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Life of a Turkish Man
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 01:52 pm |
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Oh my word ... i think that that post could be true of both english and turkish young men (apart from the death before divorce thing)loved your post very very true speaking as a 28 year old ex barman believe me i know
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 01:55 pm |
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Quoting cassie: [Quoting subconscious:
Yes for making love because it is very dificult for some woman to have a sex partner in their countries.
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Does this not apply to some Turkish men! who do not work in the tourist resorts?Perphaps you should get a job at a turkish resort subconscious,then you would not have to use MSN for your " hot chats"
Please Subconscious don't tar all men and all women with the same brush. |
ohh hot chat on msn!... yes I like.. and I don't have to get a job at a resort for making love. what do you know about me! and please don't personalize things! I speak in general.
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 02:12 pm |
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Let's quit this part of discussion. It's impossible to say that only women or only men are guilty and are they guilty anyway?
1. Woman on holiday and holiday-resort-man have a wild night. They never see eachother anymore, but think back with a smile on that night. Now is anyone guilty?
2. Holiday-resort-man whispers romantic love words to woman on holiday, she is flattered and they make love the next night. Then she sees that man flirting with other girls the next day. Now, is it only him being guilty? No, she should not have expected 'full commitment' from him in the first place.
If you are a holiday-resort-man and you don't want to break women's hearts, then don't speak to them in a way only true lovers do. And for the women, if you give signs for 'easy access' then u mustn't complain about being used either.
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 02:12 pm |
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Quote: [Subconscious
I also want to say that not only resort boys are not educated well but also girls enjoy spend time with these boys are not educated well.
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you must have meet a lot of girls from other countries subconcious! Who have been with resort boys.For you to know and make this comment about them also being uneducated.
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 02:14 pm |
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Everyone is right about this latest turn to the discussion. Everyone has their reasons for what they do on holiday and everyone is free to do what they want to do on holiday, without fear of criticism. BUT the thread was about the lives of Turkish men working in holiday resorts; what their lives are really like, why they do the things that they do and the reason people (Turkish, English and everybody else) should undersatnd their lives. Maybe there should be a different thread about the so called 'morals' of everyone concerned and a lively and interesting debate it would be. But if you have a comment. (and now the voice of the Evil Moderator) - be sure that your comments are non judgmental, impersonal and objective, because I can see the potential for a lot of insulting and offensive words here if people are not careful what they say.
So who will start the new thread? 
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 02:21 pm |
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Everything said above is true, more or less. But I really don't understand what education has to do with it. Having graduated from a university doesn't mean that you are also educated in life. And vise versa.
Somebody's ethics have nothing to do with his studies. And why do we have to complain? If we go there looking for a sexual adventure, that's what we ll get. If not, then nobody is going to touch us. And this is the same in every country in the world.
I agree with Lyndie. Some of these men are really living and working under terrible conditions. And they are not to be blamed. As for education, what really matters for me, is the 'master degree' you get in life. Not in a university. 
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 02:28 pm |
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Bravo Sophie, well said. Problem var in Turkey degrees from the University of life don't really get you anywhere 
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 02:42 pm |
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Quoting subconscious: I also want to say that not only resort boys are not educated well but also girls enjoy spend time with these boys are not educated well. |
i think it is not only about education it is also about manners.
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 02:57 pm |
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It is about everything that has been discussed here.
Every person is different. Everybody sees things in a different way. Everybody thinks in a different way. Everybody has a different level of intellect and education.
Everybody's family life is different. Therefore everyone takes something different away from every experience.
Nobody is right or wrong - everyone is a guilty or innocent in any sort of relationship - wether sexual or not.
We all have choices in life - it is up to us all to behave in a responsible way to other human beings in every situation. We should learn to treat others as we wish to be treated. You generally get back what you give in life.
Take care of yourself and care for others, and hopefully the rewards are there.
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 03:10 pm |
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Quoting Boop: It is about everything that has been discussed here.
Every person is different. Everybody sees things in a different way. Everybody thinks in a different way. Everybody has a different level of intellect and education.
Everybody's family life is different. Therefore everyone takes something different away from every experience.
Nobody is right or wrong - everyone is a guilty or innocent in any sort of relationship - wether sexual or not.
We all have choices in life - it is up to us all to behave in a responsible way to other human beings in every situation. We should learn to treat others as we wish to be treated. You generally get back what you give in life.
Take care of yourself and care for others, and hopefully the rewards are there.
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I agree with you, girl. And i also agree with Sophie and Lyndie.
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22 Apr 2006 Sat 07:14 pm |
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Quoting sophie:
As for education, what really matters for me, is the 'master degree' you get in life. Not in a university. |
I'd agree with you if their highschool education and their family education were good, and if they were the kind of people that are open to learning new things in life, I mean the kind of things that would make them develop into intellectual people. There're people like that who couldn't have high education, but read a lot and made themselves a cultured person. But most of the uneducated people are not like this, I don't totally blame them, but it's the reality when I see the things in an objective way. I value the personality and the humanity of a person very much, but education is a different thing.
Be sure that most of them, whom we talk about, don't get the master degree in their life as well. It's a very goodwilled approach but far from reality...
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