yes canım aşk güzel bir duygu ve yaşanması gerek bizimki de çok güzel ama malesef bazen maddi imkansızlıklar aşkı da etkiliyor şimdi bizi etkilediği gibi .nede çünkü paramız yok bu nedenle bir araya gelemiyruz gelsek dahi beraber yaşayacak yani bizi geçindirecek paramız yok .ben almanyaya gitmemin sebebi bu ben bir pasaport için değil ayrıca çalışma izni için bu kadını düşÃ¼nmek zorundayım çünkü bana yardım edeceğini söylemiş abime onun için ben marta kadar beklerim seni eğer biz beraber bir şey yapamazsak üzülerek gitmek zorundayım.sen diyorsunki telefonum yanında beni .ben bir kadınla ilişkideyken bir başka kadınla asla konuşmam aramamda benim karekter yapım bu . sen hep seviyorum diyorsun evet doğru bende seviyorum seni ama malesef sevgi yeterli olmuyor canım bağışla beni ve affet .herşeye rağmen ben mart ayına kadar beklerim seni.ok bye babby

Please dear, forget this bloody jerk and dont talk to him anymore.He is conditioning his happiness just about money,I dont think he cares about how real your feeling for him may be.He's saying that your love is beautiful bla bla bla but he has no money now so he'll sacrifice ur relationship to do something he doesnt want that is going to Germany and marrying this greman lady he never saw before to get a job, but he even have got a passport, what is another problem, since turkish passport is expensive and it's just valid for a year.He doesnt desirve nothing from you.He cant make u happy, he even is able to be with u coz he is thinking about to do something for himself,not to save the relation u "have" with him.I know what I say is tough to hear but it's the best for u.Walk away while u still have time.

yes I know but please I need this to be translated..this is probably goign to be the last one so please someone translate for me.I need to know what he says in the message ..after all we are supposed to translate here and not judge. please !!!

Is this still idiot still around? So, he has managed to find a German woman to dupe too? He is playing the two of you against each other. What a b - - - - - d.

Please would you translate the message, I have to know exactly what he says in it... really I am still convinced he is just desperate to get more money..surely its not that hard living in Turkey is it ..

Please, stop being stupid. U had the bad lucky of finding a guy like him that just think about his own priorities.He is just affraid of being hungry and he is trying to find a best option out there.He says he loves you; dont believe.He says he'll wait for u until march.Will you be able to speak turkish well until there?Living in turkey if u dont know the language may be a hurting experience for u if u have such a jerk beside u and probably it will make u get ur way back to your country as it was my case.Dont believe u can live there easily without speaking turish, u r not even able to understand what he writes u.Wake up sleeping beauty!

Evet, ben de.Anlastik

Tell me, please, if I'm making a correct guess.
Is it "dudu"?

how many times do these people have to tell you that they are not judging you? they are pointing out an OBVIOUS FACT that your boyfriend is truly a jerk. i was really concerned for you, but i guess there is no point in that anymore. will somebody just give this girl her translation, and let her go in the path that, as we all know, will lead to her own destruction. let her have a taste of her own stubborness. because it seems like all the effort of trying to warn her is being put to waste.

Translation, and I agree with the others!

yes darling love is a lovely feeling, and has to be lived. Ours too is lovely but unfortunately sometimes a shortage of money can affect love, like it is affecting us now. why? Because we don't have any money so we cannot come together, even if we do we don't have enough money to live, i.e. for both of us to get by on. Thşs şs the reason I am going to Germany. I have to think about this woman not just for a passport but for a work permit, because she has said she has told my brother she will help me. So I will wait for you until March, and if we can't do something together then sadly I will have to go there. You say that my phone is by you. When in a relationship with one woman I never speak to another, I don't call, this is my character. You say you will always love me, yes it is right I love you too but sadly love is not enough darling. Forgive me. Anyway in spite of everything I will wait until March for you.ok bye baby

oh my god!!! this is what he is saying??? i'm just glad i'm not the one who is with him. i'd be a total idiot if i believed this piece of work.

Dont assume the lady in Germany is German. She could be a Turkish lady whose family have made an arrangement with his family for him to marry her and get to work in Germany. This is common, and is one reason why Germany is makng changes about the rules for bringing spouses in to the country.

She could also be someone suffering in this sad tale. She may not even have met the guy her family intends for her!

Thank you all of you yes on Monday I am going to end it, I agree with you all of course I do but love welll you know the rest, this has been quite a sagaa....I am a travel ariter but heck I think I should write a novel instead!
oh I didnt know it was common to have an arranged marriage..actually his brother is in Germany and it is he doign the arranging with the srange woman who supposedly is willing to marry him sight unseen in order for him to get to germany.

And while you are at it, send copies of his messages to the German consulate/embassy in Turkey. That will put a stop to this type of scam.

It's the only way to make him dont cheat anybody else anymore

Best of luck!

i'm living in germany at the moment and i should say the situation is really terrible here. one comes herre settles in and than the whole village comes after him. that was the reason why i started learning turkish. in some regions turkish language is more useful than german. so i should really tell you be careful. i wouldn't even doubt in such situation because i saw too many examples how they trick girls like you. the most popular oopinion here is that all clever turks stay in turkey and have jobs there.