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He found the love of his life while learning English on the internet
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1.       dilliduduk
1551 posts
 16 Jul 2010 Fri 11:01 am

Aradığı aşkı dil öğrenirken buldu

İngilizcesini geliştirmek için sanal ortama girdi; evlenerek çıktı...

while he was learning a language, he found the love he was looking for.

He entered the cyberspace to improve his English; and left marrying.

 

I was just curious if it happened on this website {#emotions_dlg.lol_fast}

 

details are here:

http://www.ntvmsnbc.com/id/25115027/

2.       barba_mama
1629 posts
 16 Jul 2010 Fri 11:57 am

It happened to my Turkish cousin. He learned English through dictionaries, and went online to practice. He met a lovely German woman online, and they fell in love. When she went to Turkey they had some problems understanding eachother. My cousin had learned to read and write English, but to talk English was a different thing His pronounciation was horrible. But a few years later, he speaks perfect English and a bit of German. She speaks perfect Turkish. They are married for 2, 3 years now and have a pretty baby girl

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3.       TheJanissary
384 posts
 16 Jul 2010 Fri 03:37 pm

Allah bir yastıkta kocatsın

4.       nifrtity
1807 posts
 16 Jul 2010 Fri 03:41 pm

It is amazzing and unbelivable thing

5.       scalpel
1472 posts
 16 Jul 2010 Fri 04:51 pm

 

Quoting dilliduduk

 

 

http://www.ntvmsnbc.com/id/25115027/

 

 The gelin is a bit taller than the damat?

6.       zeytinne
596 posts
 16 Jul 2010 Fri 05:15 pm

 

Quoting scalpel

 

 

 The gelin is a bit taller than the damat?

 

 Who cares? {#emotions_dlg.bigsmile}

7.       armegon
1872 posts
 16 Jul 2010 Fri 07:48 pm

Telat ve Olfa´ya mutluluklar...

8.       armegon
1872 posts
 16 Jul 2010 Fri 07:49 pm

Woow, i dont know that you have a Turkish cousin.{#emotions_dlg.razz}

Quoting barba_mama

It happened to my Turkish cousin. He learned English through dictionaries, and went online to practice. He met a lovely German woman online, and they fell in love. When she went to Turkey they had some problems understanding eachother. My cousin had learned to read and write English, but to talk English was a different thing His pronounciation was horrible. But a few years later, he speaks perfect English and a bit of German. She speaks perfect Turkish. They are married for 2, 3 years now and have a pretty baby girl

 

 

9.       oeince
582 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 12:27 am

I hope we dont read their divorcement three months later. But i am not so hopeful to tell the truth.

10.       Inas
2 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 01:52 am

congrats

11.       barba_mama
1629 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 01:30 pm

 

Quoting oeince

I hope we dont read their divorcement three months later. But i am not so hopeful to tell the truth.

 

Actually, these internet-started relationships can work very well, because you first get attracted by the personality. And in the end, beauty fades, personality stays.

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12.       dilliduduk
1551 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 01:33 pm

 

Quoting barba_mama

 

 

Actually, these internet-started relationships can work very well, because you first get attracted by the personality. And in the end, beauty fades, personality stays.

 

yes but people can be very good liars when they are only writing.

I don´t think I would trust anyone

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13.       barba_mama
1629 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 01:38 pm

 

Quoting dilliduduk

 

 

yes but people can be very good liars when they are only writing.

I don´t think I would trust anyone

 

 You don´t need internet to lie Most of the horor stories about Turkish dudu´s and ripped-off foreign women actually do not involve internet, but they involve a lot of hairgel, too much aftershave and lots of alcohol.

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14.       ninja
157 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 05:30 pm

 

Quoting oeince

I hope we dont read their divorcement three months later. But i am not so hopeful to tell the truth.

 

 Why so pessimistic?

15.       ninja
157 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 05:30 pm

 

Quoting Inas

congrats

 

 Congrats for what?

16.       ninja
157 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 05:34 pm

 

Quoting barba_mama

 

 

Actually, these internet-started relationships can work very well, because you first get attracted by the personality. And in the end, beauty fades, personality stays.

 I wonder how cyber communications help people get to know each other´s real personality... especially when there is language barrier.

 

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17.       scalpel
1472 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 05:58 pm

 

Quoting dilliduduk

 

 

yes but people can be very good liars when they are only writing.

I don´t think I would trust anyone

 

Nor would I

Some pretend to be the opposite gender on the internet. Some pretend to be younger than they actually are. Some pretend to know everything from politics to history.Some pretend to be of another race and talk crap about Turks...and so on.

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18.       barba_mama
1629 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 06:46 pm

 

Quoting scalpel

 

 

Nor would I

Some pretend to be the opposite gender on the internet. Some pretend to be younger than they actually are. Some pretend to know everything from politics to history.Some pretend to be of another race and talk crap about Turks...and so on.

 

Well, like I said before, people tell lies like this in real life too. Ever asked an older woman her age? But when you meet somebody in real life, you often get overwhelmed by looks and the romance of the moment. There is not much romance in an internet-conversation. Ofcourse you have to be carefull when you meet somebody on internet, but you ALWAYS have to be carefull. People don´t meet on the internet and get married before seeing eachother in rea life a couple of times. I´m just saying that meeting on internet first can actually lead to a more realistic relationship, since it can never be based only on looks and hormones.

 

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19.       scalpel
1472 posts
 17 Jul 2010 Sat 07:09 pm

 

Quoting barba_mama

 

 

Well, like I said before, people tell lies like this in real life too. Ever asked an older woman her age? But when you meet somebody in real life, you often get overwhelmed by looks and the romance of the moment. There is not much romance in an internet-conversation. Ofcourse you have to be carefull when you meet somebody on internet, but you ALWAYS have to be carefull. People don´t meet on the internet and get married before seeing eachother in rea life a couple of times. I´m just saying that meeting on internet first can actually lead to a more realistic relationship, since it can never be based only on looks and hormones.

 

 

 What I was trying to say is: people can say anything on the internet that they will never dare to say in a face to face conversation. Wink

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20.       dilliduduk
1551 posts
 18 Jul 2010 Sun 11:32 am

 

Quoting barba_mama

 

 

Well, like I said before, people tell lies like this in real life too. Ever asked an older woman her age? But when you meet somebody in real life, you often get overwhelmed by looks and the romance of the moment. There is not much romance in an internet-conversation. Ofcourse you have to be carefull when you meet somebody on internet, but you ALWAYS have to be carefull. People don´t meet on the internet and get married before seeing eachother in rea life a couple of times. I´m just saying that meeting on internet first can actually lead to a more realistic relationship, since it can never be based only on looks and hormones.

 

 

yeah but it is much more easy to tell lies on the internet. simply, you don´t use body language so people do not understand you are lying... etc...

anyway, it is everyone´s own decision

21.       oeince
582 posts
 18 Jul 2010 Sun 08:15 pm

Quote:ninja

Why so pessimistic?

Because one do not snore in net but does in real life and it may be an important reason for a fight Who knows may be your partner is so keen on his/her sleep? Day by day you may realize that your partner is not the "wonderful one" as you thought upon his/her writings. 

You do not write to ask for salt in the table. But your partner may be so harsh when asking for salt in real life?! May be the person who writes unblievably nice things does not ever help you or not self-sacrifising at all. I dont think that tehere is a corelation between pen power and heart power. 

Who knows may be your partner is so shy in social life. Or he/she does not actually like to go out in real life as he/she said in net.

Etc. Etc. there are too many variables. All those are unknowns. Although people who spend all days with each other for years can not know each other well, how can it be possible towards writings? 

Chat love is sth like two botoxed persons conversation. Nothing is too real or the partners can´t show the reality.

 

22.       barba_mama
1629 posts
 18 Jul 2010 Sun 11:36 pm

 

Quoting oeince

 

Because one do not snore in net but does in real life and it may be an important reason for a fight Who knows may be your partner is so keen on his/her sleep? Day by day you may realize that your partner is not the "wonderful one" as you thought upon his/her writings. 

You do not write to ask for salt in the table. But your partner may be so harsh when asking for salt in real life?! May be the person who writes unblievably nice things does not ever help you or not self-sacrifising at all. I dont think that tehere is a corelation between pen power and heart power. 

Who knows may be your partner is so shy in social life. Or he/she does not actually like to go out in real life as he/she said in net.

Etc. Etc. there are too many variables. All those are unknowns. Although people who spend all days with each other for years can not know each other well, how can it be possible towards writings? 

Chat love is sth like two botoxed persons conversation. Nothing is too real or the partners can´t show the reality.

 

 

 OHHHH bad boy! You only sleep together after marriage, so you will only learn about snoring after you already said "I do". You will not find out that somebody snores on a normal date. Meeting in real life has advantages, meeting online has other advantages. I met my partner in real life, and my hormones swept me away But it was actually through internet conversations that I REALLY go to know him. In real life your relationship can be based purely on the physical. On the internet this is impossible.

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23.       oeince
582 posts
 18 Jul 2010 Sun 11:44 pm

Yeah, so you give birth to cherubic CD´s via internet

BTW the subject of my generalizitions is not me and i don´t snore at all at least i think so...

24.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 19 Jul 2010 Mon 02:10 am

And what is wrong with snoring?

A half way decent mediterranean  man should snore by deafult anyway

And it is also a great test for how much love there is in that relation.. lol

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25.       ninja
157 posts
 19 Jul 2010 Mon 06:31 pm

 

Quoting barba_mama

 

 

 OHHHH bad boy! You only sleep together after marriage, so you will only learn about snoring after you already said "I do". You will not find out that somebody snores on a normal date. Meeting in real life has advantages, meeting online has other advantages. I met my partner in real life, and my hormones swept me away But it was actually through internet conversations that I REALLY go to know him. In real life your relationship can be based purely on the physical. On the internet this is impossible.

 

 Maybe you don´t really know enough of a "real" man. Whether they meet women in real life or online, they are looking for a more physical than conversational relationship. Wink

26.       nifrtity
1807 posts
 19 Jul 2010 Mon 06:49 pm

We can see in the life a more strange things

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