Ãf the Doctors say its ok for him to go through the operation reagarding his age and health
Then by no mean he is not excused!
His son may die and he do nothing about it and went to family for advice ?!
what kind of families that it gives desicion such as this ?To let one of its sons die and do nothing about it while they can!
Doesnt deserve to be called family in my opinion!
I don´t know, Canli, I think people are being too harsh on this man. Evidently there is a problem with this family, or at least with the offspring of the father and his first wife. All the children have had kidney problems. Three have died from it, and the last one is dying.
The man has other children to take care of, and he is 60 years old. I don´t think the life expectancy in Turkey is that long, in particular in Eastern Turkey where he is from. The age of 60 is not exactly a young vital and vibrant man. Donation of a kidney is a major operatin and quite serious. Kidney donations are usually done from young healthy people, not older people.
"As for Yasin Topaloðlu´s father, Ali Topaloðlu, he notes that despite being divorced from Yasin´s mother, he has turned over much of his pension money to help the mother buy a house and has money taken monthly from his wages to help support his ex-wife and their child.
Noting that he also has two more children from his second marriage, Topaloðlu said: "My children are very young. When the question of whether I should give my kidney to Yasin arose, I went to my brothers to talk about it. They did not look warmly on it. They warned me that my children were still young. As it is, I am already 60 years old. I have lost three children already. I am very saddened by the situation, but my kidney is not going to keep him alive. And if I get sick, there is no one there behind me to support my new family."
In fact, I think it´s outragous this family´s very personal agony has been exposed to the whole world to venture opinions on. Do we know how healthy this man is? What is the prognosis for the man who needs the kidney? This is deeply personal. He does have young children to take care of.
I´m curious as to why there this family has so many kidney probmems. Is it something in the area they grew up, is it genetic?
I also would not want my daughter or son to marry someone with such a dire family health history, and in particular with so many questions as to the cause of the problem unanswered.
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