aengima theres no need to be disillusioned..this site is still helpful and of use..its just people are making more use of the forums to debate things that are unrelated to originial topics..im sure none of it is directed at people personally..

my spelling in that was horrendous..of course i meant aenigma and original..

no i dont think being rude or hostile is necessary..did u not see my reply to heidilovesosman yesterday..there was no need for such language when everyone was not using it..

...and so it begins...

I rest my case...

I totally agree...

I remember a time when if anything political was mentioned, it was instantly deleted. Endless Turk-Kurd debates were deleted, even though the debates didnt include any offensive language, were well written and quite informative.

Now however, the site seems to have a new 'anything goes' policy, and the forum (and chat room) is full of political debates. Iam not against a good debate, and I find some of the issues brought up quite relevant, but when people (especially women) are being told to 'sht their mouth ladie..and get a new hairdo..or do sm cookin', I think that its unacceptable!

I even doubt whether the admin will even read this thread nevermind respond to it, they certainly dont bother responding to any complaints or private messages so why should this thread be any different?

i'm not quite sure what you are assuming has begun aENIGMA..have i been rude to you?:-S i don't think i have..

This thread is, I feel, about to be locked by admin or moderators for inappropriate context posts following.

(Ehi!)

@ Pandora: every time I ask the admin something by pm I get an answer, so nothing to complain about.

About the topic of Sophie: I hope I am not one of those spoilers. If I am (being a newbee I do not know the history), let me know, I can learn.

What I find a pity is that most of the topics are about translations of sms. The parts about travelling and Turkey itself are much less used. Those are the parts I am interested in.

And about using English, sorry it is not my mother tongue so I will make mistakes. I apologize for that.

trudy hun..i dont think it was aimed at people in specific..this site is here for people who want to learn about turkey..and yes i agree with u, unfortunately the parts of the site relating to turkey itself are unutilised