Let spritzer defend herself. You can return her to defend herself for a little time. Are you brave enough to do this?

You are not talking to a 5 year old. I don´t get all pumped up by a comment like "are you brave enough". She insulted people, got warned, and the next day made some nasty personal attacks and got deleted. There is nothing to defend or explain. 

 Some of admins and members provoked her countless times when she was chatting with istanbulluguy. She didn´t answer them. Ask admins if you want. Let her defend herself.

Be neutral.

 Chat records are kept gokuyum.  There is no reason for asking anyone who said what.  No admin provoked her...unless you consider just being in the chat room at the same time a provocation. 

 give me the chat records of last three days please.

Sure, do you like cream on it?

 Look, admin said it all when he said this is a private site and he owns it.  Whether you agree or not, admin has the right to decide how this site is run. 

You (collectively) can make your own decision....you stay and play nice or you flame out...like spritzer did.  OR you act as a mature adult and make the decision that "this is just not the place for me" and walk away with dignity and grace.  The choices are really quite simple. 

Spritz made her choice...you make yours. 

Gokuyum, the reasons for deleting spritzer have been explained multiple times at this point, and it has been explained to you that ´provocation´ is not considered by this site an excuse to break forum rules. I see no point in engaging in further discussion about this.

 She doesn´t want to defence herself and she doesn´t want to be in this forum. She is such a dear friend to me. And i believe her with all my heart. She is the good one. You are not.