Hmmm never say "never"....

Here is some food for thought. I have been a member nearly a year as well. The first week I was at this site, I was ridiculed, bullied and was slammed for the country I live in. Well, believe me this was a terrible first impression I had of this site. Who the heck wants to spend time at a site when you are personally attacked. I also realized that at the end of day, I couldn't hold ill feelings for someone, whom I don't even know. Really, does it matter in the whole scheme of life, to hold so much anger inside. I didn't intend or was looking to make friends here. But then coming here day after day and reading and chatting with people I started to develop relationships here. I personally have broaden my knowledge from reading people's posts, whether I agree with them or not. Yes, most of the time they are translations from females to their boyfriends. And yes, most of the time I still can't translate them. So I pick a post that either I have knowledge about or can add some feedback too. I happen to think there are other people who add value to this site, other than translating Turkish. Yes, I understand this is a Turkish Language site. But for me it's more. I won't apologize for this and you don't have to agree with me. But who am I or who are you to dictate what gets posted here. I think that's why we have an admin to regulate this. Don't get me wrong, I understand there needs to be rules. Rules are put in place, because of the few that abuse them. I don't think anyone should tolerate verbal abuse here and that's why you send your complaint to the admin of this site. He seems to be a very level minded person that addresses the issues when need be. However, he doesn't get involved with the everyday events at this site. Which quite honestly he shouldn't have to. We should all get along or have enough respect for each other's post's and opinions, even if you don't agree with them.

I must be honest I don't really use the chatroom because of this! I've seen some very choice words and people being insulted so I tend to stay away, but now it is being monitored I will look again.

yeh, same here. some of the stuff i have seen going in chat has been pretty bad.

people insulting each other, many people ganging up on one person, people using political slurs to insult each other...the list is endless.

Just been on chat and had a lovely chat about making cups of tea!!!!!