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Now as a Turkish man let me be sincere. Most Turkish men think foreign women is an easy prey. There are many factors behind this attention to foreign women:

1)Making love easily (they think so)

2)Money

3)Marriage and getting a citizenship

4) Love

As a turkish, i can say that beware of turkish men.

There is two possibility here:

1. They are really kind and generous to foreign women with no bad intentions.

This possibility is %5 or less. Not all of them same but hard to find them.

2. They need a lifetime visa for europe or usa. This is the main reason.

Or just having fun for a couple of days including sexual intercourse.

This possibility is %95 or more.

I do not approve the second one but it is a reality. Just be careful.

After these explanations I wonder if we are in this %5 or not? Men is men afterall

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As long as free movement of people is not possible in our world  -  or it is possible for some and some not  -  these things will continue to happen. And I can not see it so immoral as long as no one is hurt or abused.

We are all different. I am not direct. I can say I am shy. But other people can be very direct. It is not easy for everyone to have an one-night stand in Turkey. Men here don´t respect women who made sex before marriage. So women are very cautious.

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I´ve been married to a Turkish man for seven years now.  We were friends for many years before getting together.  I haven´t met many Turkish men who were in and out of relationships.  In fact, many of them are quite shy and reserved.  That has been my experience.  I would be careful with anyone who told me that they loved me after a few emails.  

Also, women in Turkey are not terribly flirtatious.  From what I have experienced in Turkish culture, love is a very serious matter.  It is reserved for serious relationships and marriage.