Thank you both of you. Both messages look very different!!
Thank you so much x

"I am sorry I upset you today by not answering your calls. I need some time to think about things but will send you a message again soon."

Cyrano - perhaps we can do a deal?!

Cyrano, sorry to confuse you - I have given you an explanation above (I amended my original post a moment ago)

There isn't really a phrase using "be it so". We do have "so be it" was that the phrase? "So be it" would be used in a similar way to the French "c'est la vie", and would normally be used as an acceptance of what can't be changed, so...."it is raining on my wedding day...so be it"!!!!!

Well not me! Handsome men are usually vain or gay!

I can tell you lots about Western men, well...English men! We have two extremes:

First the JEDI:
Most are very romantic, loving, and do not consider themselves above doing cooking, housework etc! My two great loves were both wonderful and did EVERYTHING round the house, cleaning, cooking, shopping for food..HONESTLY!
It is generally accepted that things are 50/50 and chores, bills etc. are split equally. I am not sure about going out and getting drunk etc. I think the girl who wrote that in another post must be very immature and/or young, but certainly they are not overly jealous and none of my boyfriends would DARE criticise my clothes for being too sexy or try to stop me having nights out with my girlfriends!
now....
THE DARK SIDE.... men who believe they are master of the house, master of you and master of money! Avoid them - you can usually spot them easily. They have shaved heads, wear English Flag shorts and get drunk all the time. Avoid these men at all costs...."beyond this point there be dragons.."

Maybe I should Miss Ceyda, but AFTER the one where we tell him to use punctuation....!

Teşekkürler Mltm - I'm sorry that was so long! I now have to chop it up in to "bite sized" pieces and send it by several text messages! Oh I wish he had email.

Thank you Miss Cedya. Could someone translate my reply from English to Turkish..

"I had guessed that things were not good for you because since you returned to Istanbul your need for me has increased and you have suddenly talked of marriage even though it is far too soon and we do not know each other well enough. You should know that I cannot be the solution to your problems and it is not a good reason to marry me. However, you must know that I do care about you and if you tell me your problems, maybe I can help you?"