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DUDU fool -proof???
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19 Nov 2007 Mon 07:01 pm |
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Quoting AEnigma III:
"We" as in a conversation. Its impossible to have a conversation with yourself.....well....maybe not you  |
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19 Nov 2007 Mon 10:26 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting AEnigma III:
"We" as in a conversation. Its impossible to have a conversation with yourself.....well....maybe not you |
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You make such a sweet little double act, it makes me feel all warm and cosy inside
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19 Nov 2007 Mon 10:44 pm |
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Quoting libralady: You make such a sweet little double act, it makes me feel all warm and cosy inside |
Awwwwww 
(is it us, or the wine?  )
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20 Nov 2007 Tue 01:03 am |
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This is the main thing about what you guys called "dudus". There are LOADS of girls who have been with their fellahs for maybe even years, laugh together etc. But then it turns out he was the same as all the rest. Every girl says "mine is not a dudu" , he's different...
I have seen guys on their computer talking to 2 or more girls at same time , saying same things, love you, miss you blah blah blah. Making sure the girls don't visit at same time etc.
Asking for money openly so early, or talking about visas etc, are the messages for stupid or impatient "dudus" , however, there are guys who will be with girls for years until they get it. Marry the girl, have their babies, until they get what they want...
There are obviously tell tale signs if the guy is using you, I hate the whole calling them "dudus" thing, but there are plenty of guys who are clever and subtle. Even say they don't want to leave Turkey at all etc to make the girl feel he is sincerely just interested in her, when he has every intention of moving.
Also, there are guys who do sincerely care for girls they happened to meet on internet or on holiday. But there have been many girls sure they weren't being used...when they were.
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20 Nov 2007 Tue 01:40 am |
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Quoting xkirstyx: This is the main thing about what you guys called "dudus". There are LOADS of girls who have been with their fellahs for maybe even years, laugh together etc. But then it turns out he was the same as all the rest. Every girl says "mine is not a dudu" , he's different...
I have seen guys on their computer talking to 2 or more girls at same time , saying same things, love you, miss you blah blah blah. Making sure the girls don't visit at same time etc.
Asking for money openly so early, or talking about visas etc, are the messages for stupid or impatient "dudus" , however, there are guys who will be with girls for years until they get it. Marry the girl, have their babies, until they get what they want...
There are obviously tell tale signs if the guy is using you, I hate the whole calling them "dudus" thing, but there are plenty of guys who are clever and subtle. Even say they don't want to leave Turkey at all etc to make the girl feel he is sincerely just interested in her, when he has every intention of moving.
Also, there are guys who do sincerely care for girls they happened to meet on internet or on holiday. But there have been many girls sure they weren't being used...when they were. |
+1000000000 very very good point 
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20 Nov 2007 Tue 02:09 am |
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Quoting AEnigma III: Didn't we have this conversation twice before already? I remember Trudy's post regarding the parrot... |
yes, we already had this dudu/parrot conversation before 
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20 Nov 2007 Tue 11:29 am |
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Quoting xkirstyx: This is the main thing about what you guys called "dudus". There are LOADS of girls who have been with their fellahs for maybe even years, laugh together etc. But then it turns out he was the same as all the rest. Every girl says "mine is not a dudu" , he's different...
I have seen guys on their computer talking to 2 or more girls at same time , saying same things, love you, miss you blah blah blah. Making sure the girls don't visit at same time etc.
Asking for money openly so early, or talking about visas etc, are the messages for stupid or impatient "dudus" , however, there are guys who will be with girls for years until they get it. Marry the girl, have their babies, until they get what they want...
There are obviously tell tale signs if the guy is using you, I hate the whole calling them "dudus" thing, but there are plenty of guys who are clever and subtle. Even say they don't want to leave Turkey at all etc to make the girl feel he is sincerely just interested in her, when he has every intention of moving.
Also, there are guys who do sincerely care for girls they happened to meet on internet or on holiday. But there have been many girls sure they weren't being used...when they were. |
true indeed... you make a very good point. I assume that your husband is a turk, and so is your son (by blood.) What i'm about to say is not meant to be an offense against you, but since i had opened my personal life here, i was wondering if you could share yours. that is if you are willing
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21 Nov 2007 Wed 03:13 am |
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Well actually no, not really. I do not find this site somewhere I would particularly write about my personal experiences or my family. Is there something you want to know imparticular?
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