Wouldn´t you prefer someone who hadn´t cheated on you though? It´s your call.  Good luck anyway.

i thnk helal is the oppisite of haram, helal means okay or acceptable in religion i think :S, it means lawful or okay, so maybe when you described your feelings she said its not helal (heheh)at least thats what it means in arabic

 Helal means permissable/legitimate, lawful under Islamic law.

so i was right! its like in arabic but most islamic terms are

 Sorry doudi - I didn´t see your post!

I cannot generalize all girls depending just on nationality, but it´s very rare, much rarer than boys that turkish girls date with a foreign guy. It´s not impossible, there are some examples, I saw a few girls who got married to a foreign guy and the guys did not even change their religion, however they were free girls, I mean not religious, drinking alcohol and working girls who got high education as well. Otherwise turkish girls often prefer turkish boys to marry, even being muslim is not enough. So, even if she likes and loves you, she might not prefer to stay with you, because often for turkish girls marriage is the biggest goal in their lives and a serious relationship should lead to marriage,  and they usually want to date with a potential husband. She tries a lot of men to pick the best one among them maybe and she cannot see you as a potential husband. So, she thinks, you are not worth her time and efforts.

But, they are just my assumptions, I just said one of the possible reasons. Maybe the reason is totally different. We do not know anything about this girl. Maybe she just likes dating with men. Where is this girl,  in Turkey or in a foreign country?

I just read your other post, if she talks about "helal", then I´m sorry to tell you this but there´s no hope with this girl... If you really want to be with her, you should definitely convert to Islam.

Oh boy, the saying is usually true once a cheat always a cheat.  Do you really think she will change her behavior?  It sounds like if you keep taking her back your almost enableing her.  Sending a message that it´s ok to sh_t you.  I believe in forgiveness but my gosh twice now..Is this the kind of girl you want to spend the rest of your life with?  If so, you must not think alot of yourself.  Of course this is just my opinion, not trying to be harsh on you.

Good luck with whatever you decide.

 sorry to hear that but if she was cheaing woow she is not into you for a candidate for a husband.

 I am sorry, but let me clearify thisfor you a bit. "Haram" means serious sin which God in the Quran forbides and a preson will be puniched for this in this life or hereafter. "Halal" , on the other hand means the opposite so it is what Allah wants us to do, meaning avoiding evils things which brings one closer to God and makes him a better beliverwith true faith. 

P.S. I do not know what is your belief, but you have to learn more anout her religion  as well. Good Luck.

 Actually, helal does not mean something that Allah wants us to do. It means it is something permitted. There are degrees of helal, the lowest being makruh, but permitted. For instance, divorce is helal, but mekruh.