I have to agree with Elisabeth here. Read what you wrote. It´s abusive and insulting and you wonder why American women are cold to you? You want to marry someone because you have decided to stay in the US? How romantic of you.
Actually, most Americans are very charmed and intrigued by foreigners. If you have a problem, it´s not the American women (of which there is an almost infinite variety) it´s you.
Let´s get a few things straight, newquaker because you are hardly an innocent victim in this thread.
Just so you understand - these are the first comments in this thread that are rude and they are all made you YOU:
“American Girls are the Worst”
“Americans, on the other hand, have always been an impossibility for me. First of all, they are ignorant and/or prejudiced against Turks and also unwilling to bother to even think about anything serious with me. This is actually a general pattern of behavior here against foreigners. The so called hospitality is completely fake and does not exist on personal level, and once they are done with their jobs, they pay zero attention to you.”
This is why I thought you are talking about yourself and not foreigners or general attitudes towards foreigners:
“I have been in the US for 3 years, I still hardly have any American friends. Don’t get me wrong, I have many friends, but the vast majority are either other foreigners or Turks like me.”
“I´d wish to engage with an American woman if I would continue my life in America.” n
“I´d like to meet and date American girls and maybe marry one someday. Now that I will live in the US, it only makes sense. I heard lots of love stories of Americans marrying Turks, but it hardly ever happens around me and I have had no luck so far.”G
You are not exactly an innocent victim with people picking on you. Your very first post was unnecessarily rude. If you want to make friends with Americans, you need to change your mind about them first of all. People, and not just Americans, can feel when they are being judged and have a tendency to ignore/avoid you
