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Women cannot marry men they want
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 08:53 pm |
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maybe you are seriouse oeince, you do not like people getting personal with you and you turn around and do the same
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 08:55 pm |
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This is what I meant in another thread about weak moderation. As early as the fourth post in this thread a poster who had not even made a contribution was goaded into retaliation with the inevitable result.
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 08:55 pm |
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Yes thats true. Because we all have had enough of him. He, himself is a psychiatric case in my opinion.
There is a saying in Turkish - Bir deli kuyuya bir taş atmış, kırk akıllı çıkaramamış - that means, "an insane throws a stone to the shaft; forty intelligent people can not take it out" (better translations are welcomed.)
If that insane is always the same person, he turns to be chronic problematic case.
And I talk about that case.
Edited (10/7/2010) by oeince
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 08:56 pm |
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Back to the topic...
Firstly, the problem here is that these are FORCED marriages. Arranged marriages are not an issue. Some people prefer this method, and it´s their own personal choice. The problem for the people mentioned in the article is that this is not a matter of choice.
Secondly, I am wondering what the percentages are outside of the East. There seems to be a focus on Eastern Turkey when it comes to these kind of issues, but as can be read the survey was held amongst Eastern Turkish people. How about the rest of Turkey? And poor Northern Turkey, nobody survey´s them... it seems like Turkey only has an East and a West, like it is one big line, without a top, a bottom, or a middle.
And how about allll the people who would never speak out in such a survey? I´m shocked by the results, not because of the percentages, but because those percentages were actually brave enough to say "no, I didn´t want to marry this guy, actually!"
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 09:06 pm |
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This is what I meant in another thread about weak moderation. As early as the fourth post in this thread a poster who had not even made a contribution was goaded into retaliation with the inevitable result.
The poster you mean, has been in bazillion arguments on the same subject before and referred to the experience. People who are here long enough to know it, understood it without problems  As usual, some agreed, some didn´t. Business as usual Thank you for your input into the debate, though. We loved hearing your opinion on the subject of arranged/forced marriages. There´s this proverb about a pot calling the kettle black. It almost works here if it weren´t for the fact that the user you mention added to the discussion and you didn´t
Yes thats true. Because we all have had enough of him. He, himself is a psychiatric case in my opinion.
Her. It´s a woman, not a man
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 09:12 pm |
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Yes thats true. Because we all have had enough of him. He, himself is a psychiatric case in my opinion.
I have not had enough of him so you cannot say "we all have had enough of him", you are deciding for others what they have had enough of and carefull oeince maybe others had enough of you, have you though about that? it is a two way street you are on.
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 09:15 pm |
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All of us means many people in that case.
Indeed i am ready for a survey.
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 09:18 pm |
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What´s going on? What personal attacks are you talking about? Have you ever read your own messages? Do you know how many complaints I have received about you? You always do that. You stir trouble and play the victim afterwards.
I have no personal problems with you. On the contrary, I can say I like you. You are a good, reliable net personality, a bit predictable but funny as hell, maybe on a par with Mr. Bean.
Go and start from the beginning of this thread!!!
Tell me where and when..
Tell me who complained..
Look at your posts, your quotes.
Tell me which posts of mines were offensive!!
Tell me who told you and tell me when you told me that they were offensive!!
And stop!!!
No one is asking your opinion about me god´s sake..
You have rules and you, yourself, are breaking them!!
Phew!!
I am still waiting for the answers for this..
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 09:21 pm |
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All of us means many people in that case.
Indeed i am ready for a survey.
If you´ve been an attentive user of this site, as you claim, then you must be aware that there are no surveys about users here. You agree with some, you disagree with others - but everybody has the right to be here until they get rude and vulgar. That´s how our weird TC family has always been 
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 09:22 pm |
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All of us means many people in that case.
little lesson in English:
"all of us" means the total sum of, everyone, the entire group
you meant to say "some of us" which is a portion or partial sum of the group
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07 Oct 2010 Thu 09:26 pm |
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Anway, this is the subject for me now
thehandsom, we come here to have fun. Why do you always begin conflicts? Do you have to annoy people in order you live an awful life? Get off our case! You spoil the enjoyment of the site. If you need help, just let us know, we can try our best to help you solve your inferiority complex.
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