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getting married in turkey
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 05:55 pm |
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Virginity in a lady of young age, about to be married, is a virtue.
There are situations in which a gentleman of quality may consider lack of this quality, in the lady of his choice, to be acceptable. Prophet Muhammed himself made such a choice, in his first marriage.
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 05:56 pm |
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Are either AlphaF or Qdemir going to answer my question?
Quoting aenigma x: Quoting qdemir: Quoting AlphaF:
It will not surprise me at all, if infidelity is enforced in near future. |
It has already been. May be it hasn't been enforced, but encouraged. |
Encouraged? By Whom? Who on earth encourages adultery? It is not acceptable in any society. It is a breaking of trust and commitment.
When I talk of "sex outside marriage" I mean "sex when you are not married" |
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 05:58 pm |
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Quoting AlphaF: Virginity in a lady of young age, about to be married, is a virtue.
There are situations in which a gentlemen of quality may consider lack of this quality, in the lady of his choice, to be acceptable. Prophet Muhammed himself made such a choice, in his first marriage. |
I wonder if a "lady of quality" would consider a man who is not a virgin to be lacking? She may think he has been "used" and "tarnished" no? 
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 06:04 pm |
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There is no reason why she should not consider this requirement from groom candidates, if she feels her own qualities measure up....
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 06:07 pm |
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Quoting AlphaF: Prophet Muhammed himself made such a choice, in his first marriage. |
Prophet Muhammed was married to a widow thats different of what i've asked
İ meant ladies or women to having affairs not to be ex married.
And my question goes for men too.
İs it acceptable ?
İ mean for example,if someone is married to a Turkish man and found out he is cheeting on her,then she goes to her father in law,will he laugh at her saying its normal for men to do it ?
Or is it shame ?
And if he is single and having an affair is it normal or is it shame ?
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 06:08 pm |
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Quoting AlphaF: There is no reason why she should not consider this requirement from groom candidates, if she feels her own qualities measure up.... |
Ohmygod! This is like reading something from hundreds of years ago! Choosing a "suitable" bride, being a virgin...blah blah!
Sorry, but marriage is about spending your life with the one you love, being committed and being faithful.
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 06:14 pm |
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thats really nice to wait till to find true love,and all others really details and very complex...
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 06:17 pm |
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 06:18 pm |
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Will no one answer Canlis questions? I would like to know as well... because there there she is asking about behaviour and not about ideas. Ideas anyone can have the best, but only behaviour shows the truth...
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 06:22 pm |
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Quoting karekin04: after all this his parents are coming here and taking him away just because I was married once before and have a son, They know nothing about me or our relationship and have no sympathy to fact they are tearing apart a beautiful relationship, turkish parents are selfish and controlling and only think about how their children benefit their lifestyle... nothing else! And these are the "modern turkish people" PUH! I'm starting to believe there is no such thing  |
Karekin, what about your boyfriend, doesn't he have a voice in it too? Can he be forced by his parents to leave you? :-S
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 06:26 pm |
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Quote: Quoting karekin04: Ohmygod! This is like reading something from hundreds of years ago! Choosing a "suitable" bride, being a virgin...blah blah!
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I am sorry to hear that. However, as far as I can see you haven't been with a MAN for three years.
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