Quoting mltm: Altough I agreed that it's also about personality, somehow you have to adapt yourself to the people around and consider their thoughts and manners as well. If I feel that I'm gonna receive something I wouldn't want, I try to avoid that condition normally, I can't just say that it's their problem. Adapting myself to them doesn't mean that I value their thoughts, it's just for feeling better and not getting disturbed.
Just for same reasons I don't wear very attractive clothes while wandering around in some parts of İstanbul where I know that I'll get a reaction which will disturb me and even I'll get harasses, but there're places where I can dress like that without really being disturbed. Holiday resort places are very different than the real social life. it's not just about ourselves, it depends to the people around us as well.
Yes, unfortunately being especially a modern girl in Türkiye is not so easy. Usually you have to consider your sexual identity or they make you consider it. |
So I don't think I'll be so likely to just write anything up here. Unless I have a euforic moment 
How can i just put him in an off-topic forum. he IS my topic 
