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Thread: Burqa

101.       CANLI
5084 posts
 22 Jul 2009 Wed 01:29 am

 

Quoting Deli_kizin

 

 

 I didn´t know that. I wonder how they shower after football then

 

I think it is useless though. For a religion that forbids homosexuality, there is nothing wrong with being naked for sauna/beauty/medical treatments among your ´sisters´ as a woman, or ´brothers´ as a man.

 

They do have many showers there ...so would be no problem i guess..im sure they can manage lol

Well, we wouldnt feel comfortabel...i mean..if for medical treatment, then its ok, but others, what would make one be total naked in front of the others, some things are private and it shouldnt be for anyone else to know or to see.



Thread: Burqa

102.       CANLI
5084 posts
 22 Jul 2009 Wed 01:20 am

 

Quoting Queent

 Lisa

thanks from my heart.

I wore my scarf when i was 13 14 after two weeks of begging my mum to let me wear it (her excuse was that I was still very young to wear it) and in the end I won and I wore it Big smile Elhamdulillah .

Now I want to wear burqa but I´m sure my future´s husband won´t accept, and I won´t fight for it same as I fought for scarf, as I don´t have the same power of my childhood days.

Thanks again

sorry if my words were hard Smile

 

 lol, it was among my reasons to wear hijab when my mother was fighting me and said ´´Dont put it, men dont like women wearing hijab ´´

So i´ve worn it since then  lol

But Niqap ´Burqa´ isnt an obligation Queent, so good thing in my opinion of course that you didnt.



Edited (7/22/2009) by CANLI



Thread: Burqa

103.       CANLI
5084 posts
 22 Jul 2009 Wed 01:15 am

 

Quoting lady in red

 

 

...and a great pity in so many cases!

 

 But also good thing at others Angel lol



Thread: Burqa

104.       CANLI
5084 posts
 22 Jul 2009 Wed 01:04 am

 

Quoting Deli_kizin

  Well something else that surprized me when it comes to vaginas and islam (sorry ),

 

 Actually its also same with men too

Ý mean men should hide from knees till waist, and shouldnt been seen by women nor men too



Thread: Burqa

105.       CANLI
5084 posts
 22 Jul 2009 Wed 01:01 am

 

Quoting Daydreamer

 

 

Privilege is when you choose it deliberately, not when you´re doing it to avoid punishment or when your family forces you to or when you do it or will otherwise be considered immoral.

 

Privacy is another issue, would you allow people wearing balaclavas in the streets? I doubt it

 

 Just to clarify one thing, there is no punishment for not wearing hijab at Quran or Sunna, if you mean societies, i agree, it should be one´s choice



Thread: Burqa

106.       CANLI
5084 posts
 22 Jul 2009 Wed 12:58 am

 

Quoting ReyhanL

 One of my friend she is türbanlý and said its a shame a man to see her hair but its not shame to go to a ginecolog man and check her ..vigina. Imagine a woman wearing scarf staying on ginecologs chair with ..legs opened

 

 What this got to do with that ?!

Ýsnt she going for medical reasons or something else ?

Ýf there are no women or if she is not comfortable to be examined by a woman ´many dont trust women ´ so she could go to a man of course

Ý fail to see what this got to do with that !



Thread: Burqa

107.       CANLI
5084 posts
 21 Jul 2009 Tue 03:15 pm

 

Quoting yakamozzz

 

...i would like to find it in quran...could you please point out the exact location in quran? thank you

 

 Actually Queent did mentioned it

Here

Quoting Queent

  

AlphaF

It is the same Islam and the same Quran

what is different is how YOU and others would want to understand it, and how WHOM don´t want to obey the order would want to explain it.

Anyway, the ayet 31 from Ennur sure contains the word "headscarves", headscarf means head cover which covers the hair, in the addition of "hiding their beauty", and the hair is a part from the woman´s beauty too.

And Al Ahzab 59



Edited (7/21/2009) by CANLI
Edited (7/21/2009) by CANLI



Thread: Burqa

108.       CANLI
5084 posts
 21 Jul 2009 Tue 02:51 pm

 

Quoting Suyu

 A popular myth.

 

 Doesnt knowing about it, doesnt mean its not there !

And thats why many women now wearing it after they got both the education to read and the knowledge .



Thread: Soap Opera "Noor" (Gümüş) changes traditional Arab Gender Roles

109.       CANLI
5084 posts
 21 Jul 2009 Tue 02:48 pm

 

Quoting Daydreamer

 

 

I should think so, but I think Catholic Church disagrees with me lol They do accept cases when you died and were unable to confess.

 

 

 Ohhhh, i have seen a movie with something like that...called sin eater or something?!

So that was true ?! What the hell!



Thread: Burqa

110.       CANLI
5084 posts
 21 Jul 2009 Tue 02:25 pm

 Alpha seems you didnt read my post well

They were wearing it before 1919, i believe all of them were, but after 1919 women took it off specially at cities, actually i dont know if they wearing it on that time because it was an order from ALLAH or because it was a tradition...that i have no information about but i can try to find.

But i believe in the past it started as an order from ALLAH then turned out to be a tradition because even Christian women used to wear it too.

As for Yaþmak i agree about what you said at cities, thats what i saw at the pictures but at the fileds that i dont know anything about, Still, women were removing it to greet you if they knew you, donest matter man or a woman but if a stranger, they dont remove.

 

And no, my grandmother was not covering her hair actually, she did recently at the late of her life in the 80th i guess and i remember watching her without it and later she put it on after her daughter ´teyze´ did. But yes, my great grandmother ´grandmother mother´ was covering her hair tho but not wearing Yaþmak.

My aunt ´hala´ on the other hand kept the tradition till the day she died and used to put þifon scarf on her hair when she got older while she go out, thinking a lady should do that and refused to go out without it, needless to say a þifon scarf wasnt actually covering her hair of course it was elegance to her i believe and till she died she refused to consider herself wearing hijab..she actually wasnt! 

So you see Alpha, i know what im talking about..it happened that way in my family too .

 

Of course Korans are/were available and many imams are/ were there but not many people on that time were able to read, so they couldnt read it at koran and start ask about it as it happened later.

And as for imams, well i actually dont know, they should have told people, but it was a political trend to adopt the Western life style, that is what the King at that time wanted beside we were captured by Britain , and covering hair was seen as backward thing and women were actually taking off Yaþmak after 1919 and participate more in that life style surely it started with educated women/girls and then spread at most cities.

 

Ý remember at high school our teacher used to tell us about that period and she said girls at schools then ´60th´ didnt even know they should pray !

But of course there were also religious families out there or at least they were keeping the traditions as their parents did.

My mother told me yes she used to watch her parents praying but she never thought to do and also her parents never told her to do so !

Ý believe the religion awareness on that time were not having much attention at the society, so being religious meant to be backward, but keeping traditional things were ok.

 

Ýt was after that when people realized its not what you wear that makes you backward but what you are !

 

Actually Alpha i have no idea why would you cover your hair at Saudi other than maybe because its very sunny and hot there ?!



Edited (7/21/2009) by CANLI



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