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Thread: My butterfly

11.       Zimmygirl
25 posts
 05 Jan 2010 Tue 01:06 pm

Hey boys and girls i am thinking of making this poem into a song. Could someone be so kind and please translate this for me thank you

My  Butterfly

Broken heart and sour faces

The songs have lost their melody

My head hurts and all your words are whispers

Where did you go my love? Where did you go?

 

My butterfly, you don’t visit me anymore

The sun is shy on my skin

Life is worthless without love

Nothing makes sense without you

 

My tears have made a pool around my feet

I’m drowing deeper into your absense

My head hurts and your heart beat is only a memory

Where did you go my love, where did you go?

 

My butterfly, you don’t visit me anymore

The sun is shy on my skin

Life is worthless without love

Nothing makes sense without you

 

I’m angry at myself for opening my hands

You have flown out of my heart

Your pretty wings flapping away

Your freedom is my prison

 

My butterfly, you don’t visit me anymore

The sun is shy on my skin

Life is worthless without love

Nothing makes sense without you

 

 

 



Thread: Biggest motivation

12.       Zimmygirl
25 posts
 19 Nov 2009 Thu 07:30 am

 

Quoting admin

As far as I have seen so far, the main motivation why majority of our members want to learn Turkish is a Turkish boyfriend. Here is the girls section then, tell what you like and what you don´t like about your Turkish boyfriends. We guys won´t read, feel free

 

 You have finally taken the truth, it is true, most people on here are chicks (girls) that has had an episode of some kind of love with a Turk (including me.  I fell inlove with a Turkish dude once and after that I just know I will marry a Turk. Honestly, I can´t see myself marrying anything but a Turk

 

What did I like about my Turkish man?

 

*He loved me for me!

* He was EXTREMELY warm hearted and almost empathetic, which is something really special.

*He was EXTREMELY protective and JELOUS, which was nice at most times. The best part was when we would walk down Eminünü and some Turkish people (mostly men) would stare at me, because it is rare to find Africans in Turkey. My boyfriend would puff up and give all of them a look that said "what are you looking at?"

*He loves family and children, which is something I truelly find sacred

*Religiouslly stable person. Not fanatical but not too relaxing either. He is a firm person

*Charming! EXTREMELY charming "ay gülüm, bugün çok güzelsin", "çikolata sevgilim"

*He claimed me!! The first week of us dating I met the family!! It shows honesty

*He would literally feed me I learned to love that

*He cried a lot too, very emotional person. I remember us watching the news, and we saw reports on the Palestine-Israel situation, the report showed some children suffering ect. He burst out in tears. He has a good heart.

*He was physically hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Damn, he was one fine man.

*The best of all, he kissed beautifully. I will never forget, our first kiss was near the Ayia Sofia. It was a rainy day, he was holding the ambrella. He just grabbed and kissed me in the middle of the street. The street was full of people, trumb running buy and taxis packing up. He kissed me right there in the middle of the rain, in the middle of the street and EVERYONE  was watching. Now that was the most beautiful thing I have ever had.

 

What didn´t I like about him.

* Stubborn!!!!!!!

*Controlling

*Jelous. We had like a million fights about him needing to calm down and stop being so jelous. Ofcourse, I lost most of the fights.

*Difficult at most times. If he wants to see me now, he wants to see me now. . Or he would send a friend to go do shopping with me so that no other men must come talk to me.

*Clothing!! Everytime I would get a preeching that I am not dressed modest enough. In Turkey I was dressed very modest, but also very fashionable. But I still got a preeching of how my boobs are "exposed" HE WAS CRAZY

*CRAZY!!

 

What have I learned from him

 

*Love like you have never loved before.

*To receive love and enjoy it as much as you can

*I really want to get married and have meles children in Turkey

*I learned to be patient with him, after all he never did me harm. He was the most supportive man in the world.

*I also become a bit jelous too. I found myself hating some of the girls who kept looking at him. He was very attractive young man.

*I learned to not care what people say. So what if he was Turkish and I am African? That didn´t matter to us.

 

I also learned words like

"Allah sabır ver!" "Allah cezani vermisin!!" "la havle vela kuvete" "hala hala" When we had our fights those words were used much often

 

But most of the time. I heard "esmer meleğim" , "canim", "zimcik", "eşim",  "seni çok seviyorum yaa", "tamam, ağlama canım" and other special words

 

TURKISH GUYS ARE SWEET AND REALLY LOVELY. BUT VERY DIFFICULT TOO BUT WE STILL LOVE YOU

 



Thread: Hijab in turkey

13.       Zimmygirl
25 posts
 18 Nov 2009 Wed 07:11 am

 

Quoting Beautiful soul

1st of all thank u sooo much for answering my question & i totally agree with most of u that hijab is a choice even Allah ordered all muslim women to wear but only Allah who judges us nobody has the right to say that a woman is good or bad because of her hijab , islam is not just about hijab  & appearance , islam is so much deeper than this

 

 I am glad that you also understand what I am trying to tell people. Islam is more than just a hijab. I may also add that Islam is more than just  a kofia (what the men put on their head). 



Thread: Raising a global child

14.       Zimmygirl
25 posts
 16 Nov 2009 Mon 06:33 pm

Hey,

I am not a parent YET, inşallah that will happen in good time.

I see my mother and me and we are in the same planet BUT YET IN TWO DIFFERENT WORLDS. what she thought was hard, good, easy back in her days, I find them the very different.

I think today´s world is so much smaller, cultures are much more obvious and people travel a whole lot more.

It is a very good thing, because I think my child will learn how to be 1) Tolerant of other cultures, 2) Tolerant of other religions 3)have a global perspective on life 4) the world is his/her oyster.

It can also be a negative thing, depending on the parents

1) the challanges are much harder, as the child will have competitors from different culture

2) identity could be lost, especially in countries where there is a melting pot of culture and the child simply don´t know how to make sense of it or where fits in

3)civilization clashes. this occurs where we are aware of this big different world and fall to its downfall by hating everything that is not us.

 

I think a parent will only do wonder by teaching the child traditional home things, where he/she comes from (parents´ culture), but at the same time give them the space to explore things that they like.

 



Thread: Hijab in turkey

15.       Zimmygirl
25 posts
 16 Nov 2009 Mon 06:25 pm

Hello Eveyone

 

I was in Turkey for 3 months and stayed with a traditional Turkish family. Now, my host mom didn´t wear the hijab nor did her friends and extended family, only my host dad´s mom wore a hijab. It did not seem to be a big social issue for men or women about wearing a hijab, which I liked alot, because it was the WOMAN´S CHOICE to wear a hijab or not. Wearing a hijab in Turkey does not make you less modern, less educated less anything amazing. Also women who don´t wear hijab are not frowned upon or hated. I realised it is a personal choice thing.

However, with regards to public institutions, women were forbidden to wear a hijab. I have close friends in Turkey, they felt that their rights were being ignored, because they wanted to wear a hijab when they go to class at university. I guess, it is the Turkish government trying to make Turkey more secular and preventing Turkey from becoming like most Muslim countries where the hijab features everywhere.

The last time I checked, the law might have changed, women might have gotten the right to wear a hijab in a public institute (school, office, hospitals). I am not sure, I stand corrected

 

I spoke to many Turkish guys, some say they want their wives to wear it, some say they REALLY DON´T want their wives to wear it and some say IT IS HER CHOICE.

At the end of the day, it is a woman´s choice, whenver she forced to do something, then it becomes oppression and Islam is NOT about oppression.

A man should be fine with the idea that his wife wants or doesn´t want to wear a hijab. It is not up to him to decide for her.

If the woman feels that wearing a hijab is a symbol of pure wisdom and faith in her religion, she should NOT be prohibited and disliked for it. The same, if a woman does not feel the need to wear one, she should not be frowned upon or regarded as "low" from others.

 

My idea of the hijab. At the end of the day, it is a piece of cloth, it does not cover a beautiful heart or a dirty heart. If it is so important for a man to chase a hijab, let him chase it, for he will discover that it does not even present the fraction of what is in that woman´s heart and mind.

I think people should focus less on the hijab and focus more about their innerselves.  A hijab is part of our great religion Islam and Allah has asked of us to wear it, but we must focus more on things that REALLY matter,  (eg peace, honesty, integrity, honor, chastity and most of all LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR.

 

Please this is my opinion, it is NOT  the views of the religion. This is HOW I SEE it.

Thanks



Thread: It is love

16.       Zimmygirl
25 posts
 10 Nov 2009 Tue 02:05 pm

ok, if you want to translate it, it is really cool of you to do that. thanks alot i hope it is not too difficult. thanks again



Thread: It is love

17.       Zimmygirl
25 posts
 08 Nov 2009 Sun 09:42 am

I just got inspired and wrote this. Don´t worry about translating it. just enjoy it

 

 

It is as endless as the horizon

It is a well that never runs dry

It does not age with time

It lies in the heart and not in the eye

It forgives and gives

It makes dead souls live

It breaks barriers, crosses boarders

It challanges our societies and this world order

It more patient than eternity

It does not care of the colour of skin

It comforts and it nurtures

Like a mother holding on to virtue

It radiates like a thousand sunbeams

It is embedded in a souls of posibility

It is in the first glance of a baby

It is the soul of the our music

It makes us fight more than our strength

It makes us weep more than death

It shatters when it is not returned

Its pain is more than a scorch or a burn

 

But in its adversary, it tests us  of who we will be

It is our strength in our fragility

It is our swords in our pen of poems

It give light to empty homes

A thousand prayers is all we can give

So that this feeling last for eternity

 

It is love, in all things beautiful and precious

It is love that give us meaning and purpose

It is love that makes the hunger pangs go away

It is love that leaves a sweet taste.

It is love that can never measure, nor be weighed

It is love that forever holds faith and truth

It is love that can be found in me and in you



Thread: yolum o kadar sonsuz by: Zimmygirl

18.       Zimmygirl
25 posts
 28 Sep 2009 Mon 05:00 pm

yüzsüz halk yýðýnlarýnda yüzünü,‎

yüzlerin kalbinde gözlerini arýyorum

tökezleyip, yineden sana aþýk oluyorum

kalbinin dizleri çürümüþ, ama yürümeye devam ediyorum‎

yolum o kadar sonsuz ve ayak izlerini bulamam

kendime `sevgilim, beni terkettin mu´ diye soruyorum

çünkü çiçekler güneþe bakmýyor artýk‎

yýldýzlar kurulmuþ sonbahar yapraklarý gibi cansýzdýr‎

gökyüzün aðaçlarýna asýyorlar

kendime `sevgilim, beni unuttun mu´ diye soruyorum

çünkü umutsuzluðumun gözyaþlarýnda boðuluyorum

ve geniþ acýlar denizinin kýyýný göremem‎

tökezlerken sana aþýk olurken çürümüþüm

yolum o kadar sonsuz ve ayak izlerini bulamam

kendime `sevgilim, artýk sevmiyormusun beni´ diye soruyorum‎

çünkü hava cam gibi sert oldu

ki ümit tabanýnda düþüp kýrýlýyor en sonunda

dilim o kadar kýrýlgan, kalbimin dayandýðýný sözlerim anlayamaz.‎

hala yolu bulamam ve deðiþim rüzgarý ayak izlerini uçurmuþ

Quote:

Rate the poem

 



Thread: Smoking

19.       Zimmygirl
25 posts
 19 Sep 2009 Sat 07:46 pm

I am a happy to see them introducing stricter laws. Last year when I went to Turkey, I could not believe how much people smoked and everyone smokes. However, I eventualy got so use to it that I stared smoking (don´t tell my host dad, he still does not know ) However, I think it is good for the health of children and society to keep turkey smoke free.

Bravo Türkiye



Thread: baklava - recipe needed

20.       Zimmygirl
25 posts
 19 Sep 2009 Sat 07:36 pm

Merhaba

 

I have made baklava soo many times, once you make it you will be able to make it and never forget it. I worked at a greek restuarant and the chef showed me.

Now, the secret for a good baklava is to use REAL butter. Now, when i was in turkey, i did not really like their baklava because their  butter is a bit different, I think they use goat cream for that, as in goat´s milk.  The second biggest secret is to brush each layer of phyllo VERY GENEROUSLLY with butter. It give it the crispy and lightness and ofcourse awsome flavour.

 

The best butter is butter made from cow´s cream and it must have a hint of salt in it. I know many recipes say "use unsalted butter" , but the salt in the butter fuses marvellouslly with the cinnamon, all spice and sugar once you pop it in the oven.

In turkey they have thicker pastry, but I know in the West we use the greek style phyllo which is thin, I recommend it, because it makes the baklava lighter and crispier.

This recipe I used when i made baklava for turkish students and they allllll loved it!! So you should not go wrong

 

You can either make a pistachio baklava or walnut, i prefer the walnut, because the flavour is good with all spices.

 

500g of rougly chopped walnuts (don´t make it too small, you don´t want to loose the crunch)

1 packet of phyllo (thaw it well, if phyllo is not thawed well once it is out of the freezer it will tear and break easily)

2 teaspoons of cinnamon

1, 5 teaspoon of all spice (this is a mixture of nutmet, cinnamon, anis ect) if you can´t find it in a shop, add cinnamon, nutmec, sweet spice and anis)

500g of  butter (you can use unsalted, but i prefer salted)

a quare pyrex dish

4 table spoons of white sugar

 

for the syrup

2-3 tablespoons of lemon (i never us the lemon for the baklava , but if you want to give it an exotic flavour add it, but not too muh)

1 cinnamon stick

3 table spoons of white sugar

2 tea cups of water.

 

Directions:

Preheat oven at 200 degrees

melt butter in microwave,  or in a sause pan and set aside

Mix cinnamon, all spice, sugar in a bowel and set a side with a spoon

brush the pyrex dish very generouslly with butter.

2. Unfold the phyllo gently and cut according to the side of your dish. The idea of a baklava it needs to fit the dish exactly.

When phyllo is cut. place one layer of phyllon the dish and  then brush generouslly. Continue to layer till you have six layers of phyllo

3. Spread your nut mixture well with a spoon so that the phyllo is fully covered.

4. Continue to layer, after every 5-6 layer spread the nut mixture. Layer until you have reached the top of your dish.

Pour remaining melted butter over the baklava

5. With a sharp knife, cut the baklava right rough but don´t cut the bottom layer of it. Cut either in square or in diamond shapes.

6. Place baklava in oven and let it bake for 20 minutes. However, stoves differ, so make sure to check your baklava every 10 minutes. You will see it bubbling because of the sugar and nut mixture. Take it out when it is golden on top.

7. Let it cool for 5-10 minutes

 

Syprus.

In a heavy saucepan

add the sugar and water.

Add the cinnamon stick

Add your lemon juice (optional)

Stir the the syrup continouslly over low head until the sugar has dissolved.  Don´t let it boil!!!

When finished, pour the syrup in the sliced groves of the baklava, the best part is to hear the baklava sizzle when pouring the syrup.

Let it set for until cool.

Serve with ice cream or just as.

 

Never eat more than one baklava slice,  you will die of the amazing taste I always make Baklava in winter or in summer. It is lovely when it is warmed up in winter and delicious at room temperature.

 

* Never eat baklava that has been standing for more than 10 days, due to the sugar levels and its sticky, it will become soggy and will mold.

 

Enjoy

 

 

 



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