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Please explane why????
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 12:40 am |
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Quote: Quoting Leelu: If you intend using abortion as your contraception method, perhaps you should consider celebacy... |
I cannot have any children due to having uterine cancer when my only child was a year and a half old. Seeing that someone aborted 2 children in a one year period or so really breaks my heart. |
YOU have my deepest sympathy Leelu. I just cant feel it for these stupid people...
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 12:52 am |
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YOU have my deepest sympathy Leelu. I just cant feel it for these stupid people... |
Just a tiny bit judgmental in my view.After all maybe we should walk a mile in each others shoes before painting a picture of such a dichotomy of what is right or wrong.Surely a more relative approach would be more helpful here.After all what is right for one isnt always correct for everyone else.
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 12:55 am |
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Quote: Quoting SERA_2005:
YOU have my deepest sympathy Leelu. I just cant feel it for these stupid people... |
Just a tiny bit judgmental in my view.After all maybe we should walk a mile in each others shoes before painting a picture of such a dichotomy of what is right or wrong.Surely a more relative approach would be more helpful here.After all what is right for one isnt always correct for everyone else. |
What exactly is RIGHT about two abortions in one year? How can that be "correct" for anyone...?
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 01:06 am |
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Quote: Quoting Leelu: I cannot have any children due to having uterine cancer when my only child was a year and a half old. Seeing that someone aborted 2 children in a one year period or so really breaks my heart. |
Quoting SERA_2005:
YOU have my deepest sympathy Leelu. I just cant feel it for these stupid people... |
Just a tiny bit judgmental in my view.After all maybe we should walk a mile in each others shoes before painting a picture of such a dichotomy of what is right or wrong.Surely a more relative approach would be more helpful here.After all what is right for one isnt always correct for everyone else. |
In life there are shoes and shoes...
The lack of an ability, now that is a real problem. There are people that may have the will, but have no possibilities, and there are people that have possibilities but do not have the will to choose or to see them. the latter, in my opinion, is harder to accept. Sometimes life gives us lessons we have to take. Because we have possibilities! We may be acting stupidly. But we still have the possibility to rewise our behaviour. A little critic never did harm to anyone. Lack of possibilities can do much more harm.
As for Leelu... 
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 01:18 am |
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What exactly is RIGHT about two abortions in one year? How can that be "correct" for anyone...? |
I did not nor would ever try to suggest what is morally RIGHT as you put it for another person.I believe in relativism and also happen to think that it is not up to others to sit in judgement of other people and their actions.Whether they may be right or wrong in your view is irrelivent here,the point is the situation presented itself and the best course of action was undertaken by the individual it was affecting at that time.We can only Judge ourselves and what is right for us in any given situation.Making a broad statement about what is 'right' or 'wrong' here as you put it is not going to change the fact that these set of circumstances made themselves known and they had to be dealt with,whether you agree with the outcome or not is unimportant in my view.You may disagree.
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 08:19 am |
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Quote: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting SERA_2005:
YOU have my deepest sympathy Leelu. I just cant feel it for these stupid people... |
Just a tiny bit judgmental in my view.After all maybe we should walk a mile in each others shoes before painting a picture of such a dichotomy of what is right or wrong.Surely a more relative approach would be more helpful here.After all what is right for one isnt always correct for everyone else. |
What exactly is RIGHT about two abortions in one year? How can that be "correct" for anyone...? |
In MY OPINION and please note I have in bold "My Opinion" abortion is NOT a method of birth control .. but in all actuality a form of murder. I am not judging the person who started this thread but merely voicing an opinion. and I am actually saddened that in this day and age .. abortion is actually considered by many to be a form of birth control. There are millions of people out there that want children and cannot have them for what ever reasons that would have opened their hearts and their homes for one child that someone was "unselfish" and gave up for adoption.
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 08:30 am |
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Quoting Leelu: In MY OPINION and please note I have in bold "My Opinion" abortion is NOT a method of birth control .. but in all actuality a form of murder. I am not judging the person who started this thread but merely voicing an opinion. and I am actually saddened that in this day and age .. abortion is actually considered by many to be a form of birth control. There are millions of people out there that want children and cannot have them for what ever reasons that would have opened their hearts and their homes for one child that someone was "unselfish" and gave up for adoption. |
I am in no way diminishing your experience with my comments but since you say there are millions of people who would adopt, how do you account for all the children that are in foster care and in orphanages all over the world?
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 04:39 pm |
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Quoting girleegirl: Quoting Leelu: In MY OPINION and please note I have in bold "My Opinion" abortion is NOT a method of birth control .. but in all actuality a form of murder. I am not judging the person who started this thread but merely voicing an opinion. and I am actually saddened that in this day and age .. abortion is actually considered by many to be a form of birth control. There are millions of people out there that want children and cannot have them for what ever reasons that would have opened their hearts and their homes for one child that someone was "unselfish" and gave up for adoption. |
I am in no way diminishing your experience with my comments but since you say there are millions of people who would adopt, how do you account for all the children that are in foster care and in orphanages all over the world?
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Adoptions can take years and lots of obstacles, the system does not make it easy on people to adopt. I know here in the U.S., we have alot of adoptions over in China. It could take months and years before you get a call. Then it's so expensive to travel and all of the legalities that are involved. The sad thing is most people want babies or small children. It's the older kids that may never get adopted.
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 04:52 pm |
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thats the one of most sad life story which i heard in my life,and i think thats not a matter of nationality ,its just related with personality,i wish you can find true way with ur own mind and searchs for this big trouble,really very sad experience....
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 04:59 pm |
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I do try not to judge what is moral and what is not. Unfortunatley the decisions people make can never be our own, nor should they be, after all her decisions do not affect our lives personally. However do expect some very harsh criticism when you divulge that you have "taken care" of 2 pregnancies for someone else.
I think bathory if you read your post through others eyes you could see that even though this post was to gain sympothy you will recieve the complete opposite. MY OPINION is, and I do not know you based on a paragraph but you sound very selfish, and only seem to worry about your own feelings. Ask yourself... what about your husbands feelings? Your daughters? This man sounds pathetic, and I believe he is starting to rub off of you.
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17 Oct 2007 Wed 05:06 pm |
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When you post a very personal experience on a website and ask peoples opinion...that is what you are going to get. I was not trying to impose my beliefs on anyone, but the fact that someone can have 2 abortions in one year, I find truely offensive. If you think that preserving the feelings of people who have left themselves open for critisizm is more important than expressing an opinion regarding the murder of unborn children then I have to say this truely is a sick and twisted world we live in...
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