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In Love with Turkish Men?
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02 Nov 2007 Fri 03:10 am |
Quoting Deli_kizin: Ofcourse the way people treat each other has to do with the way they have been brought up, the life they have, thus with their culture.. thus, in this case, with being Turkish.
Though many men and women over the world are jealous, we can state it's a Turkish common habit.
Though many men and women share passionate love all over the world, we can state the heartfelt passion, is a Turkish thing we find in men.
I love Kadir for who he is. I have never judged him for being Kurdish, when I met him, I didn't even know who the Kurds were and where Turkey was situated exactly. Now I love him even more for it as it makes me want to explore his roots. I love him for the way he treats his family. The way his friends can count on him. His sense of humor. The way he makes me feel like a goddess. I even love the way we get angry with each other. I love the way his love is overwhelming. It makes me want to get the best out of me for him. I love his interest in history and medicines. I love his passion for the sea and the ships. Oh I just love him. But not because he is Kurdish/Turkish whatsoever. Maybe because Turkish life made him this way. Maybe just because I managed to pick the right man (well, be found by the right man).
Christine, I think if you look at a website like this, but then in Spanish or Italian or any otehr holiday place, you will find just as many western girls falling for these men too. Everyone longs for the things that come from far. Everyone has an emotional boost on holiday. But from all the messages on this website, it is clear what loves are real and what loves won't survive one or 2 holidays. I think that is wat Aslan was talking about and I don't think she meant to judge you
The loves that are real, are beyond the 'happiness' aspect of Turkish lives. They are willing to also cope with the bad sides of living in Türkiye or being with a Turkish man. Turkey is not just gold that shines. Nor is any other country.
Yes. I think I can say that real loves are beyond the happiness aspect of Turkish lives. But just because of this, they can discover even more happiness by going through the surface. And I doubt if that has to do with loving a Turkish man. I pray for all the people who love another nationality, that this is just about love
Well, after this long letter I should send love and greetings Just kidding. But I do wish everybody luck with their love. Everything can be overcome |
DK - that's poetry. You're really in love, sounds beautiful!
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06 Dec 2007 Thu 11:41 pm |
Quoting angietlb: I love my Turkish prince because he is so loving and patient and calls me so many wonderful names...my princess, my darling, my angel. |
And...you believe him?!?!?!
Don't you think its coincidence that Turkish men say such words so easily. Do you REALLY think they mean it all?
Awww poor little princess, don't you think that one SINCERE "I love you" is worth a thousand insincere "seni seviyorums".
How will you feel about that jealousy in a few years time when you are his "property"?
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07 Dec 2007 Fri 12:02 am |
I dont need a share of your flowery romance thanks!
I am sorry if you thought my words hateful. Perhaps you will take it more seriously coming from a Turkish man:-
Quoting thehandsom: I think, specially foreign girls, should realize that Turkish culture is a bit different then theirs. Turkish men will do anything to make girls feel like they are the only living girls on earth and they will do anything to make you feel like you are the princess, you are the one.
But do not forget, 90% of those men/boys still think that there are two types of women/girls on earth: the ones they can marry, and the ones they can have fun. |
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07 Dec 2007 Fri 12:46 am |
Quoting angietlb: I'll let you know what he says. |
Let me guess..
"Askim sevgilim canim benim I am offended that you would even think such a thing of me! If you don't take my love seriously then I will leave you alone - clearly you do not love me....blah blah blah blah"
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07 Dec 2007 Fri 01:08 am |
ohh, are you a man, Angie?
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07 Dec 2007 Fri 01:24 am |
Quoting AEnigma III: Oh thank God, I just realised you are not English! You are just another "bed amerikan" |
Hey now III...as a bed amerikan I take offence to being lumped in with this one!
Wow....I can't wait to watch this relationship play out in typical fashion!!!!! WOOHOO!!!
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07 Dec 2007 Fri 01:40 am |
Quoting girleegirl: Hey now III...as a bed amerikan I take offence to being lumped in with this one! |
CGG don't count
Plus...I have a soft spot for SOME Amerikans - even bed ones
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07 Dec 2007 Fri 02:06 am |
Quoting AEnigma III:
CGG don't count
Plus...I have a soft spot for SOME Amerikans - even bed ones |
Ok then....you are forgiven even though your new friend says no one likes you...or something to that effect..not exactly sure as her eloquent post was deleted!
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08 Dec 2007 Sat 06:38 pm |
It's really weird reading my desperate post written ages ago, upon returning from Turkey. What a simplistic request... I was so turned upside down when I met Omer when I wrote this- but, it all worked out ok...much more than ok.
I wish the best to all who find themselves in a similar situation. I also issue caution- our story is certainly far from the norm.
Spending a month in Olu Deniz this summer made me very aware of how common and riduculous many relationships are in these resort towns.
If you have a good head on your shoulders; are honestly in touch with your inner being and truth, you'll be fine...
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08 Dec 2007 Sat 07:11 pm |
Quoting christine_usa: It's really weird reading my desperate post written ages ago, |
we change we grow up!
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