You are crazy 

maybe...bazen...is better to be crazy

 Very true And I´m a rational woman, I would still have a nice column to write... just guess my life isn´t boring

 ´We´ want to hear your story 

wow, me too, I am a good listenerall I need is a glass of tea..my ears are on you

I´m in love with a Turkish man, younger than me but he don´t seem to mind..We been together online for 3 years now and we phone chat, web video chat, email, postal mail each other and try to egt as close as we posibly can to each other. We´d like to get married and he seems to think it cheaper if I go and become a citizen of Turney than him coming here to the US....I think it´s fascinating becsaue we are extremely interested in both our cultures, and he is so polite more than any other men I´ve met out here..There´s just something about  a Turkish man besides he being sweet and respectful that I find alluring..I don´t know if his family would accept me becasue I am a divorcee and have grown children whom don´t live at home anymore but I can still very much have more children and from what I´ve heard is that the woman must be a virgin and no children to be acepted is this true?I wish he´d just come and live with me in the US but it´s so hard to get a green card without having alot of money...I take him as he is....I´m just scared I won´t be acepted but I wish you tons of luck....God bless...

Liz, I´d suggest you meet this man in person before getting so serious.  While you can get to know someone to some degree online, it is nothing compared with real life in the flesh experience.

You don´t know what he actually looks like, how he smells, how he moves, how he uses his eyes, how he eats....and so many other things....and he doesn´t know those same things about you.

We tend to fill with what we like and want when given the opportunity....as for age differences...it depends on the people. I know some marriages with large age differences that have worked out, and some that have not.

Another thing you have not mentioned is how your grown children feel about this relationship. Have you discussed this with them?

If you already have grown children, do you really want to have babies all over again. You are not as young as you were and having children is not easy.

As for the virgin issue, at your stage in live and with grown children, nobody would expect that of you.  Sorry if I sound hard on you....good luck

every one has his or her dream.but no one can choose his fate, but i wish to every one fullfill his or her dreams

You´re right, I need to meet him in person but I do know what he really looks like from head to toe and how he eats and how he chews and sounds and so forth but no I don´t know how he smells and you´re right to think of having children all over again. I´m not that old though...maybe children aren´t a good idea but he said it was up to me being he has many neices and nephews..But I wonder if I went to visit would I want to come back? Would I have too? What would happen if I just stayed? I´m so flattered he has learned english just for me and it´s sometimes hard to understand what he´s saying but I too am learning my share of the Turkish Language but it´s hard. I already know English, Spanish and Italian now I ben trying to pick up Turkish. Love it though...Nah, you don´t sound hard on me just making alot of sense...Open my eyes sort of speak and trust me I take all you say to heart...You are right though I maybe meet him first before I make any dramatic choices....Thank you for your advice....Can´t help but love him regardless of what he´d smell like, or act like or any other habbits he may have..I´m sure he feels just the same about me...Dreams do come true if only you beleive....

yes..but try to dont believe in ghosts...because..it hurts

I like that....