That's great! Plenty more fish in the sea, girl Just make sure you catch the right one But Im sure that by now you can spot the wrong one when you see one! And if not, Im sure the TC Dudu Committee will be willing to help you

Btw I later saw that you do it just sometimes as a sign of respect for his culture and religion, so Im just stating these in general and they have nothign to do with you. I think it is good to make small signs that though you are different you can see from their point of view too.


But by acknowledging the fact it is worn to cast off mens looks, and then still putting on a scarf, to me it means you silently agree that its your fault you are beautiful and that it is your fault that men HAVE to look at you.


I wear rather modest clothes and will never 'exhibit' goods that are not for sale. And then again, its their loss, they can only look

The 'nickname' that has just been coined 'Uncle Alfie'

I find it so funny when people feel really offended, insulted or hurted online, or when they think they should stand up for each other. Wake up guys, this is internet. You press one button and ALL the people are GONE.

We are all part of a community and when something is siad that I dont like, I will say something about it, if I feel treated unfairly I will reply, but these keep coming up as ongoing discussions, and what for? Its not taking any extreme forms, and its not even real. If you dont like it, there is a small [x] right up the page.

Let me be nationalistic just for the sake of it, you are aware of the fact that he is Dutch arent you?

Its never a wrong idea to introduce people to each others customs, because this can lead to understanding and toleration. However, since Im already against the concept of hijab anyway, and since it goes against the basic ideas of equality between men and women, I am very surprised it is encouraged.

Sera, do you really need to put on a scarf to show your man that you are only for him? Because saying this implies you think that when not covering your head, you 'offer' yourself to other men.

I will never put on a headscarf (well I do but just when it rains and is too windy for umbrella or when I forget ), nor will I ever offer myself to any other than the one I love. And the fact that I love, carries the so called meaning of hijab in it.

Aenigma ablacım, did you really HAVE to post that? I should have been warned by the fact you are afraid of heights too.. :-S

But is it strange to wonder why the helicopter doesnt take off and let someone down on a rope??