Its called "Kız istemek" here.
Boys parents inform girls parent at first. For example they can say "We want to come to your home tomorrow for an auspicious work." And generally girls parents says "Ok, ok. Pls come in" And after that inform girls parents starts to work immediately. Because they have to clean the house, organize something etc.
The other day boys and his parents come. They have to bring a bouquet of flowers and a box of chocolate. And generally boys and his father and girls father wears suit. And the girl wears a good dress. And mothers too.
After their comings, firstly they generally speaks trivial things. Meanwhile the girl have to go to the kitchen and make Turkish coffe for everyone and then she have to serve herself. (Its the most dramatic scene )
After Turkish coffe or meanwhile drinking it, boys father start to speak. Sir, our coming reason is known. Our girl and boy love each other. So with Allah's order and prophets agreement, we want (request) your girl to my son.
And after it, its girls father time. He can two alternative. First he can say you know our girl is so important for us. And he can ask abouth boys job, earnings etc. And then he can say Teens love each other. What can i say? May it be auspicious. It means everything is ok.
And second alternative means no. In this case girls father have to say its reason. Our girl must finish her school first, etc etc. Or girls father can say no with an angry way.
It has some more details but its ok for you
Good luck
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