This is exactly where some Turkish men draw a line.. the girls that are potential candidates for marriage and the girls that are just for fun.

For anyone who has seen the film Duvara Karşı/Gegen die Wand, there is a scene where this becomes rather clear: When Cahit, a Turkish man who has cut himself loose from Turkish traditions and has taken over western morals, sits around the table and plays a game with the men from his new family, the convresation turns to sex. The men talk about how they 'fuck whores' and Cahit simply asks why they dont just do their wives. The Turkish men get furious, you cant talk about 'fucking' and your wife in the same sentence.

Fucking here may seem as a bit extreme word, but it does show that the Turkish men in this film are pictured to distinguish (hard?) sex and their own Turkish women.

Well, I have lived in Turkey for around a year, being a young blonde girl. I cant say I have ever experienced any such thing. Upon arrival, Kadir made a comment about how I stared around me and smiled all the time. I didnt really understand what he was saying, till I realized that the Turkish girls have this certain 'look': they look straight ahead of them and they dont smile unless thye talk with someone. One could even find them looking angry or arrogant. You should try it. Maybe it is because you are too busy looking in front of you and dont realize being stared upon, but I havent experienced being stared at since.