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1.       Chris123
156 posts
 19 Nov 2005 Sat 08:30 pm

How can you really tell if a Turkish guy is serious about you? I am no fool, and I know they sometimes try to get girls from other countries to marry them, or to move to their country but are they ALL like that? They certainly seem to "fall in love" very quickly! One minute you are chatting to him, thinking you quite fancy them and the next, they are proposing! Are they all as bad as people say, or is it just their culture?

2.       duskahvesi
858 posts
 19 Nov 2005 Sat 08:34 pm

Quoting Chris123:

How can you really tell if a Turkish guy is serious about you? I am no fool, and I know they sometimes try to get girls from other countries to marry them, or to move to their country but are they ALL like that? They certainly seem to "fall in love" very quickly! One minute you are chatting to him, thinking you quite fancy them and the next, they are proposing! Are they all as bad as people say, or is it just their culture?


it is not about culture..
it is about personality..
not quickly i guess.. by the time is more suitable
and bad guys could be everyweherre in turkey too but that does not mean every turkish guy is bad..!!!!

3.       Chris123
156 posts
 19 Nov 2005 Sat 08:44 pm

No, I don't mean they are all bad, but in England it may be years before they will admit they love you!! In Turkey they tell you very soon after you meet them. Is it because "seni seviyorum" means something more like passion rather than "in love"?

4.       mltm
3690 posts
 19 Nov 2005 Sat 08:58 pm

Quoting Chris123:

No, I don't mean they are all bad, but in England it may be years before they will admit they love you!! In Turkey they tell you very soon after you meet them. Is it because "seni seviyorum" means something more like passion rather than "in love"?



What??? In England it's difficult for a man to admit that he loves you??

5.       SuiGeneris
3922 posts
 19 Nov 2005 Sat 09:16 pm

what is this loving a person or not needs a time period this is so ridiculous pardon me feelings are feelings you cant adopt this into a period you can say you like after a drink you can say that you love after a year or after a month remember the song love is in the air cat stevens i guess... its just crush i guess actually with me it is so.. i cant love a person within a time period its a sudden thing.. like a thunder or sth like that i guess i explained it... yeah ppl can mix their feelings and they can use them or play with them... but what is "love" as it dont have a exact definition so its not much healthy to discuss about it... but using feelings isnt up to only turkish men.. thats becoz you are dealing with turkish most or there are lots of turkish men around you maybe.. i dunno who you are where are you living but thats it!

6.       Angela
75 posts
 19 Nov 2005 Sat 09:58 pm

In England the men only tell you they love you, if they intend marrying you. They may really feel they do, but will only commit themselves verbally, for marriage.

7.       Elisa
0 posts
 19 Nov 2005 Sat 10:11 pm

Quoting Angela:

In England the men only tell you they love you, if they intend marrying you. They may really feel they do, but will only commit themselves verbally, for marriage.



Yeah England, weird country

Wouldn't it be nice if men came with instructions for use? Of course, if you get your man from Turkey, or you get him from the UK, the instructions may differ! So be careful!
Seriously, this discussion will never go anywhere and can never end.
And yes, I know and realize: men reading this will think that it would be so much easier if women came with instructions for use as well. I totally agree

Elisa

8.       esen
3 posts
 19 Nov 2005 Sat 10:17 pm

Elisa is right
by the way most of the Turkish men are not serious when they say that they love you. They sometimes just say it to make the others happy or in order to be able to do whatever he wishes to reach

9.       deli
5904 posts
 19 Nov 2005 Sat 10:21 pm

english men like most men they say i love you usually just before they get you in thier bed sorry to have this negative attitude, i know that there are many men out there that arnt like this and this is coming from someone who has been married to the SAMEguy for 22 years

10.       Angela
75 posts
 19 Nov 2005 Sat 11:19 pm

Deli: you are quite right: some have ulterior motives. Instinct and compulsion play an important role.

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