Darling LIR, had I known the situation was entirely your fault I would NEVER have complained.  You are, of course, completely forgiven

(Thanks for the latest cardie by the way..... )

 This is great....I now know where to post my smut!!!

 ...............and as do everyone else who reads this thread.....

Gee....I missed this excitement and can only guess what went on.

Yes, I also think that our mods and administrators are all too biased. They don´t delete stuff they don´t see or know about. So unacceptable!

 Great post Catwoman oops sorry Admin.  Unfortunately you failed to notice that I was not criticising ALL admins or mods.  I was criticising Canli, as is my right according to your rules and regulations, as her posts are her personal views (somewhat clannish and religiously swayed though they may be) and thus her actions as a mod tend to be biased.

Anyway, as we now know the reason why the posts could not be deleted, this discussion is pointless....unless of course you wish to persue this further because you love discourse with me and refuse to delete me

 Everyone sees through their own eyes....things not be seen by other eyes....

Maybe you need some rest canim..

   ....I feel a need to modify coming on!!

Cecille

dig through this site, it will offer you loads of colourful infos.

Moving to an another country is not easy, especially since you seem to be not so very informed about cultural differencees. Dig up some readings about turkish history and society, lifestyle and get informed. Specially on the area you are going to leave.

About turkish men, yes, they are gealous, with a high sense of possesivity. But then again, french have it, too, britsh, romanians, hungarians - it is the level of posessiveness and freedom accepted in a couple that differs. Depending on your husband´s character, you may find out, you have a strict kitchen - rule. Then again, if you are rspectfull, fair and honest, you will-at least should - get the same feelings.

Be aware of your mother in love!

In turkey, as well as in the balcanians, they say the man is the head of the family, but the woman is the neck that turns him... And mothers have the strong tendency to continue this anatomical peculiarity in their sons´ life, too...

If your husband is a well educated person, you will get loads of respect and care and understanding.

And if he is intelligent, cultivated and rafinated, you may also taste heaven - with a man that is a kind, gentle companion and which knows to take care of you, works to find out your happiness, gives to the cesar´s wife what is worth to the cesar´s wife.

In this case , I certainly wouldnever move out of Turkey...

So get very well informed, because it is your life and happiness on the bet!

Good luck, inspiration, cleverness and loads of happiness to you!!

Yes, Turkish husbands are jealous, as are all people in monogamous relationships. Some try to hide their jealousy, others don´t. How it is manifest is important. I think if you recognize the why and what, it helps deal with it.

Helen Fisher, a anthropology professor at Rutgers University has an interesting talk on monogamy on philosophy talk you can listen to.

Her website can be seen here. She is facinating to read and listen to.

 All people?