Alyya,

I am sorry that you lost your friend and sorry for his family's loss also.

We may not have experienced the loss of a loved one, but of course we all will at some time or another. The important thing to remember I think is that whatever religion you are, whatever you believe and even if, like me you don't believe,everyone should be remembered by someone for something good that they did and everyone should not die without having had someone love them. To love people and yourself and do good for others whenever you can is so important. If you can say as you yourself are dying that you did the best you could with the life that you had then I think you can die with a good conscience and wait and see what happens afterwards.

Bambino, I read your statement on “funny”… Don’t you think it is also funny that people remember about God only when they talk about death?
Isn’t God the one who gives life?
Isn’t God the One who gave us gift to love each other?
Why do we associate God with death?
I think we should be talking about God when we are happy because he is the One who gives us happiness and all of the good things in this world!

Guzel kiz - true.

Not any further town exists after the one called Death...

spirits are alive after death..according to muslim belief...

Nope,I think it is "shamanist"ic!

Muslim belief says the spirits cannot travel to this universe again...They are kept in a strange-universe-
lets say...Qoran calls this place(not a place actually,I mean it is not a mixture of time and matter twisting each other)as Lahf-ı mahvuz(I dunno the meaning,nor do I know the pronunciation in English)

I am not affraid of death... In fact, I am curious about what happens then and how it will long. Try to think this "forever"... Maybe it will be the only real neverlasting...

This life is not all there is.
Life on earth is just the dress rehearsal before the real production.You will spend far more time on the other side of death - in eternity - than you will here.Earth is the staging area, the preschool, the tryout for your life in eternity.It is the practice workout before actual game; the warm-up lap before the race begins.This life is preperation for the next.
At most, you will live a hundred years on earth, but you will spend forever in eternity.One day your heart will stop beating.That will be the end of your body and your time on earth, but it will not be the end of you.Your eartly body is just a temporary residence for your spirit.
When you fully comprehend that there is more to life than just here and now, and you realize that life is just preparation for eternity, you will begin to live differently on a daily basis.Suddenly many activities, goals, and even problems that seemed so important will appear trivial, petty and unworthy of your attention.
Death is not the end of you! Death is not your termination, but your transition into eternity, so there are eternal consequences to everything you do on earth.Every act of our lives strikes some chord that will vibrate in eternity.
The only time most people think about eternity is at funerals, and then it's often shallow, sentimental thinking, based on ignorance.You may feel it's morbid to think about death, but actually it's unhealthy to live in denial of death and not consider what is inevitable. Only a fool would go through life unprepared for what we all know will eventually happen.
Just as the nine months you spent in your mother's womb were not an end in themselves but preperation for life, so this life is preperation for the next.It will be the last hour of your time on earth,but it won't be the last of you. Rather than being the end of your life, it will be your birthday into eternal life.
Measured against eternity, your time on earth is just a blink of an eye, but the consequences of it will last forever.The deeds of this life are the destiny of the next.
A popular slogan encouraged people to live each day as "the first day of the rest of your life." Actually, it would be wiser to live each day as if it were the last day of your life.It ought to be the business of every day to prepare for our final day.

Rick Warren

Wow, you sound like you really know all the answers .

Hello Catwoman,
I don't think so and did not tell I know all the answers.I just shared my thoughts. I was wondering why you're sarcastic.Nobody tells you to have same believes.I think we just share our ideas and opinions.
With all regards
Bliss

Hello bliss,I don't understand why u attack Catwoman. U really treat all your thoughts so seriously that u don't understand somebody tries to make the atmosphere a little bit lighter? Don't get everything so seriously...