oh dear dear, this you cant proove.

That may be a ridiculous assumption but we have never built millions of churches to support that absurd assumption.

 Actually you can, how many people do you know that are afterlife people? I know none!

 i just dont know what do churches have to do with this topic?

who "we" ? that built millions of churches?

there arent millions of churches on this planet, or are there?

sometimes im afraid of you, you go out of logics into some alien space

It is a fathers decision and his right to choose. I like when people respects my decýsýons despýte anythýng so ý respect thýs fathers decýsýon also. No need to blame anyone.

I find it extremely hard to even imagine how any parent could refuse to donate a kidney to save his/her child´s life.  The father´s ´right to choose´ has probably condemned his son to death.  Most parents wouldn´t think twice about doing something like this - they would just be so happy and grateful that they were able to do this for their child.   The only possible excuse I can see is that this man has two families and younger children and maybe he was heavily influenced by his new wife. 

 i hardly find this an excuse. how could a kidney influence on his second marriage?  

I meant that his current wife may have put a lot of pressure on him not to do it because she was scared it would be dangerous for him, he might possibly die and then HER children would be left without a father.

 then how him and his wife are gonna live a normal life after such decision? sorry, the question is not directly to you. im just shocked that people exaggerate with respect and tolerance.

I have to agree with Femme here..I find this man to be a very selfish person.  I don´t even like to see my own son sick...would rather be sick myself.  This for me would not be a difficult question when it comes to saving your childs life.  It´s hard to understand why any parent would refuse to do this under any cicumstances if it meant the possiblity to save their kid.  All that comes to my mind is he is a selfish..self absorbed coward.

That is the extent which we can go when describing a father like him : "I find this man to be a very selfish person.."  With all due respect, many of us still think that we live in an ideal world full of decent people. In fact, it is far from being like that. Like the heroes and heroins of both fiction and history there are egoist, sadist, misagonist, misanthropic and mazochistic people in addition to perverts, criminals, murderers, baby rapists (source recent news) and you name it.

In other words, people may surprize you anytime, anywhere. You´d better be prepared.

Now anyone of you wishing to drink a bottle of wine with me in the middle of the night?