be mastered, before any enjoyment is possible.
No pain, no gain !  |
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09 Dec 2005 Fri 01:36 pm |
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Quoting AlphaF: GAME THEORY
The oldest game ever in the history of mankind is the one played between Ladies and Gentlemen.
The game has few variations. Novice players may be hurt,if they fail to recognize the type of game they are involved in or if they are not sufficiently aware of the governing game rules.
Variations of the game can be listed as,
Casual intimacy,
Relationship,
Love.
They have some features in common, but they also display significant differences in philosophy, meaning, rules and tactics. Each has to be mastered, before any enjoyment is possible.
No pain, no gain ! |
Wonderful Alpha. You have revealed you are a 'player' in the true sense! Forgive me, not a mere player, but a Master.
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