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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:39 pm |
Quoting PamCoop: Could you please not do this to me? you think this is fun, to discuss my biggest and worst problem? This was a final stop for me.. an embarassing thing to ask for but still i had no choice, to try to get help from nice ppl. And now you start to pick on me - why? Did i do something to you guys? I have not been rude or bad in anyway. So my question to you is - what kind of live do you live? What kind of ppl picks on others when they are already layin down?? |
I think your story is used to talk about a more general, and unfortunately very common, 'problem' of the Turkish 'all inclusive' Tourist industry. 'All inclusive' these days, includes the strangest things.
It is a fact that there are loads of naive, irresponsible, young girls that post messages on this website, that think they have found the love of their lives during their holidays. There are exceptions to the story, and I know some of them, but the stories of disaster are many more, and for 'frequent' members of this website, who read the everyday-messages of these relationships, the question 'How can you ever let this happen and not see the truth' becomes more and more both fascinating and irritating.
I dont think they meant to attack you in personal (and if they did, that would be very rude and needless, I rest my case) but just 'used your name' as an example of so many stories we heard.
But you should know that when you openly post such a personal message, people will wonder about it and comment on it. That is the dynamic of a lively website. And ofcourse people ask themselves if you are one of the naive girls or that you are not to blame yourself.
I wish you strength in a tough situation and hope for the best. But I for one think that people have to take responsibility for their actions too. Its up to you to see what you do with what you have done yourself to end up in this situation
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