I personally really dont see the point of staying a virgin till you get married.

Some women (or men) simply can't have sex. İt just doesnt work. What if you marry someone, with the wish to have children, and it turns out the person you're married to can't have sex? Wouldn't that destroy your marriage?
What if your partner is sexual dysfunctional, would'nt you rather have known that before you married him or her?
It is naive to think sexual intercourse isn't an important part of a healthy relationship.

I think the body should be given wise and in trust and not just to anyone, but keeping it just for 'one person', I don't see the reason.

Who knows how long your marriage will last? Maybe you will marry someone new. İn that case, it wasn't about having sex with 'the one', in that case it was about having sex after signing a paper.

Why would anyone give a gift for a 'divorced anniversary'?

Ofcourse you should do whatever you think is good, but to me it sounds rather low to make a CD to show how much you are over him.

I agree with Catwoman, the best way to show you are over him, is to forget.

This is my humble try. Corrections VERY welcome

She - Charles Aznavour