Melek, we are talking about the general aspects of society. There is no society on Earth where problems about choice have been completely solved. There is a certain interaction between coercion and people. Demands evolve within society and they are answered by way of laws, regulations and a new order is established by the gradual change of mentality. If one individual is not aware of or does not have a need for a certain freedom which is considered necessary elsewhere, this would not be the problem of the system or the regime.
Just look at the world outside by remembering the conditions majority of people are in. If you want a feminist movement in Saudi Arabia which even in my book is nowhere near a true democracy, you should be able to create demand for sexual equality among Saudi women majority of whom essentially believe in the necessity of a male run society. In Iran and Afghanistan too, women are oppressed by militia. Nevertheless, these are not democracies. Turkey is a democracy. There are laws like the Civil Code which was modeled around the Swiss Civil Code and the Penal Code that follows the outlines of the French one. Though not comperable to aforementioned countries, no gender discrimination is allowed in this country. A sizeable portion of society however are subjected to rules other than those decided by the Parliament. My Kurdish friends tell me, their family council would gather and decide on a honor killing should even a wire of his sister´s or mother´s hair is seen by a stranger or should there be a rumour about her whether true or not. There are also feuds continuing for years. There is no way that such primitive traditions can be tolerated. I have written about those earlier. Nonetheless, it is not possible to correct them overnight by passing a certain law or by enforcing it. You need to play with the internal dynamics of that community and gain their consent. Since consent is always the keyword in all these matters.
Vineyards, I´m responding to your post where you are stating that we have to respect other cultures. This is what I am disagreeing with to an extent. Yes, we have to respect people´s choices, but we don´t have to respect all of them.
I´ll give you one more example to illustrate one more time what I mean and then I have to change the oil in my car lol.
Burqas - to me it´s a symbol of opression of subjegation of women. It might very well be that my perception of this is driven by my growing up in the West and influenced by Western values. I can however respect an individual´s choice to dress how they want to. If women feel strongly about being clad in burqas then it´s their choice and I can respect the choice itself. However for many women it is not a choice. It is a practice that is culturally sanctioned and forced on women and if they don´t comply the consequences may be gruesome. That aspect I don´t have to respect and I do not respect as a matter of fact. I´m not going to pretend I respect something when I feel its intrinsincly abusive and discriminatory. Im not giong to just say: "We are all humans, it is just that some of us are more fortunate than the others at this stage in human history." Oh well, right? What should I care if some women in a remote part of the world are forced to hide behind a sheet? It´s not me who has to do that, so I should just respect that because it´s their culture? Right? Well, this is what I don´t agree with - as a woman and as a human being. Same in the West, I can respect one´s right to have religious beliefs (for example Christians) but if those beliefs are causing suffering and discrimination (for example againt gay people) then I don´t have to respect that, do I?
I guess I´ll have to agree to disagree with you. I respect your right to a different opinion, but I don´t have to agree with it. 
Edited (9/5/2009) by Melek74
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