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1.       chiko
135 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 01:58 pm

Turks reveal xenophobic, conservative attitudes in poll

Turks are xenophobic, socially conservative people who rarely read books, relegate women to second-class status and harbour ambivalent views about democracy, contentious new research has revealed.

The unflattering picture has emerged from a survey by one of Turkey´s most respected polling organisations, Konda, which interviewed 6,482 people.

Some 73% opposed allowing foreigners to own Turkish land or property, while nine out of 10 said they had never taken a holiday abroad. Just under 70% said they never read books, and 72% said they never or rarely bought new hi-tech products as soon they appeared on the market. Many also expressed fears that Turkey´s neighbours planned to carve up the country.

Nearly 70% said wives needed their husband´s permission to work while 57% believed that a female should never leave home wearing a sleeveless top. More than half - 53% - favoured allowing women judges, prosecutors, teachers and other public servants to wear the Islamic headscarf on duty, something Turkey´s secular constitution forbids.

While 88% agreed that Turkey should be governed by democracy "under each and every condition", this was undermined by the significant proportion - 48% - who said the military should intervene "when necessary". The powerful armed forces have toppled four elected governments in coups in the past 50 years.

The survey, entitled Who Are We?, was conducted on behalf of Hurriyet, one of Turkey´s biggest selling newspapers, renowned for its secularist outlook.

Tarhan Erdem, senior analyst with Konda, said the research was aimed at understanding ongoing social transformation and seeing whether Turkey was the country many of its people thought they knew. The high support for military intervention showed Turks had reservations about democracy, he said, while attitudes towards women exposed a lack of gender equality. "The data shows that women aren´t free in their private lives," Erdem said.

Ahmet Insel, a columnist with Radikal newspaper, said opposition to foreign travel and property ownership stemmed from a preoccupation with the 1919-1923 war of independence that established modern Turkey.

"We think the war of independence is still under way, so it´s no surprise we are xenophobic. We´re still fighting foreigners," he said.

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/feb/23/turks--conservative-poll

 

 

2.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 02:12 pm

 

Quoting chiko

Turks reveal xenophobic, conservative attitudes in poll

Turks are xenophobic, socially conservative people who rarely read books, relegate women to second-class status and harbour ambivalent views about democracy, contentious new research has revealed.

The unflattering picture has emerged from a survey by one of Turkey´s most respected polling organisations, Konda, which interviewed 6,482 people.

Some 73% opposed allowing foreigners to own Turkish land or property, while nine out of 10 said they had never taken a holiday abroad. Just under 70% said they never read books, and 72% said they never or rarely bought new hi-tech products as soon they appeared on the market. Many also expressed fears that Turkey´s neighbours planned to carve up the country.

Nearly 70% said wives needed their husband´s permission to work while 57% believed that a female should never leave home wearing a sleeveless top. More than half - 53% - favoured allowing women judges, prosecutors, teachers and other public servants to wear the Islamic headscarf on duty, something Turkey´s secular constitution forbids.

While 88% agreed that Turkey should be governed by democracy "under each and every condition", this was undermined by the significant proportion - 48% - who said the military should intervene "when necessary". The powerful armed forces have toppled four elected governments in coups in the past 50 years.

The survey, entitled Who Are We?, was conducted on behalf of Hurriyet, one of Turkey´s biggest selling newspapers, renowned for its secularist outlook.

Tarhan Erdem, senior analyst with Konda, said the research was aimed at understanding ongoing social transformation and seeing whether Turkey was the country many of its people thought they knew. The high support for military intervention showed Turks had reservations about democracy, he said, while attitudes towards women exposed a lack of gender equality. "The data shows that women aren´t free in their private lives," Erdem said.

Ahmet Insel, a columnist with Radikal newspaper, said opposition to foreign travel and property ownership stemmed from a preoccupation with the 1919-1923 war of independence that established modern Turkey.

"We think the war of independence is still under way, so it´s no surprise we are xenophobic. We´re still fighting foreigners," he said.

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/feb/23/turks--conservative-poll

 

 

 

Nothing to add from my part..

I am glad It was you brought this up. not me..

3.       chiko
135 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 02:22 pm

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

Nothing to add from my part..

I am glad It was you brought this up. not me..

 

Hehe well i hope Dear patriots wont insult me for sending this as they did to you i wouldnt be as patient as you!

4.       libralady
5152 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 02:25 pm

 

Quoting chiko

Turks reveal xenophobic, conservative attitudes in poll

Turks are xenophobic, socially conservative people who rarely read books, relegate women to second-class status and harbour ambivalent views about democracy, contentious new research has revealed.

The unflattering picture has emerged from a survey by one of Turkey´s most respected polling organisations, Konda, which interviewed 6,482 people.

Some 73% opposed allowing foreigners to own Turkish land or property, while nine out of 10 said they had never taken a holiday abroad. Just under 70% said they never read books, and 72% said they never or rarely bought new hi-tech products as soon they appeared on the market. Many also expressed fears that Turkey´s neighbours planned to carve up the country.

Nearly 70% said wives needed their husband´s permission to work while 57% believed that a female should never leave home wearing a sleeveless top. More than half - 53% - favoured allowing women judges, prosecutors, teachers and other public servants to wear the Islamic headscarf on duty, something Turkey´s secular constitution forbids.

While 88% agreed that Turkey should be governed by democracy "under each and every condition", this was undermined by the significant proportion - 48% - who said the military should intervene "when necessary". The powerful armed forces have toppled four elected governments in coups in the past 50 years.

The survey, entitled Who Are We?, was conducted on behalf of Hurriyet, one of Turkey´s biggest selling newspapers, renowned for its secularist outlook.

Tarhan Erdem, senior analyst with Konda, said the research was aimed at understanding ongoing social transformation and seeing whether Turkey was the country many of its people thought they knew. The high support for military intervention showed Turks had reservations about democracy, he said, while attitudes towards women exposed a lack of gender equality. "The data shows that women aren´t free in their private lives," Erdem said.

Ahmet Insel, a columnist with Radikal newspaper, said opposition to foreign travel and property ownership stemmed from a preoccupation with the 1919-1923 war of independence that established modern Turkey.

"We think the war of independence is still under way, so it´s no surprise we are xenophobic. We´re still fighting foreigners," he said.

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/feb/23/turks--conservative-poll

 

 

 

 This is horrendous reading!  70% have never read a book??? Wow did they not go to school?  And the attittudes, I must say I am quite shocked by this report.

 

The URL does not work, I wanted to find out who they targeted and how many particpated.



Edited (2/23/2009) by libralady [Added further]
Edited (2/23/2009) by libralady [Embarassingly noticed the numbers at the beginning of the article]

5.       chiko
135 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 02:31 pm

 

Quoting libralady

 

The URL does not work, I wanted to find out who they targeted and how many particpated.

 

you can click on "article history" to go to the page

6.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 02:36 pm

That´s a very interesting read. Thanks, Chico! Now it´s easier to understand some Turkish memebrs here who fit that survey perfectly.

7.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 05:09 pm

UMMMM.....they could have just come to TC on a regular basis to figure this out!  {#lang_emotions_shy}

 

Are we all shocked now? {#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

So now I am expecting some member to come and post some survey about the evils of Western countries now....but oh well!  This is definately interesting.

8.       libralady
5152 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 05:14 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

UMMMM.....they could have just come to TC on a regular basis to figure this out!  {#lang_emotions_shy}

 

Are we all shocked now? {#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

So now I am expecting some member to come and post some survey about the evils of Western countries now....but oh well!  This is definately interesting.

 

 "Sucks air in through teeth" {#lang_emotions_scared}

9.       adana
416 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 05:55 pm

Interesting read,if it was conducted in my country the polltakers probably would receive the same results as far as reading goes.

I have some questions concerning this survey

1.How representative is the number 6482 for the whole Turkish population?

2.Why in this article I can´t find anything about respondents,their age,sex,social  and economic status?{#lang_emotions_unsure}These data are important to form an opinion.

3.What is the percentage of University goers and school kids in Turkey

Grateful if someone could provide an answer



Edited (2/23/2009) by adana [light))]

10.       lady in red
6947 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 06:17 pm

 

Quoting libralady

 

 

 This is horrendous reading!  70% have never read a book??? Wow did they not go to school?  And the attittudes, I must say I am quite shocked by this report.

 

The URL does not work, I wanted to find out who they targeted and how many particpated.

 

I wouldn´t mind betting the number of illiterate people in the UK would come as a shock to a lot of people (and - no - I don´t personally have any idea how many there are)  And we are (or were) supposed to have one of the best education systems in the world. 

 

Sorry - this might be a bit offtopic - just pointing out that Turkey would not be the only country were a lot of people haven´t read a book

 

I found something: here  ´An "unacceptably high" number of adults cannot read, write or add up, despite billions of pounds being spent on improving basic skills, MPs have warned´



Edited (2/23/2009) by lady in red [added link]

11.       chiko
135 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 06:23 pm

 

Quoting adana

Interesting read,if it was conducted in my country the polltakers probably would receive the same results as far as reading goes.

I have some questions concerning this survey

1.How representative is the number 6482 for the whole Turkish population?

2.Why in this article I can´t find anything about respondents,their age,sex,social  and economic status?{#lang_emotions_unsure}These data are important to form an opinion.

3.What is the percentage of University goers and school kids in Turkey

Grateful if someone could provide an answer

 

They must be using one of survey methods or many of them together. you can call them to get details  Konda is the best survey company of turkey, belive me they are not traitor and believe me what the Guardian does is not trying to divide Turkey as most turkish would think

12.       Trudy
7887 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 07:29 pm

Interesting post Chiko! Thanks.

 

And still no comments from erm.... the ´real´ Turks? lol lol

13.       mltm
3690 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 08:14 pm

This survey does not reveal a new thing. It´s not very interesting. Everyone who lives in or knows Turkey knows about these.

Turkish population is not homogene, and it´s 70 million.  the number of people who are literate and woman equalist are as well millions which is as many as some of the small countries´ population.

-Some 73% opposed allowing foreigners to own Turkish land or property

Is this xenophobia??? 

 

-while nine out of 10 said they had never taken a holiday abroad.

Could this be simply because they do not have money even for a holiday in their own country?

 

-Just under 70% said they never read books

This one is worrying, but nothing new. We all know already that education is a major problem in Turkey.

 

-72% said they never or rarely bought new hi-tech products as soon they appeared on the market.

Could the reason be again financial???

 

 

-Many also expressed fears that Turkey´s neighbours planned to carve up the country.

Well, just compare where Turkey geographically stands and where Germany stands. It´s not paranoia.

 

-Nearly 70% said wives needed their husband´s permission to work while 57% believed that a female should never leave home wearing a sleeveless top. More than half - 53% - favoured allowing women judges, prosecutors, teachers and other public servants to wear the Islamic headscarf on duty, something Turkey´s secular constitution forbids.

These are worrying results which we already know. I guess in these 6000 people surveyed there were people coming from every background.

 

-While 88% agreed that Turkey should be governed by democracy "under each and every condition", this was undermined by the significant proportion - 48% - who said the military should intervene "when necessary".

So???? This is not worrying. They did not say "sharia".

 

14.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 08:23 pm

I can´t believe any of this

It is all a nasty vicious lie, designed to alienate the evil west from Turkey.  Chiko!  I am surprised you posted this evil nazi propaganda! {#lang_emotions_get_you}

15.       adana
416 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 08:32 pm

 

Quoting chiko

 

 

They must be using one of survey methods or many of them together. you can call them to get details  Konda is the best survey company of turkey, belive me they are not traitor and believe me what the Guardian does is not trying to divide Turkey as most turkish would think

 

 I do not undermine credibility of Konda and straightforward facts provided by this poll.What I undermine is article itself ,a typical example of decline of journalistic standards,for me informative article is giving background for such kind of survey.And this article lacks it seriously.That is why I came up with my questions.

Talking about xenophobia in the light of financial problems and visa requirements for Turks introduced by most of countries changes its understanding provided in the article.

Without data  about interviewed ones and their socio-economic background it turns into trival editorial.



Edited (2/23/2009) by adana [adding sth]
Edited (2/24/2009) by adana [like changes]

16.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 08:39 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

I can´t believe any of this

It is all a nasty vicious lie, designed to alienate the evil west from Turkey.  Chiko!  I am surprised you posted this evil nazi propaganda! {#lang_emotions_get_you}

 

 Go back to your laundry, woman!!{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

17.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 09:10 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 Go back to your laundry, woman!!{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

 OK

18.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 10:35 pm

 

-Some 73% opposed allowing foreigners to own Turkish land or property

Is this xenophobia??? 

 

Yes it is..

 

-while nine out of 10 said they had never taken a holiday abroad.

Could this be simply because they do not have money even for a holiday in their own country?

Agreed on this..

 

-Just under 70% said they never read books

This one is worrying, but nothing new. We all know already that education is a major problem in Turkey.

Agreed on this too..Even daily news paper circulation is quite low..Somehow everybody relied on crap tv news and coffee house chats about the politics

 

 

-72% said they never or rarely bought new hi-tech products as soon they appeared on the market.

Could the reason be again financial???

I am not sure on that..They follow the technology very well regardless their financial situation when it comes to mobile phones..

 

 

-Many also expressed fears that Turkey´s neighbours planned to carve up the country.

Well, just compare where Turkey geographically stands and where Germany stands. It´s not paranoia.

It is a paranoia. Because of our geographical position, do we need spend our lives with that pumped up fear? There is a  deliberate fuelling by the nationalists. 

 

-Nearly 70% said wives needed their husband´s permission to work while 57% believed that a female should never leave home wearing a sleeveless top. More than half - 53% - favoured allowing women judges, prosecutors, teachers and other public servants to wear the Islamic headscarf on duty, something Turkey´s secular constitution forbids.

These are worrying results which we already know. I guess in these 6000 people surveyed there were people coming from every background.

Results to cry for..

 

-While 88% agreed that Turkey should be governed by democracy "under each and every condition", this was undermined by the significant proportion - 48% - who said the military should intervene "when necessary".

So???? This is not worrying. They did not say "sharia".

That is deeply worrying..

19.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 23 Feb 2009 Mon 11:54 pm

 

Turks are xenophobic, socially conservative people who rarely read books, relegate women to second-class status and harbour ambivalent views about democracy, contentious new research has revealed.

A fine example of bogus journalism. The article offers no information as to the demographic breakdown of the participants, the list of the questions, how the wording was done, and how & where, as well as according to what criteria, the participants were selected. Nevertheless, the repsonses of the 6000 something people were immediately distorted & interpreted as Turks having conservative & xenophobic attitudes. Turks are so conservative that any night club in any of the 3 major cities, Istanbul, Izmir and Ankara, where a significant portion of the whole population resides, would be filled with girls dressed in the most provocative manner in mini skirts, see-thoughs, visible thongs etc causing instant woodies among the opposite gender. It is so conservative that the public beaches, as well as the resort areas, tolerate both micro-bikinis and topless sun-bathers. So conservative that nipple-see-throughs & accidental upskirt incidences are a part of the daily repertoire for most of the female tv show hosts. So xenophobic that tourists are welcomed and treated warmly by Turks. So conservative that, it is the only Muslim country in the world, where 99 percent are Muslims, and yet they consume quite a bit alcohol. So conservative that, while I have to get my liquor from a state-liquor store in Canada, as well as in many US states, an 8 year-ol can run to the local convenience store to buy a six-pack of beer or a bottle of whiskey for his father without any hassle. So conservative, by Islamic standards, that Turkey produces, consumes & exports its own beer, wine, raki and vodka. So conservative that you can buy & eat pork products freely. So heretic that you can actually buy liquor almost 24 hours of the day in the 3 major cities. In Canada, for example, the state-liquor store does not open until 12 am on Sundays in honour of acknowledging the obligation of going to church on Sundays. Then, after five hours, the store closes at five in the afternoon, and one cannot get alchohol anywhere else but at a bar or a restaurant. Supermarkets do not sell alchohol in many provinces and states, as well.

 

Some 73% opposed allowing foreigners to own Turkish land or property, while nine out of 10 said they had never taken a holiday abroad. Just under 70% said they never read books, and 72% said they never or rarely bought new hi-tech products as soon they appeared on the market. Many also expressed fears that Turkey´s neighbours planned to carve up the country.

How exactly is the opinion of 73% being against foreigners owning land & property in Turkey interpreted as xenophobia anyway?  This is like asking women if they think their breasts are too small, and interpreting the answers as 73% of women want breast implants. After all, although Turks are apparently xenophobic & against foreigners owning land in Turkey, quite a few of them must be content with selling property to foreigners, as Antalya is filled with Russian land & property owners, Bodrum with Brits, Germans & Italians, and Istanbul with many other property-owning foreigr devils. Abramovich recently purchased a huge coastline - a flat out sea-front strip - in Antalya. Israelis have been buying huge tracts of land in southeast Turkey for God knows how long. The Bodrum area is filled with property owning foreigners, who actually happen to be living there throughout the year, rather than just in the summers (so much for xenophobia by the way.) A lot of the old, stone buildings in the most trendy & historic parts of Istanbul are quite often bought & renovated by foreigners, who seem to be living there unaware of this xenophobia. Someone is selling these properties, right? I mean, it is not as if these foreign Tasmanian devils are just confiscating them...

 

It is also not surprising that 9 out of 10 had never been abroad on vacation. Taking into consideration that 9 out of 10 visa applications that Turks submit to visit the European countries are arbitrarily rejected by the non-xenophobic Europeans, no wonder these Turks didn´t have a chance to travel abroad yet.

 

Regarding the comment about not or never buying new high-tech products as soon as the products hit the market, I guess only a prime degree moron could show the capacity to interpret this as a clear sign of being conservative. Are North Americans more liberal for buying every single gadget that is shoved down their throats at BestBuy on their credit cards only to find out 3 months later that there is now ´a better & more high-tech model´ available at the stores?

 

Nearly 70% said wives needed their husband´s permission to work while 57% believed that a female should never leave home wearing a sleeveless top. More than half - 53% - favoured allowing women judges, prosecutors, teachers and other public servants to wear the Islamic headscarf on duty, something Turkey´s secular constitution forbids.

Well, well... I guess this 70% must have been out on vacation when Turkey elected a female prime minister, Tansu Ciller, or when women gained the right to vote in elections before countries like Switzerland passed a similar legislation. Women in Turkey are considered so second-class that they could vote as early as 1930. France, on the other hand, provided that priviligae to their women in 1944; Greece in 1952; Liechtenstein in 1984; Monaco in 1962; San Marino in 1959; and Switzerland in 1971. Some of these countries are also yet to have a female prime minister or leader elected by the way. Go figure!

 

"The data shows that women aren´t free in their private lives," Erdem said."The data shows that women aren´t free in their private lives," Erdem said.

I wonder if he has bothered to ask the female participants directly rather than drawing indirect conclusions from questions related to asking for permission to work. After all, he could have a question asking women if they feel free in their private lives. I highly doubt if this question was part of the poll.

 

On a more positive, or rather amusing note though, just to cheer you fellows up a bit from all these bad things that you have been reading about polls proving that Turks are conservative xenophobes bent on oppressing their womenfolk, I watched a different kind of poll on one of the North American channels the other day. It was conducted as part of a Canadian comedy show. People in random US cities were asked to provide the exact date of the 911 attacks. Obviously, the show producers were expecting that most participants would make the connection between the date of the event and the name 911 in the sense that 9 referred to September, and 11 was the 11th day of that month. While fake laughter bombs were constantly played in the background, I think a good 70 percent of the participants couldn´t come up with the date.

 

How do you guys think this poll should be interpreted? 

 

 

Quoting chiko

Turks reveal xenophobic, conservative attitudes in poll

Turks are xenophobic, socially conservative people who rarely read books, relegate women to second-class status and harbour ambivalent views about democracy, contentious new research has revealed.

The unflattering picture has emerged from a survey by one of Turkey´s most respected polling organisations, Konda, which interviewed 6,482 people.

Some 73% opposed allowing foreigners to own Turkish land or property, while nine out of 10 said they had never taken a holiday abroad. Just under 70% said they never read books, and 72% said they never or rarely bought new hi-tech products as soon they appeared on the market. Many also expressed fears that Turkey´s neighbours planned to carve up the country.

Nearly 70% said wives needed their husband´s permission to work while 57% believed that a female should never leave home wearing a sleeveless top. More than half - 53% - favoured allowing women judges, prosecutors, teachers and other public servants to wear the Islamic headscarf on duty, something Turkey´s secular constitution forbids.

While 88% agreed that Turkey should be governed by democracy "under each and every condition", this was undermined by the significant proportion - 48% - who said the military should intervene "when necessary". The powerful armed forces have toppled four elected governments in coups in the past 50 years.

The survey, entitled Who Are We?, was conducted on behalf of Hurriyet, one of Turkey´s biggest selling newspapers, renowned for its secularist outlook.

Tarhan Erdem, senior analyst with Konda, said the research was aimed at understanding ongoing social transformation and seeing whether Turkey was the country many of its people thought they knew. The high support for military intervention showed Turks had reservations about democracy, he said, while attitudes towards women exposed a lack of gender equality. "The data shows that women aren´t free in their private lives," Erdem said.

Ahmet Insel, a columnist with Radikal newspaper, said opposition to foreign travel and property ownership stemmed from a preoccupation with the 1919-1923 war of independence that established modern Turkey.

"We think the war of independence is still under way, so it´s no surprise we are xenophobic. We´re still fighting foreigners," he said.

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/feb/23/turks--conservative-poll

 

 

 

 



Edited (2/24/2009) by cynicmystic

20.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 12:59 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 

How do you guys think this poll should be interpreted?

 

 

I dont think anybody has questions about the poll´s finding here.

And I am not sure any of the Turks in TC or even in Turkey will challenge the results.

I am not an expert on how polls should be conducted but Konda is one of the most trustworthy research companies in Turkey.

I think the values from the poll should not be questioned as if it is a result of bogus journalism.

Mltm´s answers were the best and honest answers for example..

She is not questioning if 48% is right down there for instance. She is questioning if it is worrying or not.

significant proportion - 48% - who said the military should intervene "when necessary".
So???? This is not worrying.

 

ps..I am laughing by myself here right now..

I am hoping that some of Turks will join and they will start posting long articles and maps about great Israel and  a secret zionist plans to buy lands in south east of Turkey. And you will see with your own eyes how xenophobic some are..

 


 



Edited (2/24/2009) by thehandsom
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21.       peacetrain
1905 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 01:30 am

"Turks are xenophobic, socially conservative people who rarely read books, relegate women to second-class status and harbour ambivalent views about democracy, contentious new research has revealed."

 

I don´t see how these conclusions can be made from the answers given, as reported in the article.  For instance, the inhabitants of my town in the UK are against people from out of town coming in and buying second homes.  This is because they are contributing to  housing shortages and rising prices , which affect the young people who want to get on the housing ladder.  Nothing to do with xenophobia and I don´t see this as any different to Turkish people wanting to control property sales to non Turks.

 

Some might find this article useful, It´s a Journalist´s Guide to Opinion Polls  http://www.britishpollingcouncil.org/questions.html

 

Before I concluded anything, I would want to see a blank copy of the questionnaire.  I often find these things rarely ask questions that allow the interviewee to give an exact answer. Often there are leading questions.  And some polls are commissioned by businesses/organisations that have an agenda.



Edited (2/24/2009) by peacetrain
Edited (2/24/2009) by peacetrain [trying to tidy up my mess.]

22.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 01:36 am

There was also an article the other day about it

http://hurarsiv.hurriyet.com.tr/goster/haber.aspx?id=11052364&tarih=2009-02-21

23.       peacetrain
1905 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 01:53 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

There was also an article the other day about it

http://hurarsiv.hurriyet.com.tr/goster/haber.aspx?id=11052364&tarih=2009-02-21

 

 I think they were the ones that commissioned the poll.  It´s interesting that they choose a different headline to the other article.  I guess they have to think of ways to persuade people to buy their papers.  I´ll read it in full tomorrow.

24.       alameda
3499 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 02:06 am

 

 

Quoting mltm Some 73% opposed allowing foreigners to own Turkish land or property
Is this xenophobia??? 

 

I might add, most countries have laws against foriegners owning property in their countries. In the USA even if you do own property, you do not own the mineral rights....so if a coal country wants the coal under your house, they can get it.

 

Quoting mltm -Some 73% opposed allowing foreigners to own Turkish land or property

Is this xenophobia??? 

 

I might add, most countries have laws against foriegners owning property in their countries. In the USA even if you do own property, you do not own the mineral rights....so if a coal country wants the coal under your house, they can get it.

 

Quoting mltm -Just under 70% said they never read books

This one is worrying, but nothing new. We all know already that education is a major problem in Turkey.

 

I don´t particularly find this problematic. A lot of people read trashy books. Still in Turkey people find things to do that in the Western countries are not done...like cook from scratch, make beautiful rugs and carpets.....spend time visiting with each other.

 

Quoting mltm -72% said they never or rarely bought new hi-tech products as soon they appeared on the market. Could the reason be again financial???

 

  .........and since when is having the latest tech (enviorment polluting energy hogging)gizmo a measure of one´s worth?

Quoting mltm -Many also expressed fears that Turkey´s neighbours planned to carve up the country.

Well, just compare where Turkey geographically stands and where Germany stands. It´s not paranoia.

  

 If one looks at the map for the New Middle East...is there any wonder?

Quoting mltm -while nine out of 10 said they had never taken a holiday abroad.

Could this be simply because they do not have money even for a holiday in their own country?

 

Probably...even if they wanted to, could they get a visa?



Edited (2/24/2009) by alameda [clean up ]
Edited (2/24/2009) by alameda

25.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 02:46 am

You still have not answered how the poll that I saw about 911 should be interpreted by the way. Did you speed read that part, or you just don´t have any suggestions?

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

I dont think anybody has questions about the poll´s finding here.

Oh yeah... how do you know that? Are you the advocate responsible for talking on everybody else´s behalf, as usual, around this forum?

And I am not sure any of the Turks in TC or even in Turkey will challenge the results.

Again, what´s up with the self-proclaimed advocacy of talking on behalf of others? Talk for yourself - let others do their own talking without your wise involvement. I already have questioned the results, and so have others. I have also provided the reason why I find the interpretation questionable. What have you provided? Nothing, other than saying what you read about Konda in the article, and how their interpretation should not be questioned for being the most trustworthy research company in Turkey. I had never heard of the name Konda as a research company until reading the article by the way. Had you?

I am not an expert on how polls should be conducted but Konda is one of the most trustworthy research companies in Turkey.

Well, you  usually don´t sound like much of an expert on anything other than being blind to the facts under your nose. If you are not an expert on polls, how do you deduce that Konda is one of the best research companies in Turkey? Oh, I see, you read the article... right? And, since when are polls considered a reliable method for constructing generalizations, such as calling Turks or anyone else xenophobic and conservative?

I think the values from the poll should not be questioned as if it is a result of bogus journalism.

Well, according to your logic of illogicality nothing should be questioned - especially if it criticisez Turks & Turkey. Whether bogus or not, poor journalism must be protected & supported at all costs. In fact, we should all erect monuments and hand out prizes in the name of propogating further bogus journalism in the world.

Mltm´s answers were the best and honest answers for example..

Yes, sure, some of mltm´s points were to the point. You still haven´t said a word about some of the other points I have made regarding Turks, xenophobia, conservatism, female prime ministers etc... What happened? Did you speed-read those parts?

She is not questioning if 48% is right down there for instance. She is questioning if it is worrying or not.

significant proportion - 48% - who said the military should intervene "when necessary".
So???? This is not worrying.

No, not at all... Why should it be worrying. I am not worried in the least bit. Are you worried? I know what you are going to suggest though. You are going to say that this is the proof that half the Turks are against democracy or are undemocratic, right?

 

ps..I am laughing by myself here right now..

Well giggling is a common reaction, when one doesn´t truly undestand what one reads. I used to do the same at school, when I was asked a question by the teacher about something on the board that I happened to not have a clue about. I would just smile naively hoping that she would leave me alone. Oooleee salak salak siritirdim.

I am hoping that some of Turks will join and they will start posting long articles and maps about great Israel and  a secret zionist plans to buy lands in south east of Turkey. And you will see with your own eyes how xenophobic some are..

 

Israelis have been buying land, and I gave that example not as a case of Zionism, but as proof that many foreigners are buying & selling land & property in Turkey. Go refer to what I said about reading and not understanding what you read, and stop stuffing words into people´s mouths. Did I mention anything about Zionists? Plus, why does it have to be Turks that have to join in to post articles and maps? Couldn´t others, who don´t happen to be Turks do so as well?

 


 

 

 

26.       armegon
1872 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 03:02 am

Nobody responded to this. I think the journal or interpreter aim to direct people intenionally. This has nothing to do with xenophobia. By the way whats the percentage of people who expressed their fears, all has percentage but this one is evaded only by “many”, if six thousand people have fear then we have a big problem...

 

In addition i really want to hear a poll done in European countries if they have xenophobia especially against Turks.  Perhaps cynicmystic can answer this as he had travelled many countries in Europe how they view Turks.

 

Other ones should be at least 47%, thats why today Turkey has a facist government like AKP and thats why Turks havent found any righteous leader throughout the Republic history yet, so it seems democracy is too much for Turkey, we need sharia or dictatorship and i hope AKP will provide this as US and EU supports them. I can understand US, its their politics, they support every obiedent so-called muslim leaders all over the world because these are good slaves, also good at deceiving people with religion and keep them sleep, like Saudi for example...

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 How exactly is the opinion of 73% being against foreigners owning land & property in Turkey interpreted as xenophobia anyway?   

 

 



Edited (2/24/2009) by armegon
Edited (2/24/2009) by armegon

27.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 04:51 am

Are you a zionist or a nationalist, or an outright denier???

You cannot question the result nor the interpretations. It was done by Konda, remember?

No questioning, just accept and confirm... or else...

 

Quoting peacetrain

"Turks are xenophobic, socially conservative people who rarely read books, relegate women to second-class status and harbour ambivalent views about democracy, contentious new research has revealed."

 

I don´t see how these conclusions can be made from the answers given, as reported in the article.  For instance, the inhabitants of my town in the UK are against people from out of town coming in and buying second homes.  This is because they are contributing to  housing shortages and rising prices , which affect the young people who want to get on the housing ladder.  Nothing to do with xenophobia and I don´t see this as any different to Turkish people wanting to control property sales to non Turks.

 

Some might find this article useful, It´s a Journalist´s Guide to Opinion Polls  http://www.britishpollingcouncil.org/questions.html

 

Before I concluded anything, I would want to see a blank copy of the questionnaire.  I often find these things rarely ask questions that allow the interviewee to give an exact answer. Often there are leading questions.  And some polls are commissioned by businesses/organisations that have an agenda.

 

 

28.       adana
416 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 09:21 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

Are you a zionist or a nationalist, or an outright denier???

You cannot question the result nor the interpretations. It was done by Konda, remember?

No questioning, just accept and confirm... or else...

 

 

 

 

 I question the interpretation and still have doubts how representative is number 6400 of participants with unknown background (not to mention other details of the survey)for 70 million of population.

Decent polls require at least 10% of participants....In that case how can it be treated seriously?

And you can call me nationalist or whatever{#lang_emotions_bigsmile}

29.       mltm
3690 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:04 am

Social polls and statistics give very rough answers, going to abstract conclusions with some specific questions can be very misleading.

 

With different polls, I´m sure I can get two very opposite conclusions of a same society:

I can get "Turkish people are the most secular people" and by another poll I can get the conclusion: "The majority of turkish people are for Sharia"

 

Again with different polls, I bet I can have a conclusion that "Turks are the most hospitable people", while with different poll questions, I can conclude that "Turks are xenophobes"

 

If we want, we can make every single country xenophobe by simply a few polls asking a  few questions. I can make France racist, Germany racist, United States racist, Japan racist, every single country.

 

 

Polls are the most generalist, simplist and unrealiable way to make abstract conclusions such as xenophobe, racist, happy, sad, hostile, paranoic, hospitable, lovely about a society.

 

30.       chiko
135 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 12:11 pm

 

Quoting mltm

Social polls and statistics give very rough answers, going to abstract conclusions with some specific questions can be very misleading.

 

With different polls, I´m sure I can get two very opposite conclusions of a same society:

I can get "Turkish people are the most secular people" and by another poll I can get the conclusion: "The majority of turkish people are for Sharia"

 

Again with different polls, I bet I can have a conclusion that "Turks are the most hospitable people", while with different poll questions, I can conclude that "Turks are xenophobes"

 

If we want, we can make every single country xenophobe by simply a few polls asking a  few questions. I can make France racist, Germany racist, United States racist, Japan racist, every single country.

 

 

Polls are the most generalist, simplist and unrealiable way to make abstract conclusions such as xenophobe, racist, happy, sad, hostile, paranoic, hospitable, lovely about a society.

 

Apperantly you have no idea about "survey methods". do you think they go to a nationalist village in anatolia and ask people what they think about foreigners? do you think they dont  choose samples from every class of societyd every ideology? be sure they must have gone to either Niþantaþý or Yozgat for this poll. do you remember that Konda conducted a poll before 2007 election and its results were the closest to the election´s results.

31.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 12:21 pm

 

Quoting chiko

 

Apperantly you have no idea about "survey methods". do you think they go to a nationalist village in anatolia and ask people what they think about foreigners? do you think they dont  choose samples from every class of societyd every ideology? be sure they must have gone to either Niþantaþý or Yozgat for this poll. do you remember that Konda conducted a poll before 2007 election and its results were the closest to the election´s results.

 

 Hehe you are wasting your time Chiko.  You know very well that if the survey had shown good things about Turks, there would be no-one desputing the results! lol

32.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 12:32 pm

This thread is becoming a new ´what made you laugh´ thread lol

 

33.       mltm
3690 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 12:51 pm

 

Quoting chiko

 

Apperantly you have no idea about "survey methods". do you think they go to a nationalist village in anatolia and ask people what they think about foreigners? do you think they dont  choose samples from every class of societyd every ideology? be sure they must have gone to either Niþantaþý or Yozgat for this poll. do you remember that Konda conducted a poll before 2007 election and its results were the closest to the election´s results.

 

 Did I say something about the "samples", about the people surveyed?

 

I simply said that you cannot have a conclusion like the survey revealed that Turks are xenophobe with a few questions like "are you against foreign people having property in Turkey".

 

Carrying out a survey is another thing, interpreting it is another thing, and going to conlusions like a nation is xenophobe is a completely different thing.



Edited (2/24/2009) by mltm

34.       mltm
3690 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 12:54 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

Quoting chiko

 

Apperantly you have no idea about "survey methods". do you think they go to a nationalist village in anatolia and ask people what they think about foreigners? do you think they dont  choose samples from every class of societyd every ideology? be sure they must have gone to either Niþantaþý or Yozgat for this poll. do you remember that Konda conducted a poll before 2007 election and its results were the closest to the election´s results.

 

 Hehe you are wasting your time Chiko.  You know very well that if the survey had shown good things about Turks, there would be no-one desputing the results! lol

 

Nope, I think then you would come up and stand up against it.

 

35.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 12:59 pm

 

Quoting mltm

 

 

Nope, I think then you would come up and stand up against it.

 

 

 As I have made no comment about agreeing with this poll, I wonder why you think that?

Go back to your pet experimentation sweetie

 

See you at the lights!

36.       mltm
3690 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 01:10 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 As I have made no comment about agreeing with this poll, I wonder why you think that?

Go back to your pet experimentation sweetie

 

See you at the lights!

 

 And I wonder why you think that we would believe it if it had revealed positive results.

I do not believe polls making such conclusions. If it had revealed that French nation was racist by a few questions, I´d object to it too.

 

And for next time I´m planning of exprimenting on you. Switching from hamsters to a real human sample will give more reliable, direct results.



Edited (2/24/2009) by mltm
Edited (2/24/2009) by mltm [vocabulary]

37.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 01:11 pm

 

Quoting mltm

 

 

And for next time I´m planning of exprimenting on you. Switching from hamsters to a real human sample will give more reliable, direct results.

 

 You are scary

38.       mltm
3690 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 01:19 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 You are scary

 

 

Did I say which experiment I´ll carry on you? Nothing scary.

39.       libralady
5152 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 02:41 pm

Another thought to throw in the pot............... how do you know if people are telling the truth? 

40.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 02:45 pm

 

Quoting libralady

Another thought to throw in the pot............... how do you know if people are telling the truth? 

 

 Well, if those Turks were dudus....we definitely know the answer! lol

41.       tamikidakika
1346 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 07:56 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

Quoting chiko

 

 

 

 Hehe you are wasting your time Chiko.  You know very well that if the survey had shown good things about Turks, there would be no-one desputing the results! lol

 

if the survey had shown good things about Turks, it wouldn`t have been published in a European newspaper in the firstplace.{#lang_emotions_razz}

42.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 07:57 pm

 

Quoting tamikidakika

 

 

if the survey had shown good things about Turks, it wouldn`t have been published in a European newspaper in the firstplace.{#lang_emotions_razz}

 

 Yeah this is true - we only like to read about Bad Turks while eating our cornflakes

43.       bod
5999 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 08:08 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Yeah this is true - we only like to read about Bad Turks while eating our cornflakes

 

I prefer to read about bad turks while eating sausage, bacon and black pudding!!!

44.       Trudy
7887 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 08:09 pm

 

Quoting tamikidakika

 

 

if the survey had shown good things about Turks, it wouldn`t have been published in a European newspaper in the firstplace.{#lang_emotions_razz}

 

You remind me so much of

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vSCp2aao0Uw

 

(They are tall and me is little.....)

45.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 09:06 pm

 

Quoting bod

 

 

I prefer to read about bad turks while eating sausage, bacon and black pudding!!!

 

 I prefer to watch evil Brits in movies over a bowl of popcorn!{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

46.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 10:58 pm

Maybe you are wasting our time as well, as you and a couple of well-known others would be the first ones to dispute the results on the basis of generalization had the results said something positive.

Quoting TheAenigma

 

Quoting chiko

 

Apperantly you have no idea about "survey methods". do you think they go to a nationalist village in anatolia and ask people what they think about foreigners? do you think they dont  choose samples from every class of societyd every ideology? be sure they must have gone to either Niþantaþý or Yozgat for this poll. do you remember that Konda conducted a poll before 2007 election and its results were the closest to the election´s results.

 

 Hehe you are wasting your time Chiko.  You know very well that if the survey had shown good things about Turks, there would be no-one desputing the results! lol

 

 

47.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 10:59 pm

 Yes, for sure, especially when we read your posts... lol

Quoting thehandsom

This thread is becoming a new ´what made you laugh´ thread lol

 

 

 

48.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:01 pm

So, do you disagree with the poll, then? What´s your stance bud? You surely don´t sound like you disagree at all based on your past replies...

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 As I have made no comment about agreeing with this poll, I wonder why you think that?

Go back to your pet experimentation sweetie

 

See you at the lights!

 

 

49.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:02 pm

 

Quoting cynicmystic

So, do you disagree with the poll, then? What´s your stance bud? You surely don´t sound like you disagree at all based on your past replies...

 

 

 

 (1) I am not your "bud" ..

(2) What "past" replies are you referring to rookie?

50.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:04 pm

How many times do we have to say that you are not allowed to question the interpretation of the results. Turks are conservative xenophobes period... Accept it, or else. It was conducted by Kondo, remember. Don´t make yourself a laughing stock by being a logical & reasonable human being.

Quoting libralady

Another thought to throw in the pot............... how do you know if people are telling the truth? 

 

 

51.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:06 pm

Well, try reading about the rise of Neo-Nazis in Europe the next time you read anything about xenophobia while chowing down your oat meal... I wish we could read about Turkish Neo-Nazis one of these days. It would add further support to these claims about being xenophobes.

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Yeah this is true - we only like to read about Bad Turks while eating our cornflakes

 

 

52.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:07 pm

 

Quoting cynicmystic

Well, try reading about the rise of Neo-Nazis in Europe the next time you read anything about xenophobia while chowing down your oat meal... I wish we could read about Turkish Neo-Nazis one of these days. It would add further support to these claims about being xenophobes.

 

 

 

 Yes we have had many discussions about the alarming rise in neo-nazism before.  What is your point?

 

Are you just trying to defend with attack? lol

53.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:08 pm

And many of them do. I happen to be one of them. Except that I would not touch black pudding with a nine yard stick. That delicacy is exclusievly reserved for the highly developed taste buds of the British together with numerous other saples of the Great British Cuisine. Our cuisine just has not reached that level yet.

Quoting bod

 

 

I prefer to read about bad turks while eating sausage, bacon and black pudding!!!

 

 

54.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:09 pm

 No not at all... just making a response to your post about your morning reading. lol.

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Yes we have had many discussions about the alarming rise in neo-nazism before.  What is your point?

 

Are you just trying to defend with attack? lol

 

 

55.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:10 pm

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 Our cuisine just has not reached that level yet.

 

 

 

 Is that why you moved to Canada?  Ahhh poor canim

56.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:12 pm

Are you jelous of the Turkish dudus? There is a reason why duduism exists. Obviosly, the dudu loving ladies aren´t satisfied with the local boys i their countries. Long live the dudus. Had there been a course in duduism when I was at school, I would be the first one to take it.

 

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Well, if those Turks were dudus....we definitely know the answer! lol

 

 

57.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:13 pm

here we go again

58.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:14 pm

 

Quoting cynicmystic

Are you jelous of the Turkish dudus? There is a reason why duduism exists. Obviosly, the dudu loving ladies aren´t satisfied with the local boys i their countries. Long live the dudus. Had there been a course in duduism when I was at school, I would be the first one to take it.

 

 

 

 

 

 Jealous of your conning prositutues?  lol

Hmmm yeah maybe you should do that course ....

59.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:17 pm

Not really, I moved to Canada because I didn´t want to live in the US after 911. i was in the US for university and worked for a couple of years. I moved to England because I went to a boarding school there. I lived in Italy because I wanted to study Italian. I lived in Wales because I really liked it. I travel and like to live in different places because it fascinates me. I also spend over 4 months each year if not more in Turkey. What´s wrong with having many homes in different parts of the world, bud? Just for your information, I still have an address in London, as well, and pay taxes in the UK. But, that is not because I love black pudding.

 

Are you a logically challenged by the way? Just let me know, becasue your logic is indicating that with your poor canims and emoticons... 

 

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Is that why you moved to Canada?  Ahhh poor canim

 

 

60.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:18 pm

 Only if you will join me.

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Jealous of your conning prositutues?  lol

Hmmm yeah maybe you should do that course ....

 

 

61.       adana
416 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:18 pm

 

Quoting thehandsom

here we go again

 

 catch 22{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}next episode{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}plot the same,not to mention cast{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

62.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:19 pm

 

Quoting cynicmystic

Not really, I moved to Canada because I didn´t want to live in the US after 911. i was in the US for university and worked for a couple of years. I moved to England because I went to a boarding school there. I lived in Italy because I wanted to study Italian. I lived in Wales because I really liked it. I travel and like to live in different places because it fascinates me. I also spend over 4 months each year if not more in Turkey. What´s wrong with having many homes in different parts of the world, bud? Just for your information, I still have an address in London, as well, and pay taxes in the UK. But, that is not because I love black pudding.

 

Are you a logically challenged by the way? Just let me know, becasue your logic is indicating that with your poor canims and emoticons... 

 

 

 

 

 

 Wow actually that is very interesting.  It´s a shame you don´t confine yourself to your more informed posts - you let yourself down with this stuff.

 

 

63.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:21 pm

 Letting what down. I am telling you why I like to travel and Iwhy I live in Canada. what´s the proble, bud... Am I getting you upset here?

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Wow actually that is very interesting.  It´s a shame you don´t confine yourself to your more informed posts - you let yourself down with this stuff.

 

 

 

 

64.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:22 pm

Quoting adana

 

 

 catch 22{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}next episode{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}plot the same,not to mention cast{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

 main characters are handsome and aenema... haha

65.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:24 pm

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 Letting what down. I am telling you why I like to travel and Iwhy I live in Canada. what´s the proble, bud... Am I getting you upset here?

 

 

 

 Upset?  Of course not - I was being serious.  You have some interesting and well informed points to make.  Then you completely blow it with your misogynist, sexist crap!

 

Anyway....just my point of view "bud"....

66.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:27 pm

That is becasue I have to bring myself down to the level of your posts, bud. Had you been more interesting and cared to show how informed you are instead of cracking jokes supported by your emtoicon artwork, you and I would be playing a very different tune. It is up to you whether you want to settle for intellectual discussions or opt for poor sense of humour, as displayed in your crap!

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Upset?  Of course not - I was being serious.  You have some interesting and well informed points to make.  Then you completely blow it with your misogynist, sexist crap!

 

Anyway....just my point of view "bud"....

 

 

67.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:29 pm

 

Quoting cynicmystic

That is becasue I have to bring myself down to the level of your posts, bud. Had you been more interesting and cared to show how informed you are instead of cracking jokes supported by your emtoicon artwork, you and I would be playing a very different tune. It is up to you whether you want to settle for intellectual discussions or opt for poor sense of humour, as displayed in your crap!

 

 

 

 

I enjoy both fun and intellectual discussions....I have yet to see either from you

68.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:30 pm

 Then I suggest you take the blinds off your eyes when you try to read posts next time.

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 

I enjoy both fun and intellectual discussions....I have yet to see either from you

 

 

69.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:31 pm

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 Then I suggest you take the blinds off your eyes when you try to read posts next time.

 

 

 

 lol lol lol

Arrogance is not a good quality...iyi geceler ...

70.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:32 pm

That applies to all of us, I guess, including you,  iyi geceler...

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 lol lol lol

Arrogance is not a good quality...iyi geceler ...

 

 

71.       mltm
3690 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:33 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 

I enjoy both fun and intellectual discussions....I have yet to see either from you

 

 I´ll put my nose into your discussion but for the intellectual discussions part, he´s one of the few members who´ve been doing it.

72.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:37 pm

I am laughing at this thread because it is amazing to see how laughable people can get with their empty nationalistic protective instincts.

How can people can object to these findings? on what bases?

If there was a survey and if they said turks have shorter legs than their eu counter parts, they would argue that how the measurement is done!!

Are we not xenaphobic? 

well sorry to dissapoint everybody but yes we are. It does not fit our historical hospitable profile which we are proud of but we are..

Instead of taking the results as a warning or as an indicater that we should be working on this issue jumping up and down and saying ´Noooo those people might have been mischiev may be  they were  lying; were you there and seen them giving these answers by your own eyes?  the weather is cloudy; referee was supporting you anyway; and blah blah´ will not change that fact..

That is the reason the best answer was from Meltem..

Coming with the argument that ´but your racists are gaining support as well´ wont help either..

 

70 % people wont read books..

It is a result we should all cry really..

But look alameda..look at her answer: ´reading books is not a good thing anyway´. Yani..oha..everybody is trying to talk about the importance of education and reading, she is coming with a brilliant idea and it is : reading is not necessary anyway..

And she thinks that she is supporting Turkey with it..phew

 

It is better if I dont go to the other results from the survey..

 

And I am still laughing here.

73.       adana
416 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:40 pm

 

Quoting mltm

 

 

 I´ll put my nose into your discussion but for the intellectual discussions part, he´s one of the few members who´ve been doing it.

 

 He is too good{#lang_emotions_smile}when he does not even his level with the level of some.... but even in this case he seems to be a winner..perfect at annoying ppl,giving  explanations,responding,etc...suits every interlocutor...interesting case) anyway I prefer him up{#lang_emotions_bigsmile}as far as reading his posts(meaningful) goes

74.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:40 pm

Well, you are amusing us, too... So, you aren´t the only one laughing.

 

By the way, can you measure xenophobia as you measure the length of one´s leg?

 

Another fine example of your exquisite logic of illogicality...

Quoting thehandsom

I am laughing at this thread because it is amazing to see how laughable people can get with their empty nationalistic protective instincts.

How can people can object to these findings? on what bases?

If there was a survey and if they said turks have shorter legs than their eu counter parts, they would argue that how the measurement is done!!

Are we not xenaphobic? 

well sorry to dissapoint everybody but yes we are. It does not fit our historical hospitable profile which we are proud of but we are..

Instead of taking the results as a warning or as an indicater that we should be working on this issue jumping up and down and saying ´Noooo those people might have been mischiev may be  they were  lying; were you there and seen them giving these answers by your own eyes?  the weather is cloudy; referee was supporting you anyway; and blah blah´ will not change that fact..

That is the reason the best answer was from Meltem..

Coming with the argument that ´but your racists are gaining support as well´ wont help either..

 

70 % people wont read books..

It is a result we should all cry really..

But look alameda..look at her answer: ´reading books is not a good thing anyway´. Yani..oha..everybody is trying to talk about the importance of education and reading, she is coming with a brilliant idea and it is : reading is not necessary anyway..

And she thinks that she is supporting Turkey with it..phew

 

It is better if I dont go to the other results from the survey..

 

And I am still laughing here.

 

 

75.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:43 pm

This survey and the responses reminded me tthe incident of Sarah Fergusson coming to Turkey secretly and finding out what was going on in some of the disabled childeren´s hospitals..

Most of the people questioned ´why it is done´ and looked for a reason to blame the west because they think west is trying to humiliate Turkey and some of them questioned the way she has done it..

But only a few people talked about if the conditions of those hospitals were as bad as it was shown in the movie..

And the conditions were..

 

76.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:44 pm

 

Quoting cynicmystic

That applies to all of us, I guess, including you,  iyi geceler...

 

 

 

 By the way, I forgot to say welcome back.  I noticed that you have been so quiet for the past few days...hiding out in the Language Forum.... strange... lol

77.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:45 pm

 

Quoting cynicmystic

Well, you are amusing us, too... So, you aren´t the only one laughing.

 

By the way, can you measure xenophobia as you measure the length of one´s leg?

 

Another fine example of your exquisite logic of illogicality...

 

 

 

It is good to laugh together..

It is a good example of you trying to support unsportable..and doing it for your country I guess..

So any talk about ´how horrible and unnecessary for a person to read is?´

back ache? not good for your eyes? 

lol



Edited (2/24/2009) by thehandsom

78.       adana
416 posts
 24 Feb 2009 Tue 11:53 pm

 

Quoting thehandsom

I am laughing at this thread because it is amazing to see how laughable people can get with their empty nationalistic protective instincts.

How can people can object to these findings? on what bases?

If there was a survey and if they said turks have shorter legs than their eu counter parts, they would argue that how the measurement is done!!Ahhh,you believe in everything that is written???

Are we not xenaphobic? GOOD,you do not differ from the rest of Europe,all the countries in EU are xenophobic,not all are willing to admit it.According to EU

commission survey the most xenophobic is UK,the least Spain

well sorry to dissapoint everybody but yes we are. It does not fit our historical hospitable profile which we are proud of but we are..

Instead of taking the results as a warning or as an indicater that we should be working on this issue jumping up and down and saying ´Noooo those people might have been mischiev may be  they were  lying; were you there and seen them giving these answers by your own eyes?  the weather is cloudy; referee was supporting you anyway; and blah blah´ will not change that fact..Results of over 6000 compared to 70 million???Bravooooo !!!!!!!!!

That is the reason the best answer was from Meltem..

Coming with the argument that ´but your racists are gaining support as well´ wont help either..

 

70 % people wont read books..The same in EU

It is a result we should all cry really..EU citizens do not cry

But look alameda..look at her answer: ´reading books is not a good thing anyway´. Yani..oha..everybody is trying to talk about the importance of education and reading, she is coming with a brilliant idea and it is : reading is not necessary anyway..IT is important to my mind but i am a dinosaur in face of new technologies overcome.Dinosaurs are all who worship books as source of info...ehh,hayat!

And she thinks that she is supporting Turkey with it..phew

 

It is better if I dont go to the other results from the survey..Which results?

 

And I am still laughing here.

Me too))))))))))

 

 

79.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:08 am

Ahhh,you believe in everything that is written???

I would prefer coffee house knowledge but the quality sucks in London

GOOD,you do not differ from the rest of Europe,all the countries in EU are xenophobic,not all are willing to admit it.According to EU

commission survey the most xenophobic is UK,the least Spain

That is what I like about your post..See..there is a survey and you are NOT questioning it..it is fine..have you asked any question how the survey is done? no..

That is what I want from my country men too..

It is as simple as that..

The question is why on earth it is that difficult to accept these facts for them..And as long as they dont and DENY, then how do we progress?

 

Results of over 6000 compared to 70 million???Bravooooo !!!!!!!!!

I am emailing konda right at the moment about it. I will tell them..ok?

The same in EU

I doubt it..any survey? or any proof?

EU citizens do not cry

Well you dont..but we are turks we should and we will..


IT is important to my mind but i am a dinosaur in face of new technologies overcome.Dinosaurs are all who worship books as source of info...ehh,hayat!

well as long as they spent their time infront of a screen and searching porn it is better if they read really..

 

Which results?

naah..

 

And I am still laughing here.

Me too))))))))))

good good dear aval....

80.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:09 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 By the way, I forgot to say welcome back.  I noticed that you have been so quiet for the past few days...hiding out in the Language Forum.... strange... lol

 

 You obviously haven´t checked, or you would see he hasn´t missed a day for days. When he does post, it´s a lot more than a few lines of witless drivel.

81.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:11 am

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 You obviously haven´t checked, or you would see he hasn´t missed a day for days. When he does post, it´s a lot more than a few lines of witless drivel.

 

Ouh dont worry I know his reasons for his respite in the Language forum...

 

82.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:13 am

 

Quoting adana

 

 According to EU commission survey the most xenophobic is UK,the least Spain

 

 

 Hahaha this does not surprise me!  lol

The UK is full of xenophobes!!!  But then I guess we DO have the most multi-cultural city in the world!  lol

83.       adana
416 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:21 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

Ahhh,you believe in everything that is written???

I would prefer coffee house knowledge but the quality sucks in London

You should not have left Turkeyor settle in Italy<Spain or Holland-they serve a good coffee)

GOOD,you do not differ from the rest of Europe,all the countries in EU are xenophobic,not all are willing to admit it.According to EU

commission survey the most xenophobic is UK,the least Spain

That is what I like about your post..See..there is a survey and you are NOT questioning it..it is fine..have you asked any question how the survey is done? no..HEYYYYYYY,I DID!I asked about survey background and percentage of Turkish university goers and school kids..nobody answered((To have full picture,i want to know the percentage of Erasmus and other UE  bursaries!

That is what I want from my country men too..

It is as simple as that..

The question is why on earth it is that difficult to accept these facts for them..And as long as they dont and DENY,WHAT DO THEY DENY??? then how do we progress?Turkey has the power itself to progress,I think.If The country survived as a country although international plans were different the country has potential itself!

 

Results of over 6000 compared to 70 million???Bravooooo !!!!!!!!!

I am emailing konda right at the moment about it. I will tell them..ok?PLEASE DO,phone calls from my country are too expensive..)))))))I would be happy if you directed me to survey website even in Turkish)

The same in EU

I doubt it..any survey? or any proof?WILL TRY TO PROVIDE)

EU citizens do not cry

Well you dont..but we are turks we should and we will..Ehh,are you any better?


IT is important to my mind but i am a dinosaur in face of new technologies overcome.Dinosaurs are all who worship books as source of info...ehh,hayat!

well as long as they spent their time infront of a screen and searching porn it is better if they read really..

haha,try to make them)

 

Which results?

naah..should I understand it as a dot?the end of discussion?

 

And I am still laughing here.

Me too))))))))))

good good dear aval....dear Avalon to be accurate,big ,capital A))!

 

 



Edited (2/25/2009) by adana [ego))))))))))))))]

84.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:21 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Hahaha this does not surprise me!  lol

The UK is full of xenophobes!!!  But then I guess we DO have the most multi-cultural city in the world!  lol

 

 Perhaps now, but it´s only recently multi-cultural...and as a result of the British Empire. What is the saying..."when the chickens come home to roost"?

85.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:23 am

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 Perhaps now, but it´s only recently multi-cultural...and as a result of the British Empire. What is the saying..."when the chickens come home to roost"?

 

 Yeah I completely agree with you lol

As I mentioned in an earlier post, not only do we have to "put up and shut up" we have to embrace it, because of the guilt of the colonies! 

 

I don´t see the same shame from Spain, Holland and Portugal though....   We Brits are happy to take ALL the blame, but it would be nice if sometime people remembered South Africa (Boars), South America etc....



Edited (2/25/2009) by TheAenigma

86.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:29 am

 

Quoting adana

 

 

 

 

 

well..

what can I say?

I agree with  the potentials of Turkey

There is energy,  passion, hot blood  and everything. But unfortunately we are what the survey says because of  we´re too busy denying.

87.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:31 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Yeah I completely agree with you lol

As I mentioned in an earlier post, not only do we have to "put up and shut up" we have to embrace it, because of the guilt of the colonies! 

 

I don´t see the same shame from Spain, Holland and Portugal though....   We Brits are happy to take ALL the blame, but it would be nice if sometime people remembered South Africa (Boars), South America etc....

 

 Well....I think the Spanish & Portugese got a bit more cozy cozy with the colonized....but they also have been out of the game for a much longer time....having lost out due to the British. So, in a way, you guys were left holding the bag.

 

It would be interesting to see what the results are in Belgium.

88.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:32 am

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 Well....I think the Spanish & Portugese got a bit more cozy cozy with the colonized....but they also have been out of the game for a much longer time....having lost out due to the British. So, in a way, you guys were left holding the bag.

 

 Hahah are you expecting me to defend anything here?  lol

I am the first to talk about the colonies sweetie.  Perhaps you are still smarting from your mistakes in the Gifts thread! lol

89.       adana
416 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:47 am

It can be a bit off topic there,but thinking about Turkey and its access to EU i remember the words of Salvador de Madariaga-the Spanish scientist  and intellectual during one of pre-EU conferences

he said

"The new Europe must be born

And she will when Spaniards will say ´our Chartres´,Englishmen say"our Cracow"(btw my favourite city)Italians´our Copenhagen"and germans´our Bruges"

then Europe will live"

I can only add the EU citizens could say"our Istanbul,etc..."

long way to it...

 

90.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:52 am

 

Quoting adana

I can only add the EU citizens could say"our Istanbul,etc..."

long way to it...

 

 

And we will be saying suspiciously ´hmmmmm.. you christians have always wanted our istanbul back´ 

 

91.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:56 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Hahah are you expecting me to defend anything here?  lol

I am the first to talk about the colonies sweetie.  Perhaps you are still smarting from your mistakes in the Gifts thread! lol

 

 Not at all....I think we probably are in agreement. As to the Gifts thread, that was resolved, but I´m sure you will find a way to create chaos.

92.       adana
416 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:56 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

And we will be saying suspiciously ´hmmmmm.. you christians have always wanted our istanbul back´ 

 

 

 hmmm,do you think that our Christians associate Istanbul with Constantinopol?????{#lang_emotions_lol}{#lang_emotions_unsure}they do not read and their net info dates back to 90s last century,you expect too much)

93.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 12:57 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

And we will be saying suspiciously ´hmmmmm.. you christians have always wanted our istanbul back´ 

 

 

 lol

94.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:00 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

 

well..

what can I say?

I agree with  the potentials of Turkey

There is energy,  passion, hot blood  and everything. But unfortunately we are what the survey says because of  we´re too busy denying.

 

 H, if you want to have a nation, there has to be some nationalism. The world is not all one big "Kumbaya" fest....



Edited (2/25/2009) by alameda

95.       adana
416 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:00 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 lol

 

 Aenigma!!!!It was Churchil who started this idea!

96.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:01 am

 

Quoting adana

 

 

 Aenigma!!!!It was Churchil who started this idea!

 

 Am I supposed to say Churchill is a hero at this point? lol

97.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:03 am

Another exquisite example by you completely off topic...

Anything else that you are reminded off? 

Quoting thehandsom

This survey and the responses reminded me tthe incident of Sarah Fergusson coming to Turkey secretly and finding out what was going on in some of the disabled childeren´s hospitals..

Most of the people questioned ´why it is done´ and looked for a reason to blame the west because they think west is trying to humiliate Turkey and some of them questioned the way she has done it..

But only a few people talked about if the conditions of those hospitals were as bad as it was shown in the movie..

And the conditions were..

 

 

 

98.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:04 am

 Not really, I have been posting everyday actually...

Time for yout o take the blinds off your eyes when you try to read, bud... It helps, believe me. lol And welcome back to you too. I thought you had said iyi geceler. What happened? Couldn´t sleep? Try having a glass of warm milk with honey. That may help.

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 By the way, I forgot to say welcome back.  I noticed that you have been so quiet for the past few days...hiding out in the Language Forum.... strange... lol

 

 

99.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:07 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 Couldn´t sleep? Try having a glass of warm milk with honey. That may help.

 

 

 

 Am trying Spiced Apple and Camomile Tea...but my nervous unrest at the thought of you in dudu school is keeping me awake...

100.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:08 am

 

Quoting adana

 

 

 hmmm,do you think that our Christians associate Istanbul with Constantinopol?????{#lang_emotions_lol}{#lang_emotions_unsure}they do not read and their net info dates back to 90s last century,you expect too much)

 

Hmm

You are making a huge mistake overthere..

I am not talking about ´your´ christians here . I am talking about our beloved nationalists whom you are trying to support.. They will be difficult to persuade since most of them believe the entire EU thing is a part of conspricy to divide us and ultimately,  pray in beautiful Hagia Sophia.. They date back to WWI..

101.       adana
416 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:08 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 Not really, I have been posting everyday actually...

Time for yout o take the blinds off your eyes when you try to read, bud... It helps, believe me. lol And welcome back to you too. I thought you had said iyi geceler. What happened? Couldn´t sleep? Try having a glass of warm milk with honey. That may help.

 

 

 

 Aenigma is on duty{#lang_emotions_wink}instead of babyglam{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

102.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:08 am

 

Quoting adana

 

 

 Aenigma is on duty{#lang_emotions_wink}instead of babyglam{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

 Well you are right today! lol

 

103.       adana
416 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:09 am

 

{#lang_emotions_head_bang}

she logged in while I was writing a message..damn..must be faster next time..

104.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:09 am

I am glad I am making you laugh. had I been you I would be giggling 24/7 starting off in the morning when I look in the mirror.

 

Taking into consideration the lack of logic in your arguments, I guess it is a fight against the unsupportable. It is not being done in the name of my country. i am afraid I am doing it all for myself so that people have something that is worthy of reading other than your bogus age old mantra lol...

 

Change, open your mind to new realities, and, trust me, you will be happier. You are not a parrot, so stop playing the same record like a broken record player. 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

It is good to laugh together..

It is a good example of you trying to support unsportable..and doing it for your country I guess..

So any talk about ´how horrible and unnecessary for a person to read is?´

back ache? not good for your eyes? 

lol

 

 

105.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:13 am

 What respite bud? There hasn´t been many new posts in the language section, the ones that are new, i have replied... Plus, if didn´t have to waste time replying to nonsense posts such as yours and handsome´s I would surely post more in the language section. Believe me, I would prefer that. It is just that I get no relief from madness on this forum carried out by madmen...

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

Ouh dont worry I know his reasons for his respite in the Language forum...

 

 

 

106.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:15 am

 Look, you just can´t argue with a poll ok? The result are conclusive, you after the Turks are the biggest xenophobes. We take the first place though, you take the silver medal. Plus, it was conducted by Kondo. No more comments.

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Hahaha this does not surprise me!  lol

The UK is full of xenophobes!!!  But then I guess we DO have the most multi-cultural city in the world!  lol

 

 

107.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:15 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 What respite bud? There hasn´t been many new posts in the language section, the ones that are new, i have replied... Plus, if didn´t have to waste time replying to nonsense posts such as yours and handsome´s I would surely post more in the language section. Believe me, I would prefer that. It is just that I get no relief from madness on this forum carried out by madmen...

 

 

 

 Ouh don´t trouble yourself - there is no need for you to reply my posts at all - there is nothing I wish to say on this topic. Right now I prefer to make sarcastic inane comments and get you all riled up  

108.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:16 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

I am glad I am making you laugh. had I been you I would be giggling 24/7 starting off in the morning when I look in the mirror.

 

Taking into consideration the lack of logic in your arguments, I guess it is a fight against the unsupportable. It is not being done in the name of my country. i am afraid I am doing it all for myself so that people have something that is worthy of reading other than your bogus age old mantra lol...

 

Change, open your mind to new realities, and, trust me, you will be happier. You are not a parrot, so stop playing the same record like a broken record player. 

 

 

Come on man..

if you had not spent your energy for denying the reality it would be the best help for your country..

Keep going personal rather than putting something new..

Look..

look at meltems post..

We have already KNOWN these things..

There is no denying from our part as Turks..

That is the bottom line...

Why are you resisting to accept those facts as findings and talk about the reasons?

 

109.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:16 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 Look, you just can´t argue with a poll ok? The result are conclusive, you after the Turks are the biggest xenophobes. We take the first place though, you take the silver medal. Plus, it was conducted by Kondo. No more comments.

 

 

 

 Look....I am sorry but you are WRONG. WE are the biggest xenophobes!

Hmmm Kondo eh?  Offffffffffff

110.       adana
416 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:17 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

Hmm

You are making a huge mistake overthere..

I am not talking about ´your´ christians here . I am talking about our beloved nationalists whom you are trying to support.. I do not like the word nationalists..you are so hot in judging..ehh this Turkish blood..always boiling!They will be difficult to persuade since most of them believe the entire EU thing is a part of conspricy to divide us Welcome to a club  ,my compatriots think the same..at least 90%

BTW have you heard about Bilderberg club and Haarp project?

ultimately,  pray in beautiful Hagia Sophia.. They date back to WWI..and you are surprised?so many changes,even in country borders,so many countries to be wiped out from the map...politics is always made by tacoons..feel lucky that your country survived on the maps)

 

 

111.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:20 am

 On the contrary my friend. A lot of Turks, unlike you as a fellow paesano, have a positive attitude about the future and are working hard toward making Turkiye a better place, as much as they can. We aren´t what the survey says we are, and that has already been proven to you well beyond your comprehension. That is why you are still here posting this gibberish. What a gladioator you are. A beacon of truth, justice and exquisite logic... I wish all Turks were like you (excluding me...) No doubt Turkiye would be a better place.

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

 

well..

what can I say?

I agree with  the potentials of Turkey

There is energy,  passion, hot blood  and everything. But unfortunately we are what the survey says because of  we´re too busy denying.

 

 

112.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:24 am

Does anyone ever agree with surveys?  I am not very patriotic, but even I get wound up when I read that "most of those British surveyed could not spell "separate" or "90% of British people surveyed thought Marco Polo was a mint" blah blah!

 

Yeah its funny to laugh at, but does it really tell us anything accurate. NO! 

 



Edited (2/25/2009) by TheAenigma

113.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:25 am

 As I already told you many times, and as you still don´t seem to get it, I am resisting these bogus facts based on your bogus logic, That is the reason. Going back to the broken record player example, you are still scratching my ears.

Quoting thehandsom

 

Come on man..

if you had not spent your energy for denying the reality it would be the best help for your country..

Keep going personal rather than putting something new..

Look..

look at meltems post..

We have already KNOWN these things..

There is no denying from our part as Turks..

That is the bottom line...

Why are you resisting to accept those facts as findings and talk about the reasons?

 

 

 

114.       adana
416 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:27 am

I do not like biased polls,they create stereotypes.I would love this poll results compared to any conducted in any EU countries.I bet results would not differ.Unfortunately,poll itself provides insufficent interpretation and being exposed in Guardian makes average reader think about Turkey as a wild country.

115.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:28 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 On the contrary my friend. A lot of Turks, unlike you as a fellow paesano, have a positive attitude about the future and are working hard toward making Turkiye a better place, as much as they can. We aren´t what the survey says we are, and that has already been proven to you well beyond your comprehension. That is why you are still here posting this gibberish. What a gladioator you are. A beacon of truth, justice and exquisite logic... I wish all Turks were like you (excluding me...) No doubt Turkiye would be a better place.

 

 

 

Come on man

lol lol

I am telling you that.. YOU DENY OR NOT..

That is what we are.. Since even you do not accept ´what we are´ how can you acpect to change? The result is right on spot..same as their other surveys..

Even they asked to every 70 million of them, you would have come with the excuses such as ´may be they lied; may be they were just trying to be make the survey look ridicilous´

Well sorry but as long as you keep denying what we are, my truth will always come as a huge slap as a reminder..

That is the simple logic: ´you denying it wont change what my country men are ´ at the moment.

It is as simple as I can put it for you..

 

 

 

116.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:30 am

 I think surveys and polls are generally designed to mislead or impress people. Especially when they deal with abstract concepts ledaing to arbitrary interpretations. The legacy and the positive things that the british have contributed to the human tapestry is well beyond dispute. Who cares about what people can speel or think of Marco Polo anyway.

 

The whole concept of holding a poll is outright bogus especially it doesn´t include the whole population. Anyone can design a bogus poll and misinterpret the results accordingly.

Quoting TheAenigma

Does anyone ever agree with surveys?  I am not very patriotic, but even I get wound up when I read that "most of those British surveyed could not spell "separate" or "90% of British people surveyed thought Marco Polo was a mint" blah blah!

 

Yeah its funny to laugh at, but does it really tell us anything accurate. NO! 

 

 

 

117.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:31 am

 

Quoting adana

I do not like biased polls,they create stereotypes.I would love this poll results compared to any conducted in any EU countries.I bet results would not differ.Unfortunately,poll itself provides insufficent interpretation and being exposed in Guardian makes average reader think about Turkey as a wild country.

 

 I think you have to remember that this site is ABOUT TURKEY!!  (Or supposed to be)!  Of course we have similar polls, and similar embarassing results.  We don´t think that it is ONLY Turkey who have these kinds of things!

 

If you are fed up with this site being about TURKEY always, find something like English Language Class and go ridicule us on similar polls!!!!

118.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:32 am

Manufacturers will tell you that they use polls to sell their products.  Therefore, in the same month you can find such "results" as:-

 

1000 people said that they prefer coffee to tea.

and

1000 people said that they prefer tea to coffee!!!

 

You have to KNOW the exact questions asked and who was asked them....

119.       adana
416 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:35 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 I think you have to remember that this site is ABOUT TURKEY!!  (Or supposed to be)!  Of course we have similar polls, and similar embarassing results.  We don´t think that it is ONLY Turkey who have these kinds of things!

 

If you are fed up with this site being about TURKEY always, find something like English Language Class and go ridicule us on similar polls!!!!

 

 hahahahahahahah,mwahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh)))))))))))

are you telliing me I do not have a right to be here???And being fed up with it????{#lang_emotions_rant}I love TLC,so do U!!!!!!!!!{#lang_emotions_wink}

at least I speak Turkish{#lang_emotions_bigsmile}

120.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:35 am

 

Quoting adana

I do not like biased polls,they create stereotypes.I would love this poll results compared to any conducted in any EU countries.I bet results would not differ.Unfortunately,poll itself provides insufficent interpretation and being exposed in Guardian makes average reader think about Turkey as a wild country.

 

As far as I am concerned I never thought the readers would think Turkey as a wild country..

They would just think a country who is still  developing..That is all..

And we Turks have never portrayed ourselves as europeans anyway...

I just smiled to the post and to be honest as a Turk, as a person who claims to know Turks, never ever thought a TURK would challenge the results..

I knew someone would say that ´what is wrong with  the idea opposing foreigners buying property in Turkey, why it is wrong´ (which Meltem openly said ) But I will never ever thought someone will be so oblivious to Turks and question the findings..

 

That is the reason I am still giggling here. lol



Edited (2/25/2009) by thehandsom

121.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:36 am

 

Quoting adana

 

 

 hahahahahahahah,mwahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh)))))))))))

are you telliing me I do not have a right to be here???And being fed up with it????{#lang_emotions_rant}I love TLC,so do U!!!!!!!!!{#lang_emotions_wink}

at least I speak Turkish{#lang_emotions_bigsmile}

 

 Of course I am not saying that you salak lol

Yeah ok, I cant speak much Turkish

122.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:36 am

 How many times do you need to be told to speak for yourself? Are you the general advocate to talk on behalf of all turks? I am  a Turk, and know many other Turks like myself, who do not happen to be what you keep telling us that we are. I don´t accept it for the valid reasons that I already provided. You, on the other hand provided nothing other than saying that the results cannot be questioned because it was carried out by Konda.

 

In your level of sophistication, you, unfortunately, do not reserve the privilage of using those hyperactive lips of yours to talk on behalf of everyone else. Express your amusing opinion in the first person singular, not in your general know-it-all-I-speak-for-all tone.

 

I am not trying to make the survey look ridiculous at all. It already looks ridiculous as it is without my involvement. It is you that I am trying to ridicule for all the right reasons evidenced by your past posts on this topic.

 

The only thing simple is your mind. that´s why you post simplistic stuff all the time. things are not as black & white as you see through your colour blind eyes.

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

Come on man

lol lol

I am telling you that.. YOU DENY OR NOT..

That is what we are.. Since even you do not accept ´what we are´ how can you acpect to change? The result is right on spot..same as their other surveys..

Even they asked to every 70 million of them, you would have come with the excuses such as ´may be they lied; may be they were just trying to be make the survey look ridicilous´

Well sorry but as long as you keep denying what we are, my truth will always come as a huge slap as a reminder..

That is the simple logic: ´you denying it wont change what my country men are ´ at the moment.

It is as simple as I can put it for you..

 

 

 

 

 

123.       adana
416 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:39 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Of course I am not saying that you salak lol

Yeah ok, I cant speak much Turkish

 

 Tessekur ederim,canim.My bed is awaiting me..have a nice duty..there is  some hope babyglam will log off,isn´t there?herkese tatli ruyalar.)



Edited (2/25/2009) by adana [why while choking with laughter always making mistakes???must work on it!]

124.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:40 am

 

Quoting adana

 

 

 Tessekur ederim,canim.My bed is awaiting me..have a nice duty..there is  some hope babyglam will log off,is there?herkese tatli ruyalar.)

 

 No point me staying if you are going then ( lol )

Yes I am off to bed too now

Sweet dreams

125.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:41 am

Again, talking for everyone else like a self-proclaimed advocate... Stop it dude, just talk for yourself, you will sound more credible.

 

I told you already... the giggling starts the moment you see your reflection in the mirror evey morning.

 

Why should we portray ourselves as Europeans or Africans or Asians or any other generalization that you can think of in the first place? We are people like any other people. Why generalize like you always try to do? Aren´t you bored? It doesn´t work.

 

A lot of people put very good and valid arguments against your bogus ones, but you disregarded them as usual.

 

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

As far as I am concerned I never thought the readers would think Turkey as a wild country..

They would just think a country who is still  developing..That is all..

And we Turks have never portrayed ourselves as europeans anyway...

I just smiled to the post and to be honest as a Turk, as a person who claims to know Turks, never ever thought a TURK would challenge the results..

I knew someone would say that ´what is wrong with  the idea opposing foreigners buying property in Turkey, why it is wrong´ (which Meltem openly said ) But I will never ever thought someone will be so oblivious to Turks and question the findings..

 

That is the reason I am still giggling here. lol

 

 

126.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:51 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 How many times do you need to be told to speak for yourself? Are you the general advocate to talk on behalf of all turks? I am  a Turk, and know many other Turks like myself, who do not happen to be what you keep telling us that we are. I don´t accept it for the valid reasons that I already provided. You, on the other hand provided nothing other than saying that the results cannot be questioned because it was carried out by Konda.

 

In your level of sophistication, you, unfortunately, do not reserve the privilage of using those hyperactive lips of yours to talk on behalf of everyone else. Express your amusing opinion in the first person singular, not in your general know-it-all-I-speak-for-all tone.

 

I am not trying to make the survey look ridiculous at all. It already looks ridiculous as it is without my involvement. It is you that I am trying to ridicule for all the right reasons evidenced by your past posts on this topic.

 

The only thing simple is your mind. that´s why you post simplistic stuff all the time. things are not as black & white as you see through your colour blind eyes.

 

 

Allah allah.

lol lol

Geez

Calm down..

Look sophisticated boy..

This is my knowledge you like it or not..And that is Turkey... You like it or NOT..

You can burry your head into sand, into shit, into tezek or into a gold mine.

it does not matter..

You are coming as if our population was a population of book readers..

Is it a lie that our population do not like reading?

is it a lie that our people trust the army more than politicians?

is it a lie that gender equality is NOT perfect in our country?

is it a lie that we are  paranoid as far as the west and our fear of being carved up concerned?

 

The findings of that survey DID NOT SURPRISE ME AT ALL..

I am still sure that MOST OF THE TURK WILL SAY THE same thing. But they will argue with you about ´what is wrong with trusting army´ such and such as.

And you are still insisting that findings are not true..!!!!

What kind of logic is that..I would not mind taking kissing that logic before using is  as a football before shooting my penalty and scoring..

Come into your senses..please yani..

 

That is the reason I am about to burst in tears from laughing now...

 

Please ya..stop this..

 

where did you live really? was it Turkey at all?

 

 

 



Edited (2/25/2009) by thehandsom

127.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:57 am

uuuuwww... the wise cabbage is taking excursions into crudity...

I must have really hit the g-spot.

 

I am not against your bogus knowledge. I am against, as I have said many times, to the way you generalize and try to talk on behalf of all Turks, as if you qualify for such a privilage.

 

Go back to the mirror, look at you reflection, and keep giggling. If that doesn´t help, you can always come back to TLS and read your posts for a good laugh. They sure make me laugh.

Quoting thehandsom

 

Allah allah.

lol lol

Geez

Calm down..

Look sophisticated boy..

This is my knowledge you like it or not..And that is Turkey... You like it or NOT..

You can burry your head into sand, into shit, into tezek or into a gold mine.

it does not matter..

You are coming as if our population was a population of book readers..

Is it a lie that our population do not like reading?

is it a lie that our people trust the army more than politicians?

is it a lie that gener equality is perfect in our country?

is it a lie that we are  paranoid as far as the west and our fear of being carved up concerned?

 

The findings of that survey DID NOT SURPRISE ME AT ALL..

I am still sure that MOST OF THE TURK WILL SAY THE same thing. But they will argue with you about ´what is wrong with trusting army´ such and such as.

And you are still insisting that findings are not true..!!!!

What kind of logic is that..I would not mind taking kissing that logic before using is that logic as a football before shooting my penalty and scoring..

 

That is the reason I am about to burst in tears from laughing now...

 

Please ya..stop this..

 

where did you live really? was it Turkey at all?

 

 

 

 

 

128.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:58 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

Again, talking for everyone else like a self-proclaimed advocate... Stop it dude, just talk for yourself, you will sound more credible.

 

I told you already... the giggling starts the moment you see your reflection in the mirror evey morning.

 

Why should we portray ourselves as Europeans or Africans or Asians or any other generalization that you can think of in the first place? We are people like any other people. Why generalize like you always try to do? Aren´t you bored? It doesn´t work.


A lot of people put very good and valid arguments against your bogus ones, but you disregarded them as usual.

 

 

 

 

 

lol lol

You can always stop answering and stop me posting..

Of course we are people like any other people.. (tell this to my country´s heroic nationalists too..They think we are a supreme race..lol )

That is what I always said..Did I say something different? or your understanding is a bit strange..

btw..lines I crossed are nothing to do with the topic but your obsession..Please refrain...

129.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 01:59 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

Allah allah.

lol lol

Geez

Calm down..

Look sophisticated boy..

 

 WOW! H, you must really be getting desparate...calling anyone who is not a prepubescent child "boy" is serious trouble here.

130.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:03 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

uuuuwww... the wise cabbage is taking excursions into crudity...

I must have really hit the g-spot.

 

I am not against your bogus knowledge. I am against, as I have said many times, to the way you generalize and try to talk on behalf of all Turks, as if you qualify for such a privilage.

 

Go back to the mirror, look at you reflection, and keep giggling. If that doesn´t help, you can always come back to TLS and read your posts for a good laugh. They sure make me laugh.

 

 

ha ha

Well definately it is not a G-spot if you hit something..And I am not going to tell what it is..(please ya..do not pull  the level down)

I have alyways talked about Turkish people the way I talk..I am sooo sorry you do not like it..

 

geez..

lol

 

131.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:03 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

lol lol

You can always stop answering and stop me posting..

Of course we are people like any other people.. (tell this to my country´s heroic nationalists too..

 

 Ummm....H you seemed to have missed my post in this thread

 

" H, if you want to have a nation, there has to be some nationalism. The world is not all one big "Kumbaya" fest...."

 

What is your obsession with "nationalists"? You are always going on about "nationalists" do you advocate no borders and everyone come in and do what they want....

 

 

132.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:04 am

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 WOW! H, you must really be getting desparate...calling anyone who is not a prepubescent child "boy" is serious trouble here.

 

come on alameda..he can defend himself I think..

stop acting with your motherly instincts here..

And as you can see I am not desperate at all..I know what I am talking about..

it is my country and I can NOT lie..

 

133.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:05 am

I will stop answering you, when you stop posting nonsense. I will also stop, when you start talking for yourself rather than for all the Turks. My understanding is good enough. I have, for example, understood you really well.

 

Regarding passing your wisdom to the heroic nationalists of ´our´ country, if you care to provide their names & contact info, I will gladly let them know that there is a cabbage on TLC that would like to have a word with them. You can do the talking yourself. After all, these bogus ideas are yours, not mine.

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

lol lol

You can always stop answering and stop me posting..

Of course we are people like any other people.. (tell this to my country´s heroic nationalists too..They think we are a supreme race..lol )

That is what I always said..Did I say something different? or your understanding is a bit strange..

btw..lines I crossed are nothing to do with the topic but your obsession..Please refrain...

 

 

134.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:16 am

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 Ummm....H you seemed to have missed my post in this thread

 

" H, if you want to have a nation, there has to be some nationalism. The world is not all one big "Kumbaya" fest...."

 

What is your obsession with "nationalists"? You are always going on about "nationalists" do you advocate no borders and everyone come in and do what they want....

 

 

 

look dearest alameda..

If you have heard what my sweet nationalists say and do , you would have blisters and herpes around your mouth with worry..

Nationalism was necessary to for the nation (for us nearly 90 years ago) but in this century you have to get rid of your nationalism in order to keep your country intact!!! You have to replace the nationalism with citizenship somehow..That is the reason why we are having  stomachaches  in Turkey..

Apart from that fact, our nationalism very close to racism in some respects and the worryingly most of my Turkish friends will not think that way and think that it is a form of patriotism..

 

135.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:18 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

come on alameda..he can defend himself I think..

stop acting with your motherly instincts here..

And as you can see I am not desperate at all..I know what I am talking about..

it is my country and I can NOT lie..

 

 

 H, I have been reading your posts for a couple of years now and have seen you constantly post negative things regarding Turkey.

 

Maybe you don´t lie, but you have a definite perspective.

136.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:23 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

I will stop answering you, when you stop posting nonsense. I will also stop, when you start talking for yourself rather than for all the Turks. My understanding is good enough. I have, for example, understood you really well.


Regarding passing your wisdom to the heroic nationalists of ´our´ country, if you care to provide their names & contact info, I will gladly let them know that there is a cabbage on TLC that would like to have a word with them. You can do the talking yourself. After all, these bogus ideas are yours, not mine.

 

 

 

I can not see anything about the topic ..

No need replying,,

 

137.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:30 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

look dearest alameda..

If you have heard what my sweet nationalists say and do , you would have blisters and herpes around your mouth with worry..

Nationalism was necessary to for the nation (for us nearly 90 years ago) but in this century you have to get rid of your nationalism in order to keep your country intact!!! You have to replace the nationalism with citizenship somehow..That is the reason why we are having  stomachaches  in Turkey..

Apart from that fact, our nationalism very close to racism in some respects and the worryingly most of my Turkish friends will not think that way and think that it is a form of patriotism..

 

 

 As with anything...there are boundries. It seems to me you constantly post negativity regarding Turkey. You don´t even seem to like the name, saying it is racist.

 

I think you have blinders on yourself....there are entities who would like to carve Turkey up., as amply shown with the map of the New Middle East.

 

"The Turkish Protest at NATO’s Military College in Rome

 

Lieutenant-Colonel Ralph Peters’ map of the “New Middle East” has sparked angry reactions in Turkey. According to Turkish press releases on September 15, 2006 the map of the “New Middle East” was displayed in NATO’s Military College in Rome, Italy. It was additionally reported that Turkish officers were immediately outraged by the presentation of a portioned and segmented Turkey.8 The map received some form of approval from the U.S. National War Academy before it was unveiled in front of NATO officers in Rome."

138.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:30 am

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 H, I have been reading your posts for a couple of years now and have seen you constantly post negative things regarding Turkey.

 

Maybe you don´t lie, but you have a definite perspective.

 

Well.

negative things wont be changed until they are acknowledged..

Denying has never a help to anybody..

Because we have been denying all those facts (such as findings in the survey) like some members are doing here "that is we are what we are" right at the moment..

And the way we are makes me really upset..

But thank you..at least you are acknowleding that I am not LYING..

139.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:30 am

I think we are more likely to get blisters and herpes around our mouths by the lack of logic in your posts...

 

The country is intact as you can see, and the only authentic "Turk" that seems to have cramps in his stomach happens to be you or at least it sounds that way from your posts.

 

Can I ask you how much time recently, or how many months out of a year you actually spend in Turkey? Because, you seem to have missed a lot of the positive achievements in Turkey. When was the last time you were actually in Turkey? And, why are you so bothered about the way the country is heading? I think Turkey is doing quite well despite your unending ranting...

 

 

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

look dearest alameda..

If you have heard what my sweet nationalists say and do , you would have blisters and herpes around your mouth with worry..

Nationalism was necessary to for the nation (for us nearly 90 years ago) but in this century you have to get rid of your nationalism in order to keep your country intact!!! You have to replace the nationalism with citizenship somehow..That is the reason why we are having  stomachaches  in Turkey..

Apart from that fact, our nationalism very close to racism in some respects and the worryingly most of my Turkish friends will not think that way and think that it is a form of patriotism..

 

 

 

140.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:31 am

 No wonder you don´t see. You haven´t taked your blinds off before reading. That´s why you keep crossing things out like a schoolboy in error.

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

I can not see anything about the topic ..

No need replying,,

 

 

 

141.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:34 am

I will post this again 

In case I get some answers this time..

 

Allah allah.

lol lol

Geez

Calm down..

Look sophisticated boy..

This is my knowledge you like it or not..And that is Turkey... You like it or NOT..

You can burry your head into sand, into shit, into tezek or into a gold mine.

it does not matter..

You are coming as if our population was a population of book readers..

Is it a lie that our population do not like reading?

is it a lie that our people trust the army more than politicians?

is it a lie that gender equality is NOT perfect in our country?

is it a lie that we are  paranoid as far as the west and our fear of being carved up concerned?

 

The findings of that survey DID NOT SURPRISE ME AT ALL..

I am still sure that MOST OF THE TURK WILL SAY THE same thing. But they will argue with you about ´what is wrong with trusting army´ such and such as.

And you are still insisting that findings are not true..!!!!

What kind of logic is that..I would not mind taking kissing that logic before using is  as a football before shooting my penalty and scoring..

Come into your senses..please yani..

 

That is the reason I am about to burst in tears from laughing now...

 

Please ya..stop this..

 

where did you live really? was it Turkey at all?

 

142.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:36 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

 No wonder you don´t see. You haven´t taked your blinds off before reading. That´s why you keep crossing things out like a schoolboy in error.

 

 

Not related to the topic..

It is again about me..lol

143.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:36 am

See, you are talking on behalf of every other Turk as the official self-proclaimed advocate again...

 

Denying has surely never helped anybody. It certainly hasn´t helped you, has it?

 

You hate the fact that there are a lot of Turks, who have a positive view of Turkey, feel good about all the hard achievements that have been achieved, and look forward to a better future. You hate the fact that they also do not care to acknowledge your childish rants, and challenge you each time you start howling...

 

The only thing that needs to be acknowledged is your bias & negativity.

 

And, no, you are not lying... You are just talking nonsense most of the time.

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

Well.

negative things wont be changed until they are acknowledged..

Denying has never a help to anybody..

Because we have been denying all those facts (such as findings in the survey) like some members are doing here "that is we are what we are" right at the moment..

And the way we are makes me really upset..

But thank you..at least you are acknowleding that I am not LYING..

 

 

144.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:38 am

Right

Now this is getting boring boys and girls..

Unless you put here something believable and related to the topic, I wont reply..

May be I will but I will cross them out..

Sorry about that..lol

145.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:38 am

 Of course it is about you. About whom else is it supposed to be. It is about your nonsense. Go cross this one out too.

Quoting thehandsom

 

Not related to the topic..

It is again about me..lol

 

 

146.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:38 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

Well.

negative things wont be changed until they are acknowledged..

Denying has never a help to anybody..

Because we have been denying all those facts (such as findings in the survey) like some members are doing here "that is we are what we are" right at the moment..

And the way we are makes me really upset..

But thank you..at least you are acknowleding that I am not LYING..

 

When I was a child I wondered if all the people with different colored eyes saw things the same color. As I matured I learned each person has a slightly different visual capacity.

 

How you see depends mostly on your perspective, the lense you are looking through. I don´t think you lie....but you seem to see things in a very different way from most of your countrymen. Did you ever see the movie Rashomon?

 

Everyone sees through their own desires, predjudices and perceived needs.

 

147.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:40 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

See, you are talking on behalf of every other Turk as the official self-proclaimed advocate again...

 

Denying has surely never helped anybody. It certainly hasn´t helped you, has it?

 

You hate the fact that there are a lot of Turks, who have a positive view of Turkey, feel good about all the hard achievements that have been achieved, and look forward to a better future. You hate the fact that they also do not care to acknowledge your childish rants, and challenge you each time you start howling...

 

The only thing that needs to be acknowledged is your bias & negativity.

 

And, no, you are not lying... You are just talking nonsense most of the time.

 

 

 

I completely agree with the part I did not cross..

The rest is just about me..

Please stop this..You are making me feel like a teacher and marking your homework..



Edited (2/25/2009) by thehandsom

148.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:41 am

Are you serious?

Are you saying you will actually stop posting your nonsense if we do not put something related to the topic?

Why didn´t you say so earlier? All this time, we have been posting related to the topic hoping that you would learn something and stop ranting. I mean, if this is all it takes to stop you from ranting, then by God, in the name of baby Jesus, we shall refrain from posting related to the topic so that you would actually end the madness.

Thanks man.

 

Quoting thehandsom

Right

Now this is getting boring boys and girls..

Unless you put here something believable and related to the topic, I wont reply..

May be I will but I will cross them out..

Sorry about that..lol

 

 

149.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:43 am

 I thought you were going to stop? Did you change your mind? Are we in for more ranting? We had enough for one night dude. I am a bit tired of trying to read through your crossed out quotes... Give us a break, let us resume tomorrow, or better yet, stay silent for the next century.

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

I completely agree with the part I did not cross..

The rest is just about me..

Please stop this..You are making me feel like a teacher and marking your homework..

 

 

150.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:45 am

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

When I was a child I wondered if all the people with different colored eyes saw things the same color. As I matured I learned each person has a slightly different visual capacity.

 

How you see depends mostly on your perspective, the lense you are looking through. I don´t think you lie....but you seem to see things in a very different way from most of your countrymen. Did you ever see the movie Rashomon?

 

Everyone sees through their own desires, predjudices and perceived needs.

 

 

I love that movie..

I love all kurusawa movies actually..

btw..have you ever heard of a concept called dialectic?

anyway I am not going to sit down and talk about necessity of critisism, opposing forces/opposing sides/contradictions and follishness of denials here..

Good night falks..

It was a pleasure..

151.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:48 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

come on alameda..he can defend himself I think..

stop acting with your motherly instincts here..

And as you can see I am not desperate at all..I know what I am talking about..

it is my country and I can NOT lie..

 

 

 ............and do you think I have no questions related to this issue? I would appreciate it if you would not patronize me here....and any country that wants to remain a country has to have some patriotism/nationalism to maintain that country.

 

I love Turkey and Turkish people, and don´t want to see it carved up....as some wish to do.

 

I go to Turkey to be in Turkey and around Turks. I find it annoying when I see miles and miles of beautiful coast strewn with tourist hotels and tourists who have no regard for the country.

 

They just like the warm weather,  nice scenery and beaches....and they inflate property values, but don´t really do much for the general well being of the people.



Edited (2/25/2009) by alameda [add]

152.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 02:55 am

For those who may be wondering about what handsom may have meant by dialectic (logic) and "not sitting down to talk about necessity, criticism, opposing forces/opposing sides/contradictions and foolishness of denials here", I would like to say that dialectic as a term simply refers to a method of argument which has been part of both Western, as well as Easter philosophies. The word itself comes from ancient Greece, and refers to the practice of holding an argument despite the fact that the participants share some common views and principles.

 

Since I, and couple of others here, don´t hold much in common with handsom or share his views, I guess his dialectic notation is to be disregarded. 

 

I am sure he will cross out the sections that he doesn´t like and resume his nonsense as usual.

 

Good night bud, it has been a pleasure as usual... 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

I love that movie..

I love all kurusawa movies actually..

btw..have you ever heard of a concept called dialectic?

anyway I am not going to sit down and talk about necessity of critisism, opposing forces/opposing sides/contradictions and follishness of denials here..

Good night falks..

It was a pleasure..

 

 

153.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 03:00 am

 

Quoting cynicmystic

For those who may be wondering about what handsom may have meant by dialectic (logic) and "not sitting down to talk about necessity, criticism, opposing forces/opposing sides/contradictions and foolishness of denials here", I would like to say that dialectic as a term simply refers to a method of argument which has been part of both Western, as well as Easter philosophies. The word itself comes from ancient Greece, and refers to the practice of holding an argument despite the fact that the participants share some common views and principles.

 

Since I, and couple of others here, don´t hold much in common with handsom or share his views, I guess his dialectic notation is to be disregarded. 

 

I am sure he will cross out the sections that he doesn´t like and resume his nonsense as usual.

 

Good night bud, it has been a pleasure as usual... 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

I love that movie..

I love all kurusawa movies actually..

btw..have you ever heard of a concept called dialectic?

anyway I am not going to sit down and talk about necessity of critisism, opposing forces/opposing sides/contradictions and follishness of denials here..

Good night falks..

It was a pleasure..

 

 

 

what a coincident..

Wiki is describing ´dialectic´ as you do.. very similar words..hmm..

You should read it fully though..



Edited (2/25/2009) by thehandsom

154.       cynicmystic
567 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 03:03 am

 

Of course wiki is quoting it as such. That is because that is what the term means, and that is how it doesn´t apply to your arguments...

 

I thought you were leaving by the way, and would stop posting if we didn´t post things related to the topic...

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

what a coincident..

Wiki is describing ´dialectic´ as you do.. very similar words..hmm..

You should read it fully though..

 

 

155.       peacetrain
1905 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 07:56 am

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

Don´t those words ring in your ears from everyone here who has asked the same of you?  {#lang_emotions_you_crazy}{#lang_emotions_puking}

 

 Thanks thehandsom {#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

156.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 07:01 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

Don´t those words ring in your ears from everyone here who has asked the same of you?  {#lang_emotions_you_crazy}{#lang_emotions_puking}

 

 

 As usual, girleegirl contributes yet another deep insightful post. One can see she really thinks about all sides and aspects of a conversation and her brilliant observation contributes so much to the discourse.

157.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 07:13 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 

 As usual, girleegirl contributes yet another deep insightful post. One can see she really thinks about all sides and aspects of a conversation and her brilliant observation contributes so much to the discourse.

 

 GG you should know that Alameda only likes deep insightful posts.....I think she is on the wrong forum!

158.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 07:14 pm

{#lang_emotions_laugh_at} 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 

 As usual, girleegirl contributes yet another deep insightful post. One can see she really thinks about all sides and aspects of a conversation and her brilliant observation contributes so much to the discourse.

 

As usual, another pompous post from alameda.  Seems I have struck a nerve. 

159.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 07:17 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 GG you should know that Alameda only likes deep insightful posts.....I think she is on the wrong forum!

 

 Gosh darn it!  I guess I should try harder to to make sure everyone knows how brilliant, thoughtful and deep I am! 

I wonder if there is a link I could post....{#lang_emotions_unsure}

160.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 07:18 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Gosh darn it!  I guess I should try harder to to make sure everyone knows how brilliant, thoughtful and deep I am! 

I wonder if there is a link I could post....{#lang_emotions_unsure}

 

 I suggest you try www.inflated-ego-bores-forum.com ?

161.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 08:01 pm

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

I love that movie..

I love all kurusawa movies actually..

btw..have you ever heard of a concept called dialectic?

anyway I am not going to sit down and talk about necessity of critisism, opposing forces/opposing sides/contradictions and follishness of denials here..

Good night falks..

It was a pleasure..

 

 Anyway...back to the topic...

 

I love Kurosawa´s fils, He was a real master. As for dialectic...of course I´ve heard of dialectics.....but I don´t think it is applicable here. This is not a dialectic question...it´s a pretty simple matter of seeing from different views. I also think those views are manipulated.

 

Have you seen century of self...you of course, know of Edward Bernays work in manipulating public opinion?

 



Edited (2/25/2009) by alameda [correct text.]

162.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 08:12 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 Anyway...back to the topic...

 

 {#lang_emotions_lol_fast}{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

163.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 09:48 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Gosh darn it!  I guess I should try harder to to make sure everyone knows how brilliant, thoughtful and deep I am! 

I wonder if there is a link I could post....{#lang_emotions_unsure}

 

 Well GG (or shall I call Kettle), I think alameda (we can call her Pot) may have a point......you sometimes post things that are shallow and quite honestly, just don´t have a place on this forum of intellectual GIANTS!!{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

164.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 09:49 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 Well GG (or shall I call Kettle), I think alameda (we can call her Pot) may have a point......you sometimes post things that are shallow and quite honestly, just don´t have a place on this forum of intellectual GIANTS!!{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

 You thought you were so funny you had to post this twice?  {#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

165.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 09:52 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 You thought you were so funny you had to post this twice?  {#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

DAMN!  I WAS GOING FOR BRILLIANT!!{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

166.       Trudy
7887 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 09:54 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 Well GG (or shall I call Kettle), I think alameda (we can call her Pot) may have a point......you sometimes post things that are shallow and quite honestly, just don´t have a place on this forum of intellectual GIANTS!!{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

 Hopefully no one ever looks up the Dutch word ´pot´ in the dictionary..... ROFL

167.       femmeous
2642 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 09:54 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 {#lang_emotions_lol_fast}{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

an that should be quoted lol

168.       femmeous
2642 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 09:56 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 Well GG (or shall I call Kettle), I think alameda (we can call her Pot) may have a point......you sometimes post things that are shallow and quite honestly, just don´t have a place on this forum of intellectual GIANTS!!{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

i completely agree with you, lisa,

i too feel so shallow when i read GG´s posts. i just cant believe that i have to go down to her level in order to read some people´s like GG or you lisa.

169.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 10:19 pm

 

Quoting femmeous

 

 

i completely agree with you, lisa,

i too feel so shallow when i read GG´s posts. i just cant believe that i have to go down to her level in order to read some people´s like GG or you lisa.

 

 My dear esteemed colleague.......Thank you for lowering yourself to the bed Amerikan level....I hope you can manage to get back off the floor!

170.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 10:19 pm

 

Quoting femmeous

 

 

i completely agree with you, lisa,

i too feel so shallow when i read GG´s posts. i just cant believe that i have to go down to her level in order to read some people´s like GG or you lisa.

 

 I´d like to speak for all bed amerikans when I say how honored we are that you would stoop to our level!  {#lang_emotions_razz}

171.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 10:21 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 My dear esteemed colleague.......Thank you for lowering yourself to the bed Amerikan level....I hope you can manage to get back off the floor!

 

 Ouuuhhhhh same time, same thought!!!!!!!!!!  We ARE low!!!  {#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

172.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 10:26 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Ouuuhhhhh same time, same thought!!!!!!!!!!  We ARE low!!!  {#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

 GG....its MY TURN TO HAVE THE BRAIN!!{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

173.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 10:31 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 GG....its MY TURN TO HAVE THE BRAIN!!{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

 

 Sorry but you didn´t seem to be using it today so I thought I would just go ahead and take it!   {#lang_emotions_shy}

174.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 10:58 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Sorry but you didn´t seem to be using it today so I thought I would just go ahead and take it!   {#lang_emotions_shy}

 

 Would you kindly PM me before you just go ahead and snatch it?  I was in the middle of posting something.....THEN POOF!  all my intellect was sucked out!  {#lang_emotions_unsure}

175.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 11:10 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 Would you kindly PM me before you just go ahead and snatch it?  I was in the middle of posting something.....THEN POOF!  all my intellect was sucked out!  {#lang_emotions_unsure}

 

Oh dear I guess I wasn´t thinking.....wait...are you sure I have the brain right now?  {#lang_emotions_unsure}

176.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 11:16 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

Oh dear I guess I wasn´t thinking.....wait...are you sure I have the brain right now?  {#lang_emotions_unsure}

 

 I donno.....is that whistling in my ears bothering you?

177.       Melek74
1506 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 11:37 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 I donno.....is that whistling in my ears bothering you?

 

Oh noooooo! Is TheBrain missing? {#lang_emotions_scared} 

178.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 11:42 pm

 

Quoting Melek74

 

 

Oh noooooo! Is TheBrain missing? {#lang_emotions_scared} 

 

 Did you take it in an attempt to get out of sissy-world?  {#lang_emotions_rant}

179.       Melek74
1506 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 11:44 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Did you take it in an attempt to get out of sissy-world?  {#lang_emotions_rant}

 

lol Honey, I wouldn´t know what TheBrain looks like if I saw one!

180.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 25 Feb 2009 Wed 11:52 pm

 

Quoting Melek74

 

 

lol Honey, I wouldn´t know what TheBrain looks like if I saw one!

 

 It looks something like this...

181.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 12:42 am

 

Quoting Melek74

 

 

lol Honey, I wouldn´t know what TheBrain looks like if I saw one!

 

Here we go!

http://img219.imageshack.us/img219/2252/13gf5.jpg

182.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 12:45 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

Here we go!

http://img219.imageshack.us/img219/2252/13gf5.jpg

 

 Hey! That look uncannily like MY brain after I finish reading your posts...kind of all mashed up and squidgy...

 

(I am not sure if this post is following my new self imposed rules.. )



Edited (2/26/2009) by TheAenigma

183.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 12:47 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Hey! That look uncannily like MY brain after I finish reading your posts...kind of all mashed up and squidgy...

 

But it looks so yummy..

I want some now..

184.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 12:47 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Hey! That look uncannily like MY brain after I finish reading your posts...kind of all mashed up and squidgy...

 

 Quit trying to get your comments in the post of the day thread!!!  {#lang_emotions_rant}

 

{#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

185.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 12:48 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

(I am not sure if this post is following my new self imposed rules.. )

 

 Rules are made for breakin!!  {#lang_emotions_ninja}

186.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 12:48 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

But it looks so yummy..

I want some now..

 

 Are you some kind of brain dudu?

187.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 12:51 am

 

Quoting thehandsom

 

 

But it looks so yummy..

I want some now..

 

 OMG you ate my and Lis´ brain!!!!!!!!  {#lang_emotions_rant}{#lang_emotions_rant}{#lang_emotions_rant}

188.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 12:53 am

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 OMG you ate my and Lis´ brain!!!!!!!!  {#lang_emotions_rant}{#lang_emotions_rant}{#lang_emotions_rant}

 

 lol

Probably with a nice Chianti....!

189.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 01:05 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 lol

Probably with a nice Chianti....!

 

 {#lang_emotions_cry}

190.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:37 am

 Hey alameda, if you want to complain to admins about "insults" you may want to take a peek at your own comments.  You seem to be a tad bit hypocritical ....

 

Quoting alameda

 As usual, girleegirl contributes yet another deep insightful post. One can see she really thinks about all sides and aspects of a conversation and her brilliant observation contributes so much to the discourse.

 

 

Quoting alameda

Often serious topics take thought, research and careful consideration. When others jump in, like children, it´s like making a dam in a stream. Thoughts are disrupted and the discourse is aborted.

 

Quoting alameda

Oh noooo.....so that means more stupid off topic posts that add absolutly NOTHING but discord or silly attempts at humor to what could have been interesting topics....groan...sigh...

  

Quoting alameda

As I mentioned Aenigma.....so if she doesn´t want to share...she can bring a lock for her suitcase...simple....hmmm?.........and I actually wonder just how many Turkish famlies have you visited anyway?

 

Quoting alameda

Oh femm....Get real....you know you provoked him! You followed him around multiple threads harassing him and lowering the level of discourse. He warned you numerous times, but you kept on....

Oh..........the bullfighter doesn´t complain when he´s gored by the bull.....he knows he provoked him.

You are quite masterful at it.

 

Quoting alameda

I guess you didn´t bother to read the link....hmmm? Too bad, Dr Fisher spent 30 years researching the subject....but of course, you know better.

 

These are just a few from the last few days.  You have tossed insults at me, AE, femme, Trudy, Melek, Elizabeth and others. 

 

Perhaps you should practice what you preach........

 

Quoting alameda

Yes, but a bif difference is the fact he was reacting to an insult...there is a difference. Different people have different tolerances to abusive behaviour. If you don´t like being insulted, don´t throw them around. "What goes around comes around. "

 

191.       Trudy
7887 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 07:25 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 Hey alameda, if you want to complain to admins about "insults" you may want to take a peek at your own comments.  You seem to be a tad bit hypocritical ....

 

 

 

Quoting alameda

Often serious topics take thought, research and careful consideration. When others jump in, like children, it´s like making a dam in a stream. Thoughts are disrupted and the discourse is aborted.

 

Quoting alameda

Oh noooo.....so that means more stupid off topic posts that add absolutly NOTHING but discord or silly attempts at humor to what could have been interesting topics....groan...sigh...

  

Quoting alameda

As I mentioned Aenigma.....so if she doesn´t want to share...she can bring a lock for her suitcase...simple....hmmm?.........and I actually wonder just how many Turkish famlies have you visited anyway?

 

Quoting alameda

Oh femm....Get real....you know you provoked him! You followed him around multiple threads harassing him and lowering the level of discourse. He warned you numerous times, but you kept on....

Oh..........the bullfighter doesn´t complain when he´s gored by the bull.....he knows he provoked him.

You are quite masterful at it.

 

Quoting alameda

I guess you didn´t bother to read the link....hmmm? Too bad, Dr Fisher spent 30 years researching the subject....but of course, you know better.

 

These are just a few from the last few days.  You have tossed insults at me, AE, femme, Trudy, Melek, Elizabeth and others. 

 

Perhaps you should practice what you preach........

 

Quoting alameda

Yes, but a bif difference is the fact he was reacting to an insult...there is a difference. Different people have different tolerances to abusive behaviour. If you don´t like being insulted, don´t throw them around. "What goes around comes around. "

 

 

 Thanks GG, I think you are so right! {#lang_emotions_flowers}

192.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 07:25 pm

 

Quoting Trudy

 

 

 Thanks GG, I think you are so right! {#lang_emotions_flowers}

 

 Is that why you borrowed my brain yesterday GG?

193.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 07:37 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Is that why you borrowed my brain yesterday GG?

 

 Dammit, that was YOUR brain???  No wonder I got in trouble!!!  {#lang_emotions_rant}

194.       alameda
3499 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:25 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 Hey alameda, if you want to complain to admins about "insults" you may want to take a peek at your own comments.  You seem to be a tad bit hypocritical ....

 

 

 

Quoting alameda

Often serious topics take thought, research and careful consideration. When others jump in, like children, it´s like making a dam in a stream. Thoughts are disrupted and the discourse is aborted.

 

Quoting alameda

Oh noooo.....so that means more stupid off topic posts that add absolutly NOTHING but discord or silly attempts at humor to what could have been interesting topics....groan...sigh...

  

Quoting alameda

As I mentioned Aenigma.....so if she doesn´t want to share...she can bring a lock for her suitcase...simple....hmmm?.........and I actually wonder just how many Turkish famlies have you visited anyway?

 

Quoting alameda

Oh femm....Get real....you know you provoked him! You followed him around multiple threads harassing him and lowering the level of discourse. He warned you numerous times, but you kept on....

Oh..........the bullfighter doesn´t complain when he´s gored by the bull.....he knows he provoked him.

You are quite masterful at it.

 

Quoting alameda

I guess you didn´t bother to read the link....hmmm? Too bad, Dr Fisher spent 30 years researching the subject....but of course, you know better.

 

These are just a few from the last few days.  You have tossed insults at me, AE, femme, Trudy, Melek, Elizabeth and others. 

 

Perhaps you should practice what you preach........

 

Quoting alameda

Yes, but a bif difference is the fact he was reacting to an insult...there is a difference. Different people have different tolerances to abusive behaviour. If you don´t like being insulted, don´t throw them around. "What goes around comes around. "

 

 

 I stand by all my comments...you see my posts were in response...there is a difference....also there is context. Some you have pulled out were relevant to the context of the thread and not personall.  

 

It´s interesting to see how much initiative you put into your research on my comments.....Just because I disagree with someone and express my idea, does not constitute an insult.

195.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:28 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 I stand by all my comments...you see my posts were in response...there is a difference....also there is context. Some you have pulled out were relevant to the context of the thread and not personall.  

 

It´s interesting to see how much initiative you put into your research on my comments.....Just because I disagree with someone and express my idea, does not constitute an insult.

 

 Are you really so completely unaware of yourself or do you just simply shroud yourself in your righteousness and honestly think that what you do is any different than the rest of us?

196.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:29 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

It´s interesting to see how much initiative you put into your research on my comments.....Just because I disagree with someone and express my idea, does not constitute an insult.

 

 And trust me...it took no time at all to "research".  {#lang_emotions_lol_fast}

197.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:35 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

Some you have pulled out were relevant to the context of the thread and not personall.  

 

 Only some yes! Meaning others WERE! The difference is, we don´t complain about YOU....

198.       alameda
3499 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:37 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Are you really so completely unaware of yourself or do you just simply shroud yourself in your righteousness and honestly think that what you do is any different than the rest of us?

 

 Obviously I am different than the rest of who ever your "us" is....if I were more like you, I´d be part of the (what looks like to me) the mean girls gang.......Given some people´s taste, I don´t mind being disliked by you...and yours.

199.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:39 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 Obviously I am different than the rest of who ever your "us" is....if I were more like you, I´d be part of the (what looks like to me) the mean girls gang.......Given some people´s taste, I don´t mind being disliked by you...and yours.

 

 Mean girls gang? lol

Oh Alameda you do make me laugh!

200.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:39 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 Obviously I am different than the rest of who ever your "us" is....if I were more like you, I´d be part of the (what looks like to me) the mean girls gang.......Given some people´s taste, I don´t mind being disliked by you...and yours.

 

 Hmmmm.....should I run and complain to admin that you are insulting me...personally???  No...I don´t think so....I´m just a bit more mature than that. 

 

201.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:47 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Mean girls gang? lol

Oh Alameda you do make me laugh!

 

 Hmmmm Mean Girls Gang... MGG  .....

Magnificent GirleeGirl?

Many Girls Gossiping?

Marvellous Good Greymatter? 

 



Edited (2/26/2009) by TheAenigma

202.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:51 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Hmmmm.....should I run and complain to admin that you are insulting me...personally???  No...I don´t think so....I´m just a bit more mature than that. 

 

 

 Only a bit! 

203.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:53 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Hmmmm Mean Girls Gang... MGG  .....

Magnificent GirleeGirl?

Many Girls Gossiping?

Marvellous Good Greymatter? 

 

 

 Most glamorous girls?

Mega good girls?

Magnified gadget group?

Magnificent gambling gabbers?

{#lang_emotions_unsure}

204.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:54 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Most glamorous girls?

Mega good girls?

Magnified gadget group?

Magnificent gambling gabbers?

{#lang_emotions_unsure}

 

 Misunderstood gorgeous girls..... {#lang_emotions_super_cool}

205.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:55 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 Only a bit! 

 

 

206.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:57 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Most glamorous girls?

Mega good girls?

Magnified gadget group?

Magnificent gambling gabbers?

{#lang_emotions_unsure}

 

Mighty Giant Girls?

Mostly Giddy Guardians?

More Goofy Gargoyles?

 

 

207.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:58 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

Mighty Giant Girls?

Mostly Giddy Guardians?

More Goofy Gargoyles?

 

 

 

 

208.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:58 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

Mighty Giant Girls?

Mostly Giddy Guardians?

More Goofy Gargoyles?

 

 

 

 Mad Gormless Gits ....

209.       Melek74
1506 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 08:59 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 Obviously I am different than the rest of who ever your "us" is....if I were more like you, I´d be part of the (what looks like to me) the mean girls gang.......Given some people´s taste, I don´t mind being disliked by you...and yours.

 

Well, if we were more like you we´d be a part of the passive-agressive (one person) club.

 

 

210.       Trudy
7887 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:02 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 Obviously I am different than the rest of who ever your "us" is....if I were more like you, I´d be part of the (what looks like to me) the mean girls gang.......Given some people´s taste, I don´t mind being disliked by you...and yours.

 

Christ, how childish can one be? {#lang_emotions_head_bang}  (No, I don´t have a link, I´m sure you can look up the meaning of that verdict yourself.)

211.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:04 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Mad Gormless Gits ....

 

 

Marvelous gothic gastronomes?

Meaty gnarled gnomes?

212.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:04 pm

 

Quoting Trudy

 

 

Christ, how childish can one be? {#lang_emotions_head_bang}  (No, I don´t have a link, I´m sure you can look up the meaning of that verdict yourself.)

 

 Happy to oblige....

213.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:05 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 Obviously I am different than the rest of who ever your "us" is....if I were more like you, I´d be part of the (what looks like to me) the mean girls gang.......Given some people´s taste, I don´t mind being disliked by you...and yours.

 

 alameda, honestly, I don´t understand how somebody as intelligent as you can be so completely uninsightful.  Your posts are condesending and insulting to many members.  Perhaps many members are unsulting as well, but at least they acknowledge their shortcoming.  You are content to insult people and then act surprised when you get the reaction that you deserve.  Your posts are irritating to many of the more feminist women here.  Just because we happen to agree with eachother about your posts, doesn´t mean we always agree with eachother.  GG and I have vastly different political views, but NEVER once has she insinuated that I am stupid.  You have a habit of talking down to people and then claim how culturally sensitive you are when you can´t even be sensitive to people from your own culture!

214.       femmeous
2642 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:07 pm

i have a sore throat, have some mercy on me, i cant laugh out loud.

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 Obviously I am different than the rest of who ever your "us" is....if I were more like you, I´d be part of the (what looks like to me) the mean girls gang.......Given some people´s taste, I don´t mind being disliked by you...and yours.

 

 

215.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:07 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 GG and I have vastly different political views, but NEVER once has she insinuated that I am stupid. 

 

 

216.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:07 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 alameda, honestly, I don´t understand how somebody as intelligent as you can be so completely uninsightful.  Your posts are condesending and insulting to many members.  Perhaps many members are unsulting as well, but at least they acknowledge their shortcoming.  You are content to insult people and then act surprised when you get the reaction that you deserve.  Your posts are irritating to many of the more feminist women here.  Just because we happen to agree with eachother about your posts, doesn´t mean we always agree with eachother.  GG and I have vastly different political views, but NEVER once has she insinuated that I am stupid.  You have a habit of talking down to people and then claim how culturally sensitive you are when you can´t even be sensitive to people from your own culture!

 

 Brilliant!  seni seviyorum askim benim...marry me?  {#lang_emotions_flowers}

217.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:08 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 

 

 Hey!  We share a brain....why would I ever insinuate she is stupid???  {#lang_emotions_ninja}

218.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:10 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

You have a habit of talking down to people and then claim how culturally sensitive you are when you can´t even be sensitive to people from your own culture!

 

 Perfect......



Edited (2/26/2009) by TheAenigma [Forgot something important...]

219.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:12 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 alameda, honestly, I don´t understand how somebody as intelligent as you can be so completely uninsightful.  

 

 Offfffffffffffff....your post was so beautiful it made me forget............

220.       alameda
3499 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:49 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 alameda, honestly, I don´t understand how somebody as intelligent as you can be so completely uninsightful.  Your posts are condesending and insulting to many members.  Perhaps many members are unsulting as well, but at least they acknowledge their shortcoming.  You are content to insult people and then act surprised when you get the reaction that you deserve.  Your posts are irritating to many of the more feminist women here.  Just because we happen to agree with eachother about your posts, doesn´t mean we always agree with eachother.  GG and I have vastly different political views, but NEVER once has she insinuated that I am stupid.  You have a habit of talking down to people and then claim how culturally sensitive you are when you can´t even be sensitive to people from your own culture!

 

 First of all, you do realize the US is a multicultural country, don´t you? So when you say "people from my own culture" I find it curious. Obviously I am not culturally kin to the people you discuss, and choose to align yourself with.

 

As for my posts being irritating, they irritate the same people over and over again. Those same people have attacked others who they don´t feel are "liberated" enough. They constantly make fun of Turkish/Islamic society. Others seem to be athiest evangelists, constantly picking arguments and undermine others beliefs.

 

Femminist? How about the other side?  I don´t swallow "their" idea of femminism, I prefer to be more concerned with humanity, not one gender in particular. I think some females idea of being femminist is unrealistic and also chauvenistic. If I express that, that is my right. It is not being insulting if I don´t agree.

 

I also don´t think I have ever called you stupid, that is your interpretation of things, not anything I have said.

 

Anyway, this is tedious. You girls have fun cackling over my posts. Glad to see I´ve provided some entertainment for you.



Edited (2/26/2009) by alameda

221.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 09:52 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 First of all, you do realize the US is a multicultural country, don´t you? So when you say "people from my own culture" I find it curious. Obviously I am not culturally kin to the people you discuss, and choose to align yourself with.

 

As for my posts being irritating, they irritate the same people over and over again. Those same people have attacked others who they don´t feel are "liberated" enough. They constantly make fun of Turkish/Islamic society. Others seem to be athiest evangelists, constantly picking arguments and undermine others beliefs.

 

Femminist? How about the other side?  I don´t swallow "their" idea of femminism, I prefer to be more concerned with humanity, not one gender in particular. I think some females idea of being femminist is unrealistic and also chauvenistic. If I express that, that is my right. It is not being insulting if I don´t agree.

 

I also don´t think I have ever called you stupid, that is your interpretation of things, not anything I have said.

 

Anyway, this is tedious. You girls have fun cackling over my posts. Glad to see I´ve provided some entertainment for you.

 

 Nice post to try and rally support....you just about appealed to everyone there ...ouh wait, you forgot disabled people and the mentally insane...I am sure we just have insulted them too eh? {#lang_emotions_you_crazy}

 

I wonder why you insist on lumping us together as a "gang" to gain support, when we actually have very varied views on things? 



Edited (2/26/2009) by TheAenigma

222.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 10:11 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 First of all, you do realize the US is a multicultural country, don´t you? So when you say "people from my own culture" I find it curious. Obviously I am not culturally kin to the people you discuss, and choose to align yourself with.

 

As for my posts being irritating, they irritate the same people over and over again. Those same people have attacked others who they don´t feel are "liberated" enough. They constantly make fun of Turkish/Islamic society. Others seem to be athiest evangelists, constantly picking arguments and undermine others beliefs.

 

Femminist? How about the other side?  I don´t swallow "their" idea of femminism, I prefer to be more concerned with humanity, not one gender in particular. I think some females idea of being femminist is unrealistic and also chauvenistic. If I express that, that is my right. It is not being insulting if I don´t agree.

 

I also don´t think I have ever called you stupid, that is your interpretation of things, not anything I have said.

 

Anyway, this is tedious. You girls have fun cackling over my posts. Glad to see I´ve provided some entertainment for you.

 

 Tell me dear sweet innocent alameda....when have you ever seen a post of mine that is insulting Turkish or Islamic society?  When have you ever seen a post of mine that is spouting my religious beliefs? 

 

You can spout your so-called humanitarism until you are blue in the face, but until you start treating people like human beings your words are empty.  When you constantly condescened people or tell someone that you disagree with that they offer no intellectual stimulation to the discussion or any of the other multitude of things you spew,  then you are no better than someone telling you to google yourself a personality....you just do it in a different manner.  I prefer the direct route!

 

How many people have to tell you that you are insulting before you realize that you are not the pillar of innocence that you portray yourself as. 

 

Yes, it is your right to disagree with people...as it is our right to disagree with you.  Your manner is different than others but that does not make the content any different. 

 

Go back and read your posts alameda.  You are insulting!!!!



Edited (2/26/2009) by girleegirl [emphasis!]

223.       Melek74
1506 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 10:15 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Tell me dear sweet innocent alameda....when have you ever seen a post of mine that is insulting Turkish or Islamic society?  When have you ever seen a post of mine that is spouting my religious beliefs? 

 

I think she was talking about me, I recall she didn´t like me criticizing the impact of religions on people´s behavior. However when DD posted a summary of what I said she applauded her post. {#lang_emotions_lol} 

224.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 10:21 pm

 

Quoting Melek74

 

 

I think she was talking about me, I recall she didn´t like me criticizing the impact of religions on people´s behavior. However when DD posted a summary of what I said she applauded her post. {#lang_emotions_lol} 

 

 No, she was talking about "us".  We are all the same in her thin little book. {#lang_emotions_satisfied_nod}

225.       Melek74
1506 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 10:24 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 No, she was talking about "us".  We are all the same in her thin little book. {#lang_emotions_satisfied_nod}

 

So you mean I´m not the atheist evangelist? {#lang_emotions_cry}

226.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 10:31 pm

 

Quoting Melek74

 

 

So you mean I´m not the atheist evangelist? {#lang_emotions_cry}

 

 Oh no...you are...we all are.  We are all lumped together as god-hating-turk-bashing-mean-girl-imbecile--feminist.  {#lang_emotions_bigsmile}

227.       Trudy
7887 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 10:37 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Oh no...you are...we all are.  We are all lumped together as god-hating-turk-bashing-mean-girl-imbecile--feminist.  {#lang_emotions_bigsmile}

 

 Will this be the GHTBMGIF-gang? (Couldn´t you come up with something easier to remember?)

228.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 10:44 pm

 

Quoting Trudy

 

 

 Will this be the GHTBMGIF-gang? (Couldn´t you come up with something easier to remember?)

 

Ok, ok...I will work on something else! {#lang_emotions_rant}

229.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 11:07 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 Oh no...you are...we all are.  We are all lumped together as god-hating-turk-bashing-mean-girl-imbecile--feminist.  {#lang_emotions_bigsmile}

 

 lol

Well... I am proud to be in the GHTBMGIF gang, at least I am in such wonderfully humorous company!

230.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 26 Feb 2009 Thu 11:09 pm

 

Quoting Melek74

 

 

So you mean I´m not the atheist evangelist? {#lang_emotions_cry}

 

 And am I not the slightly flakey pastafarian who talks about global warming while driving a sports car?



Edited (2/26/2009) by TheAenigma [removed a comma, now surplus to requirements...any offers?]

231.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 27 Feb 2009 Fri 01:15 am

 

This Poll conducted by Konda seems to be taken quite seriously in Turkey and one of the outcomes, when it was put into a graph, does not look very promising unfortunately.

That is more of a concern than the  points which were mentioned in Chiko´s original post as we already knew them.. (I mean xenophobia, paranoia about being carved up, not reading books, position in women in general in the society, trust of the army etc)

 

The graph which was drawn by prof Tarhan Erdem, head of Konda, tells us something interesting at the same time it is worrying:

http://preview.hurriyet.com.tr/preview/image.aspx?picid=7426199

 

 

x axis (left to write 1 to 5) 1 is conservative life style, 5 is modern life style (might be what merih was mentioning in her column)

y axis (from bottom to top ) 1 is sheria 5 is secularism.

 

According to the survey, group ´a´ has the weight of 85-90% and group ´b´ has 10-15%

 

Basically, almost all people consider themselves as secular. But 85-90 % of them think that they are conservatives as far as the life style is concerned..  

The other 10-15 % think that they have a  modern life style..

group ´b´  who thinks that they are modern and has 10-15% weight, have a fear of secularism but the other group (a) who has the majority do not share the same fear..

 

Two conclusions I think:

The good one is, fear of sheria in Turkey is a hype.

Bad conclusion is, conservatism always oppresses the others..




Edited (2/27/2009) by thehandsom
Edited (2/27/2009) by thehandsom
Edited (2/27/2009) by thehandsom

232.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 27 Feb 2009 Fri 05:19 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 First of all, you do realize the US is a multicultural country, don´t you? So when you say "people from my own culture" I find it curious. Obviously I am not culturally kin to the people you discuss, and choose to align yourself with.

 

This is exactly the condescending thing I was referring to....."DO I REALIZE THAT THE US IS MULTICULTURAL?"  alameda...my own family is multicultural....and we don´t talk to eachother like this! 

 

As for my posts being irritating, they irritate the same people over and over again. Those same people have attacked others who they don´t feel are "liberated" enough. They constantly make fun of Turkish/Islamic society. Others seem to be athiest evangelists, constantly picking arguments and undermine others beliefs.

 

They irritate the same people over and over because you target the same people over and over again.  What is wrong with making "fun" ?  People do it all the time about Bed Amerikans/Brits/Borats/Cloggies.......the difference is, we take it in stride and laugh about ourselves because we are mature enough to realize that our culture is not perfect.  There is a certain segment of the population here that thinks there culture is above any reproach.   

 

Femminist? How about the other side?  I don´t swallow "their" idea of femminism, I prefer to be more concerned with humanity, not one gender in particular. I think some females idea of being femminist is unrealistic and also chauvenistic. If I express that, that is my right. It is not being insulting if I don´t agree.

 

Nobody really cares what your opinions are....it is your demeaning way of conveying your thoughts that we don´t like. 

 

I also don´t think I have ever called you stupid, that is your interpretation of things, not anything I have said.

 

You dont´ have to call me or anyone stupid for your condescending tone to do it for you.

Anyway, this is tedious. You girls have fun cackling over my posts. Glad to see I´ve provided some entertainment for you.

 

You´re right, this is very tedious but I didn´t speak up to be mean or show my allegiance to any gang.  I spoke up because it´s really difficult to watch how you manipulate people and insinuate negative attributes about people´s lifestyle and choices and then act surprised when you get attacked for it. 

 

 



Edited (2/27/2009) by Elisabeth
Edited (2/27/2009) by Elisabeth

233.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 27 Feb 2009 Fri 07:37 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 

Anyway, this is tedious. You girls have fun cackling over my posts. Glad to see I´ve provided some entertainment for you.

 

I agree this is tedious, and I will not be commenting any further on this subject.  My own personal comments I stand by, but I have no wish to make anyone feel they are under mob-attack.  Unfortunately, if it feels that way, it is because you insist on addressing your comments to this mythical "gang" - who actually have ideas as diverse as yours.

 

Anyway, for me, subject is closed.

234.       bydand
755 posts
 28 Feb 2009 Sat 11:07 pm

{#lang_emotions_wtf} Cliques or gangs in TLC! What an outrageous suggestion.

235.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 28 Feb 2009 Sat 11:10 pm

 

Quoting bydand

{#lang_emotions_wtf} Cliques or gangs in TLC! What an outrageous suggestion.

 

 Falan filan....

236.       bydand
755 posts
 01 Mar 2009 Sun 12:22 am

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Falan filan....

 

 Must say TheAenigma your turkish is improving leaps and bounds..a real credit to TLC.{#lang_emotions_flowers}

237.       alameda
3499 posts
 19 Mar 2009 Thu 08:03 pm

 this was a duplicate



Edited (3/19/2009) by alameda [duplicate post.]

238.       alameda
3499 posts
 19 Mar 2009 Thu 08:03 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

alameda, honestly, I don´t understand how somebody as intelligent as you can be so completely uninsightful.  Your posts are condesending and insulting to many members. 

 
2  Perhaps many members are unsulting as well, but at least they acknowledge their shortcoming.  You are content to insult people and then act surprised when you get the reaction that you deserve.  Your posts are irritating to many of the more feminist women here.  Just because we happen to agree with eachother about your posts, doesn´t mean we always agree with each other
  
3 GG and I have vastly different political views, but NEVER once has she insinuated that I am stupid. 
 
4 You have a habit of talking down to people and then claim how culturally sensitive you are when you can´t even be sensitive to people from your own culture! 

 

 

#1  Well, what can I do if reading my posts made you feel stupid. Should I make things more simplistic?

 

 #2  I think the issue is one of intent and specificity.

 
#3 It´s in the eyes of the beholder
 
#4 LBGT-American, Anglo-American, Christian-American, Jewish-American.....Muslim-American, Progressive-American. One thing is sure, you and I are not culturally kin. We share a country, but our values are very different. Again I ask, just what culture is that? African-American, Mexican-American, Pacific-American? I don´t think we have similar definition of multi-culturalism, and I highly doubt if in Texas you have the cultural diversity as there is in the SF Bay Area, or New York City. I´ve been to Texas, never want to go back there.


Edited (3/19/2009) by alameda [posted before finished]

239.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 08:34 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

Quoting Elisabeth

alameda, honestly, I don´t understand how somebody as intelligent as you can be so completely uninsightful.  Your posts are condesending and insulting to many members. 

 
2  Perhaps many members are unsulting as well, but at least they acknowledge their shortcoming.  You are content to insult people and then act surprised when you get the reaction that you deserve.  Your posts are irritating to many of the more feminist women here.  Just because we happen to agree with eachother about your posts, doesn´t mean we always agree with each other
  
3 GG and I have vastly different political views, but NEVER once has she insinuated that I am stupid. 
 
4 You have a habit of talking down to people and then claim how culturally sensitive you are when you can´t even be sensitive to people from your own culture! 

 

 

#1  Well, what can I do if reading my posts made you feel stupid. Should I make things more simplistic?

 

 #2  I think the issue is one of intent and specificity.

 
#3 It´s in the eyes of the beholder
 
#4 LBGT-American, Anglo-American, Christian-American, Jewish-American.....Muslim-American, Progressive-American. One thing is sure, you and I are not culturally kin. We share a country, but our values are very different. Again I ask, just what culture is that? African-American, Mexican-American, Pacific-American? I don´t think we have similar definition of multi-culturalism, and I highly doubt if in Texas you have the cultural diversity as there is in the SF Bay Area, or New York City. I´ve been to Texas, never want to go back there.

 alameda, I think I finally get you.  You do not identify yourself as a peer of any earthly human being let alone another American....(not such a bad thing for me).  You don´t want to accept the fact that if you are living in the US, regardless of your ethnic background, you are part of the culture.  I can seen now why you are so quick to dislike other Americans. 

 

As for where I live....right now I live in Texas because that is where my career took me but I spent most of my life abroad and on the Northeast Coast of the US (NY and Boston).  I also spent several months living the the Middle East with my father.....but none of this makes me an authority on culture or people.  But what I find interesting about you is that you act like you are an authority on everything (including Texas).  So, go ahead and continue to put everyone down to make yourself feel more important.  If that is what you need to do to get thru the day, then more power to you. 

240.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 08:35 pm

Offfffff lis   The gang tactic was strictly one post to Alameda each at 30 minute intervals

Why is nobody listening to gang rules these days?



Edited (3/20/2009) by TheAenigma

241.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 08:39 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

Offfffff lis   The gang tactic was strictly one post to Alameda each at 30 minute intervals

Why is nobody listening to gang rules these days?

 

 Sorry, I missed this one....can I still be in the gang? 

 

Besides, you NEVER brought my marguerita in the lounge!!

242.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 08:39 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

Offfffff lis   The gang tactic was strictly one post to Alameda each at 30 minute intervals

Why is nobody listening to gang rules these days?

 

 We haven´t had a meeting in so long I have forgotten all the rules.  {#emotions_dlg.shy}

243.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 08:43 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 We haven´t had a meeting in so long I have forgotten all the rules.  {#emotions_dlg.shy}

 

 And you are supposed to be an enlighted Californian?  HAHAHA

244.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 08:44 pm

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 We haven´t had a meeting in so long I have forgotten all the rules.  {#emotions_dlg.shy}

 

 We URGENTLY need a meeting soon to discuss our stupid disruptive off topic diversionary tactics for this week (by the way your margaritas are in the lounge)

245.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 08:46 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 

 And you are supposed to be an enlighted Californian?  HAHAHA

 

 No, no...there is only room in California for ONE enlightened one!!  I´m just a disruptive idiot gangster who isn´t capable of showing my intelligence because I don´t post mile long diatribes filled with links!  {#emotions_dlg.bigsmile}

246.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 08:47 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 We URGENTLY need a meeting soon to discuss our stupid disruptive off topic diversionary tactics for this week (by the way your margaritas are in the lounge)

 

 I will try really hard to follow you...but I am not sure if I can keep up.  Should we carry on in the lounge?

247.       alameda
3499 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 09:18 pm

 

Quoting Elisabeth

 

 alameda, I think I finally get you.  You do not identify yourself as a peer of any earthly human being let alone another American....(not such a bad thing for me). 

 

You don´t want to accept the fact that if you are living in the US, regardless of your ethnic background, you are part of the culture.  I can seen now why you are so quick to dislike other Americans. 

 

As for where I live....right now I live in Texas because that is where my career took me but I spent most of my life abroad and on the Northeast Coast of the US (NY and Boston). 

 

I also spent several months living the the Middle East with my father.....but none of this makes me an authority on culture or people. 

 

But what I find interesting about you is that you act like you are an authority on everything (including Texas).  So, go ahead and continue to put everyone down to make yourself feel more important.  If that is what you need to do to get thru the day, then more power to you. 

 

Who said I don´t like Americans? You, not me. It´s just that you don´t seem to realize that the USA...(America is the continent, not the country) IS a multicultural society. I don´t identify with you or girleegirl´s  part of it that culture. 

 

You don´t speak for me as an "American",  and I know many others who do not identify with your interpretation of  "American" culture.

 

If you feel I have put you down, I´m sorry for that and I apologise for that. It was never my intention to hurt your feelings, or the feelings of anyone here. 

 

I think it was over "Right to Life" issues we started having problems.  Well, when you are willing to impose your ideas on millions of other citizens, I object.  That is part of multiculturalism, acceptance of others beliefs....without the imposition of yours on others. 

 

248.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 09:26 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

 think it was over "Right to Life" issues we started having problems.  Well, when you are willing to impose your ideas on millions of other citizens, I object.  That is part of multiculturalism, acceptance of others beliefs....without the imposition of yours on others. 

 

 

Is this a joke? 

249.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 20 Mar 2009 Fri 09:49 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

Who said I don´t like Americans? You, not me. It´s just that you don´t seem to realize that the USA...(America is the continent, not the country) IS a multicultural society. I don´t identify with you or girleegirl´s  part of it that culture. 

 

You don´t speak for me as an "American",  and I know many others who do not identify with your interpretation of  "American" culture.

 

 Speaking without sarcasm, I must admit I am astonished by your comments above.  I had always thought you were more tolerant.    You call for tolerance of cultures in your posts, and now you make the statement that you live in a multicultural society, but cannot identify with one or more cultures in that society? 

 

I seems that on the one hand you ask for tolerance and understanding from others for eastern culture, while on the other hand you say you cannot identify with western culture

 



Edited (3/20/2009) by TheAenigma

250.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 21 Mar 2009 Sat 07:07 am

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

Who said I don´t like Americans? You, not me. It´s just that you don´t seem to realize that the USA...(America is the continent, not the country) IS a multicultural society. I don´t identify with you or girleegirl´s  part of it that culture. 

 

 What the hell do you know about my culture?  {#emotions_dlg.you_crazy}

251.       Trudy
7887 posts
 21 Mar 2009 Sat 10:40 am

 

Quoting girleegirl

 

 

 What the hell do you know about my culture?  {#emotions_dlg.you_crazy}

 

 Everything GG, haven´t you read the provided link? www.girleegirlsculture.us ?

252.       femmeous
2642 posts
 21 Mar 2009 Sat 11:06 am

 

Quoting Trudy

 

 

 Everything GG, haven´t you read the provided link? www.girleegirlsculture.us ?

 

 OMG, thank you for the link. a very informative website. now i know everything about GG´s culture.

253.       lady in red
6947 posts
 21 Mar 2009 Sat 06:34 pm

 

Quoting Trudy

 

 

 Everything GG, haven´t you read the provided link? www.girleegirlsculture.us ?

 

 Oh - it didn´t work for me     (anyone willing to give me the lowdown??)

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