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Is there no end to this madness?
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 02:24 pm |
An Afghan journalist has been sentenced to death for downloading...guess what?
Pornography?
Child porn?
Anti-muslim material?
NO NO! For downloading material about women's rights in an Islamic society.
THIS is the lengths some men will go to to keep their power. Women who say there are no women's rights issues that affect them, indirectly support it.
Please note that this is also the regime that the US/UK are supporting. They should get the hell out of there....
EDIT: I made a mistake of course in the above. The downloaded material IS anti-islam because it is about women's rights and therefore is considered blasphemy.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/7204341.stm
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 02:35 pm |
Could they all be victims of Mad Cow Disease? I'm afraid there's no cure then
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 02:35 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Could they all be victims of Mad Cow Disease? I'm afraid there's no cure then |
Portokal is that you?
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 02:36 pm |
Thanks thehandsom.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 02:38 pm |
are we supposed to think there is no women right in islam after this news? i am confused ya
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 02:40 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting catwoman: Could they all be victims of Mad Cow Disease? I'm afraid there's no cure then |
Portokal is that you? |
Pstttttt!
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 02:43 pm |
Quoting ciko: are we supposed to think there is no women right in islam after this news? i am confused ya |
Draw the conclusions yourself Ciko. There are obviously none in Afghanistan and such rights are considered blasphemy
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 02:49 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: are we supposed to think there is no women right in islam after this news? i am confused ya |
Draw the conclusions yourself Ciko. There are obviously none in Afghanistan and such rights are considered blasphemy |
oki doki i went to mosque today so i feel like i have to defend Islam
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 02:56 pm |
Quoting ciko: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: are we supposed to think there is no women right in islam after this news? i am confused ya |
Draw the conclusions yourself Ciko. There are obviously none in Afghanistan and such rights are considered blasphemy |
oki doki i went to mosque today so i feel like i have to defend Islam
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Wouldn't it be better to defend Islam and argue with the extremists (whole countries of them) rather than me? I am just reporting the facts
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:04 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ciko: are we supposed to think there is no women right in islam after this news? i am confused ya |
Draw the conclusions yourself Ciko. There are obviously none in Afghanistan and such rights are considered blasphemy |
oki doki i went to mosque today so i feel like i have to defend Islam
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Wouldn't it be better to defend Islam and argue with the extremists (whole countries of them) rather than me? I am just reporting the facts |
i have no extremist around what can i do? i just dont want people to think Islam have no women rights:S i think it is so easy to judge a religion according to some events happened 1400 years ago... and also you know i am women defender mostly and i disagree with most muslims about women rights in islam..but i think it is not Islam's mistake..the biggest mistake about such subjects belongs to muslims that never commented again Quran for 800 years. i am really ashamed.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:12 pm |
DIFFERENCE NEEDS TO BE MADE BETWEEN ISLAM AND EXTREMIST ISLAM ( mainly Arabic culture )
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:17 pm |
Quoting Inankur: DIFFERENCE NEEDS TO BE MADE BETWEEN ISLAM AND EXTREMIST ISLAM ( mainly Arabic culture )
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what is your problem with arabic culture? do you think you can seperate Islam from Arabic culture?...dont you ever read sociology? Islam religion came into Arabs and grew among arabs for 400 years...and Quran sent in Arabic language and The prophet was arab.. it is impossible to erase Arabs' effect from Islam and most of our traditions..
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:21 pm |
did you ever read Quran?
Find me there where it says about KaraCarsaf, about killing women with stones, about almost nule woman rights, and after talk to me about how Islam means Arabic Culture.
You are making a big error.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:24 pm |
However the book itself says Islam is a universal religion, not meant exclusively for Arabs..
What we should go by is the Quran itself, and our own understanding of it....Not by what Arabs, or others, tell us.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:27 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting catwoman: Could they all be victims of Mad Cow Disease? I'm afraid there's no cure then |
Portokal is that you? |
no. Catwoman! )))
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:34 pm |
Quoting ciko: the biggest mistake about such subjects belongs to muslims that never commented again Quran for 800 years. i am really ashamed. |
I am glad you realize something is not right..
I believe islam needs more than just commenting..
It requires reforming.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:37 pm |
I had the pleasure to meet a couple where the husband was turkish and the wife romanian. There is an age difference between them.
While their guest i was treated royally.
The husband took good care of me, covered me with attention, made everything to make me feel comfortable.
He did many things in the house also, but out of pleasure.
He took good care of her.
(if anyone missinterprets here, i will kick )
It was the first time in my life i saw turkish hospitality mixing with love towards his wife, respect to customs and to wife. Sometimes she even did not understood. For example, he offered to hold my bag while taking pictures. She got pissed of... instead of feeling how cherished and respected she is, if her friends are so taken care of. He did not mind. Everything she did was in his line of respect. I was speechless.
That was when i said myself i want such a husband from life.
So the myth of no women rights is false.
Turkish culture has its ways in respecting woman.
I remember Bazri - the husband's name- telling a turkish idiom, about the most beautiful things in life. Sound of money (euhm), sound of water and the laughter of the woman.
Is this a woman-hater culture?
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:38 pm |
Quoting thehandsom: Quoting ciko: the biggest mistake about such subjects belongs to muslims that never commented again Quran for 800 years. i am really ashamed. |
I am glad you realize something is not right..
I believe islam needs more than just commenting..
It requires reforming. |
offfffff i meant reforming.. the only difference is your english is much better and you can find proper words much more easily
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:45 pm |
Quoting portokal: I had the pleasure to meet a couple where the husband was turkish and the wife romanian. There is an age difference between them.
While their guest i was treated royally.
The husband took good care of me, covered me with attention, made everything to make me feel comfortable.
He did many things in the house also, but out of pleasure.
He took good care of her.
(if anyone missinterprets here, i will kick )
It was the first time in my life i saw turkish hospitality mixing with love towards his wife, respect to customs and to wife. Sometimes she even did not understood. For example, he offered to hold my bag while taking pictures. She got pissed of... instead of feeling how cherished and respected she is, if her friends are so taken care of. He did not mind. Everything she did was in his line of respect. I was speechless.
That was when i said myself i want such a husband from life.
So the myth of no women rights is false.
Turkish culture has its ways in respecting woman.
I remember Bazri - the husband's name- telling a turkish idiom, about the most beautiful things in life. Sound of money (euhm), sound of water and the laughter of the woman.
Is this a woman-hater culture?
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Portokal you have expresed very beautiful my point of view. I am living this love and respect for woman ( wife) from my husbands part, every day ...
myself being romanian and my husband turk ...
but i guess is not about culture - arab, turk etc or about nationality, But is all about the man!
i saw also the same respect and love between my parents - orthodox, between family friends - jews
and so on ...
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:51 pm |
Quoting AlphaF: However the book itself says Islam is a universal religion, not meant exclusively for Arabs..
What we should go by is the Quran itself, and our own understanding of it....Not by what Arabs, or others, tell us. |
i remember one of your posts from about three months ago, i think in the headscarf thread, where you said that violence against women was actually reduced by Mohamed. He made gentler laws. But to abolish some directly would have not been possible.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 03:58 pm |
Quoting Inankur: Quoting portokal: I had the pleasure to meet a couple where the husband was turkish and the wife romanian. There is an age difference between them.
While their guest i was treated royally.
The husband took good care of me, covered me with attention, made everything to make me feel comfortable.
He did many things in the house also, but out of pleasure.
He took good care of her.
(if anyone missinterprets here, i will kick )
It was the first time in my life i saw turkish hospitality mixing with love towards his wife, respect to customs and to wife. Sometimes she even did not understood. For example, he offered to hold my bag while taking pictures. She got pissed of... instead of feeling how cherished and respected she is, if her friends are so taken care of. He did not mind. Everything she did was in his line of respect. I was speechless.
That was when i said myself i want such a husband from life.
So the myth of no women rights is false.
Turkish culture has its ways in respecting woman.
I remember Bazri - the husband's name- telling a turkish idiom, about the most beautiful things in life. Sound of money (euhm), sound of water and the laughter of the woman.
Is this a woman-hater culture?
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Portokal you have expresed very beautiful my point of view. I am living this love and respect for woman ( wife) from my husbands part, every day ...
myself being romanian and my husband turk ...
but i guess is not about culture - arab, turk etc or about nationality, But is all about the man!
i saw also the same respect and love between my parents - orthodox, between family friends - jews
and so on ... |
true. in marriage it is about the man you choose and which chooses you.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:08 pm |
Quoting portokal: So the myth of no women rights is false. |
Myth? This story is myth eh? Honour killings are myth?
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:16 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting portokal: So the myth of no women rights is false. |
Myth? This story is myth eh? Honour killings are myth?
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hm... true. there are honour killings.
what i made was a very personal statement.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:17 pm |
Quoting portokal: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting portokal: So the myth of no women rights is false. |
Myth? This story is myth eh? Honour killings are myth?
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hm... true. there are honour killings.
what i made was a very personal statement.
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Absolutely it was a very personal statement ... and this ONE experience led you to believe that "the myth of women's rights is false" ?!?!?!
Did you even read the article?
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:28 pm |
Everyone is so busy defending Islam, but NOBODY seems to condemn what is actually happening in these states, or that this journalist has been sentenced to death
Same old story...
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:32 pm |
Quoting thehandsom: Quoting ciko: the biggest mistake about such subjects belongs to muslims that never commented again Quran for 800 years. i am really ashamed. |
I am glad you realize something is not right..
I believe islam needs more than just commenting..
It requires reforming. |
I agree with you handsom. I think it is in serious need of on overhaul. Most religions have done this at one point or another. I don't think it is a mistake to do this because these books were written thousands of years ago, in a different time for different people. But even if Islam is reformed there is a fundamental problem with the fact that most Islamic people believe that the Quran is the exact word of God. That doesn't leave much room for change.
What seems strange is that people are more willing to follow a book rather than what is right. It is beyond my understanding how people can kill other people in the name of God.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:46 pm |
how we can blame a whole system about some extrems or fundamenatlists?And who can defend if somethings goin wrong or if someone using holy beliefs for make darker others life,but we all have to gave up this social phobia by to be against all injustices and wrongs,and i have to say that finally still planty happy Muslim women or girls with their own life style and own rights.Aad example musn't be generalize i think????...
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:50 pm |
aren't any freedom enemy or woman exploiting in west??and how can we blame all west about some extrem wrong people????
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:56 pm |
Quoting MrX67: aren't any freedom enemy or woman exploiting in west??and how can we blame all west about some extrem wrong people???? |
MrX67, of course there are. However, this is about the fact that a journalist is going to be executed over the most ridiculous reasons, because of a religion. Like it or not, that is the case. In your country, your religion is not so extreme. However, the fact is that in MOST other muslim countries, it is.
This is not some obscure story I have searched for in order to spark an anti-islam debate. It is headline news all over the world, and is an important issue for MOST people.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:57 pm |
Quoting MrX67: how we can blame a whole system about some extrems or fundamenatlists?And who can defend if somethings goin wrong or if someone using holy beliefs for make darker others life,but we all have to gave up this social phobia by to be against all injustices and wrongs,and i have to say that finally still planty happy Muslim women or girls with their own life style and own rights.Aad example musn't be generalize i think????... |
i agree.
i must admit i have not read the article. yet. i will read it. but i think that this will not change my opinion, that extreme examples are sporadic to what the entire reality covers.
i also think that logic is the light in thinking which chases away extremist darkness.
why i think my example is more concludent and stronger than the article?
because it has hapiness in it, love, understanding and wisdom. if this occures in a society, if a society can afford such features, that society is not lost. each right thought, right deed is a victory which spreads, attracting it's benefit, the light of understanding.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:59 pm |
Portokal the only EXTREME in Islam is the "mildness" of Turkey's muslim population. The acts we are talking about are very common within Islamic States and are not unusual at all (only in Turkey).
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 04:59 pm |
Quoting Elisabeth: But even if Islam is reformed there is a fundamental problem with the fact that most Islamic people believe that the Quran is the exact word of God. That doesn't leave much room for change. |
You are absolutely right on that. There is not much room in Quran itself.
I dont know how this reform will happen but it must happen!
Statistics about expansion of religions, Christianity is ahead of islam. No wonder why!
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 05:00 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting MrX67: aren't any freedom enemy or woman exploiting in west??and how can we blame all west about some extrem wrong people???? |
MrX67, of course there are. However, this is about the fact that a journalist is going to be executed over the most ridiculous reasons, because of a religion. Like it or not, that is the case. In your country, your religion is not so extreme. However, the fact is that in MOST other muslim countries, it is.
This is not some obscure story I have searched for in order to spark an anti-islam debate. It is headline news all over the world, and is an important issue for MOST people. |
we can't complete counting wrongs which on all over world and thats only one of em,and we have to be hand by hand for to be barrier for all wrongs,not only for a few ones...
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 05:02 pm |
Quoting MrX67: not only for a few ones... |
They are not a "few" MrX67. You are judging while sitting in a country where the majority of people are muslims (but it is not a requirement) where people freely drink alcohol, have sex before marriage and do not have to take part in Ramadan. The MAJORITY of other Islamic countries are, in your words "extremist". Even the UK has more fundamentalist muslims than Turkey!
The sentence on this journalist was ordered by a regime that is considered "less extreme" and is supported by the US and UK......
These are considered MILD!!!
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 05:27 pm |
That is tragic
I do wonder where exactly in islam the authorities find grounds for this punishment? The part that says that any journalists protesting to the sentence also will be punished is a good hint that it's nothing more than the crazy (I want to use a stronger word) laws of a just as crazy government
Hopefully with enough attention from the international community it won't be carried out anyway.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 05:31 pm |
Quoting azade: That is tragic
I do wonder where exactly in islam the authorities find grounds for this punishment? The part that says that any journalists protesting to the sentence also will be punished is a good hint that it's nothing more than the crazy (I want to use a stronger word) laws of a just as crazy government
Hopefully with enough attention from the international community it won't be carried out anyway. |
Thanks for actually commenting on the point of the thread Azade, instead of just being defensive
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 05:37 pm |
Why of course, anytime! This is downright outrageous...searching for information about women's rights in islam equals death penalty.... now there's one country I'll never go to
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 05:42 pm |
religions and beliefs can be big danger when used for political aims,and thats a very innocent right when stayed between God and person,so secularism the best method for fix this problems and our great country very lucky about that still with some little problems about secularism..
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 05:43 pm |
Quoting azade: .... now there's one country I'll never go to |
I would love to be able to go there. Afghanistan is home to some of the rarest and most beautiful bulbous plants in the world. Many areas have never been explored by botanists. I think it will be many years before THAT will happen as funding has not been available there (for obvious reasons) for years!!
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 06:09 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting azade: .... now there's one country I'll never go to |
Afghanistan is home to some of the rarest and most beautiful bulbous plants in the world. |
Unfortunately the poppy fields are not so rare.
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01 Feb 2008 Fri 06:35 pm |
Quoting peace train: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting azade: .... now there's one country I'll never go to |
Afghanistan is home to some of the rarest and most beautiful bulbous plants in the world. |
Unfortunately the poppy fields are not so rare.
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then i shall explode.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 06:04 am |
Quoting AEnigma III: An Afghan journalist has been sentenced to death for downloading...guess what?
Pornography?
Child porn?
Anti-muslim material?
NO NO! For downloading material about women's rights in an Islamic society.
THIS is the lengths some men will go to to keep their power. Women who say there are no women's rights issues that affect them, indirectly support it.
Please note that this is also the regime that the US/UK are supporting. They should get the hell out of there....
EDIT: I made a mistake of course in the above. The downloaded material IS anti-islam because it is about women's rights and therefore is considered blasphemy.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/7204341.stm
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Here is the anti-islam thread that has been keeping us all up at night. Easier to find than WMD in Irak.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 06:07 am |
before the hate mail comes, I am kidding of course.
Similar type of control has also been used in Christian churches as well to keep women out of power. If the Catholic church allowed women priests, we would not have the sex scandal problems that we have seen the last decade.
Am I breaking new forum rules already by the way? Technically, this is an old thread.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 09:56 am |
I really don't understand you people of course trowing stones is not right, honor killings are not right. But beeing against islam is totally wrong. Islam is a beautiful religion, if you don't like it it's because you don't understand it. You call them extremist look at yourseld you can't listen to anyone elses opinion without freaking out and saying that whatever is against you is wrong.
Whatever I don't mind
XOXO
Cutest girl ever
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 01:51 pm |
Quoting Inankur: DIFFERENCE NEEDS TO BE MADE BETWEEN ISLAM AND EXTREMIST ISLAM ( mainly Arabic culture )
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WRONG i think you should recognize the diffrence yourself, there are extremist everywhere in the world like afghanistan,pakistan as well as in arabic countries so you cant judge arabic culture .
and i am so proud coz i am muslim, i am arabic and i am not extremist and i respect as any religion.
and dont forget that prophet MOHAMMAD(PBUH) was arabic himself.
when you understand that islam is so simple and so complicated at the time you will know what true islam is?and you will never judge anyone like this.
so pls dont turn this site from almost anti_islam and anti_turk to anti_arab.
have a lovley day.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 04:11 pm |
Quoting KeithL: Quoting AEnigma III: An Afghan journalist has been sentenced to death for downloading...guess what?
Pornography?
Child porn?
Anti-muslim material?
NO NO! For downloading material about women's rights in an Islamic society.
THIS is the lengths some men will go to to keep their power. Women who say there are no women's rights issues that affect them, indirectly support it.
Please note that this is also the regime that the US/UK are supporting. They should get the hell out of there....
EDIT: I made a mistake of course in the above. The downloaded material IS anti-islam because it is about women's rights and therefore is considered blasphemy.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/7204341.stm
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Here is the anti-islam thread that has been keeping us all up at night. Easier to find than WMD in Irak. |
I fail to understand why this is anti-Islam.... this is a news article about some rather horrible thing that happened in an islamic country and because of islamic laws... I think most people would agree that this incident is rather horrible and it doesn't make us anti-Islam...
If you disagree, of course, I'd like to hear your views.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 04:36 pm |
Please read the next post, Post 47. I was absolutely kidding trying to lighten the whole anti-islam theme. Yes. Very horrible no matter how you look at religion.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 04:38 pm |
There seems to have been a shift in the decision, so lets wait and see!
Article from 6th Feb
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 05:07 pm |
Quoting KeithL: Please read the next post, Post 47. I was absolutely kidding trying to lighten the whole anti-islam theme. Yes. Very horrible no matter how you look at religion. |
ok, thanks
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 07:20 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting KeithL: Please read the next post, Post 47. I was absolutely kidding trying to lighten the whole anti-islam theme. Yes. Very horrible no matter how you look at religion. |
ok, thanks |
look at your post in this thread
"13. catwoman
3957 posts 01 Feb 2008 Fri 08:06 am
Quoting ciko:
oki doki i went to mosque today so i feel like i have to defend Islam
So THAT'S how it works! You go to the mosque and come back brainwashed! "
I think the fact that you don't even realize or recognize how your comments are is a serious problem. You have serious issues with Islam yourself and can hardly be considered neutral participant.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 07:24 pm |
alameda...is it possible you are too willing to defend islam? I don't think you can deny there are problems.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 07:41 pm |
I think these problems are mostly because the civil muslims are ignorant about their religions. Many of them havent read the whole Quran for themselves or never pondered over a verse from the Quran and a hadith that they read. It is all left to the religious seniors/authorities' comments and decisions, as if the other ppl dont have their own brains to think and decide. And those seniors/authorities (or whatever they can be called), carried away with the pleasure of power they have over these ignorant ppl, do whatever they want and whatever that sounds right to them! Of course, there may be points that one cannot understand without the comments of someone else, but they should be careful who they are taking the comments from. This is not only to do with Islam. Christianity experienced this case centuries ago as well, with the power of churches over ppl. The difference is that the Chritianity sorted it out but Islam still suffers it.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 07:44 pm |
Quoting AlphaF: However the book itself says Islam is a universal religion, not meant exclusively for Arabs..
What we should go by is the Quran itself, and our own understanding of it....Not by what Arabs, or others, tell us. |
I recently read a book that made it sound as if the islam religion was made for arabs. In the book, Muhammed was quoted as saying that the Jews had their book, the Christians had their book and this was book was for the Arabs.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 07:48 pm |
Quoting KeithL: I recently read a book that made it sound as if the islam religion was made for arabs. In the book, Muhammed was quoted as saying that the Jews had their book, the Christians had their book and this was book was for the Arabs. |
what book is that? and who is the author? And even if the prophet made that quote, what is wrong with that? Jews and Christians are not nations, they are the followers of the reigions that make them Jew or Christian. But Arabs are a nation. And they were arab before the Islam as well.. :-S
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 07:51 pm |
Quoting incişka: Quoting KeithL: I recently read a book that made it sound as if the islam religion was made for arabs. In the book, Muhammed was quoted as saying that the Jews had their book, the Christians had their book and this was book was for the Arabs. |
what book is that? and who is the author? |
I will find it for you. It was a flattering book on Islam by the way.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 08:01 pm |
Quoting incişka: I think these problems are mostly because the civil muslims are ignorant about their religions. Many of them havent read the whole Quran for themselves or never pondered over a verse from the Quran and a hadith that they read. It is all left to the religious seniors/authorities' comments and decisions, as if the other ppl dont have their own brains to think and decide. And those seniors/authorities (or whatever they can be called), carried away with the pleasure of power they have over these ignorant ppl, do whatever they want and whatever that sounds right to them! Of course, there may be points that one cannot understand without the comments of someone else, but they should be careful who they are taking the comments from. This is not only to do with Islam. Christianity experienced this case centuries ago as well, with the power of churches over ppl. The difference is that the Chritianity sorted it out but Islam still suffers it. |
A lot of good points incişka, however that problem still exists in Christianity today. All one has to do is Look at the Christian Right movement in the USA today. It also exists in India with the
BJP
who "Hindu nationalist groups continue to arm civilians in Gujarat and many other Indian states. Instead of cracking down on these groups, the Gujarat state Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) government has included the distribution of arms as part of its election manifesto."
TheocracyWatch
Or look at the
Christian Zionists
I think the answer is educated and informed people, instead of lazy brainwashed propagandized people.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 08:01 pm |
Quoting incişka: I think these problems are mostly because the civil muslims are ignorant about their religions. Many of them havent read the whole Quran for themselves or never pondered over a verse from the Quran and a hadith that they read. It is all left to the religious seniors/authorities' comments and decisions, as if the other ppl dont have their own brains to think and decide. And those seniors/authorities (or whatever they can be called), carried away with the pleasure of power they have over these ignorant ppl, do whatever they want and whatever that sounds right to them! Of course, there may be points that one cannot understand without the comments of someone else, but they should be careful who they are taking the comments from. This is not only to do with Islam. Christianity experienced this case centuries ago as well, with the power of churches over ppl. The difference is that the Chritianity sorted it out but Islam still suffers it. |
I agree with you inciska...I think all three of the major monotheistic religions have gone thru a similar experience. If you think about it...Islam started about 500 years after Christianity, so it needs to catch up a bit. But I think all religions have the potential for being used in a negative way...at anytime.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 08:05 pm |
Quoting KeithL: Quoting incişka: Quoting KeithL: I recently read a book that made it sound as if the islam religion was made for arabs. In the book, Muhammed was quoted as saying that the Jews had their book, the Christians had their book and this was book was for the Arabs. |
what book is that? and who is the author? |
I will find it for you. It was a flattering book on Islam by the way. |
If i were you i would not try to find that FLATTERING book
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 08:18 pm |
Quoting alameda: look at your post in this thread
"13. catwoman
3957 posts 01 Feb 2008 Fri 08:06 am
Quoting ciko:
oki doki i went to mosque today so i feel like i have to defend Islam
So THAT'S how it works! You go to the mosque and come back brainwashed! "
I think the fact that you don't even realize or recognize how your comments are is a serious problem. You have serious issues with Islam yourself and can hardly be considered neutral participant.
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Well, alameda, I think I made a good logical point in my post. Yes, maybe I am not neutral, I have my opinions, but if somebody has a reasonable point, I do give them credit for it.
I think religious people like you just have to get used to the fact that some people don't agree with you.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 08:21 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting alameda: look at your post in this thread
"13. catwoman
3957 posts 01 Feb 2008 Fri 08:06 am
Quoting ciko:
oki doki i went to mosque today so i feel like i have to defend Islam
So THAT'S how it works! You go to the mosque and come back brainwashed! "
I think the fact that you don't even realize or recognize how your comments are is a serious problem. You have serious issues with Islam yourself and can hardly be considered neutral participant.
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Well, alameda, I think I made a good logical point in my post. Yes, maybe I am not neutral, I have my opinions, but if somebody has a reasonable point, I do give them credit for it.
I think religious people like you just have to get used to the fact that some people don't agree with you. |
I have never expected everyone to agree with me, I do expect to be treated with respect and dignity. As for my religiosity, that is my personal issue. I have never proclaimed here exactly what I practice, or if I even practice. My point is: mutual respect is in order, if we want a peaceful world.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 08:26 pm |
Quoting alameda: I have never expected everyone to agree with me, I do expect to be treated with respect and dignity. As for my religiosity, that is my personal issue. I have never proclaimed here exactly what I practice, or if I even practice. My point is: mutual respect is in order, if we want a peaceful world. |
I would stress the word mutual here. I have not offended anybody in my post, I joked about what ciko said, maybe being a bit sarcastic about religion there, but I am free to think and say that maybe the mosque brainwashes people, don't you think? You again took it as an insult!
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 09:12 pm |
Quoting catwoman: ....I would stress the word mutual here. I have not offended anybody in my post, I joked about what ciko said, maybe being a bit sarcastic about religion there, but I am free to think and say that maybe the mosque brainwashes people, don't you think? You again took it as an insult! |
Your post was "So THAT'S how it works! You go to the mosque and come back brainwashed! " <--< Note: there was no maybe in it.
"I have not offended anybody in my post" <--< are you sure?
This is not a matter of what you can do in the name of "Free Speech", it's rather a matter of good manners. You know,
Etiquette
In this forum we are dealing with an international community that have different standards of social behavior. We can't expect everyone to understand sarcastic humor.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 11:06 pm |
Quoting alameda: Your post was "So THAT'S how it works! You go to the mosque and come back brainwashed! " <--< Note: there was no maybe in it.
"I have not offended anybody in my post" <--< are you sure?
This is not a matter of what you can do in the name of "Free Speech", it's rather a matter of good manners. You know,
Etiquette
In this forum we are dealing with an international community that have different standards of social behavior. We can't expect everyone to understand sarcastic humor. |
Alameda, I didn't attack anybody personally. I think that we should respect people, but we should be free (in a free society) to express our views about ideologies or religions. I realize that it may hurt your feelings, but in a free society, you have to adjust to this situation and learn that I have not meant anything bad towards "good" muslims and I am criticizing those muslims who offend my values of respect towards other people.
Whenever we criticize something, we may be offending someone. However, it is my constitutional right to be able to do so and I believe that a mature person can handle criticism if it pertains to her/him, and to know when this criticism is not directed to her/him, but to other people even if it's from their group.
When I criticize certain ideas and events, I believe that I am driven by basic human decency and equality and I would hope that every decent person feels similarly about it. I think that some people have a problem being critical towards people from their own group... but that's not my problem and it will not stop me from exercising my free speech right.
Your etiquette is basically political correctness, which I don't care about.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 11:19 pm |
Quoting alameda:
Your post was "So THAT'S how it works! You go to the mosque and come back brainwashed! " <--< Note: there was no maybe in it.
"I have not offended anybody in my post" <--< are you sure?
This is not a matter of what you can do in the name of "Free Speech", it's rather a matter of good manners. You know,
Etiquette
In this forum we are dealing with an international community that have different standards of social behavior. We can't expect everyone to understand sarcastic humor. |
Wouldn't you have to say that it’s all rather subjective alameda? Just because you find something offensive doesn’t mean the next person will.
A good analogy of this would be how your consistent defense of Adonis. Many of us have a completely different view on his behavior than you do. Maybe he was respectful to you…good for you….but he did not bestow that same honor on anyone who dared to disagree with him.
Anyway, if you are going to criticize one member for not following rules of etiquette then you should at least apply the same standard to everyone, otherwise it is hard to take what you say seriously.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 11:37 pm |
We can find worse cases here. If you find the example between Catwoman and Ciko to be offenseive and disrespectful, I think your not reading the threads in the right context. I purposely added to this thread today because i thought it was an example of differing views that stayed non-confrontational.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 11:55 pm |
I would definitely agree that there are some examples of lack of mutual understanding (although I still would like to see what exactly they are), but what I find very strange is that Alameda keeps on talking about mutual respect... yet, she never mentions anything that the other side might have done wrong :-S. According to her they are always right about everything and it's always all our fault.... This is hardly fair and far from true.
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17 Mar 2008 Mon 11:58 pm |
Quoting girleegirl: Quoting alameda:
Your post was "So THAT'S how it works! You go to the mosque and come back brainwashed! " <--< Note: there was no maybe in it.
"I have not offended anybody in my post" <--< are you sure?
This is not a matter of what you can do in the name of "Free Speech", it's rather a matter of good manners. You know,
Etiquette
In this forum we are dealing with an international community that have different standards of social behavior. We can't expect everyone to understand sarcastic humor. |
Wouldn't you have to say that it’s all rather subjective alameda? Just because you find something offensive doesn’t mean the next person will.
A good analogy of this would be how your consistent defense of Adonis. Many of us have a completely different view on his behavior than you do. Maybe he was respectful to you…good for you….but he did not bestow that same honor on anyone who dared to disagree with him.
Anyway, if you are going to criticize one member for not following rules of etiquette then you should at least apply the same standard to everyone, otherwise it is hard to take what you say seriously.
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A yes, girleegirl....that paragon of etiquette and moderation. How nice to hear from you again. May I suggest you read this sentance again....I will repost it here to make it simpler for you
"In this forum we are dealing with an international community that have different standards of social behavior. We can't expect everyone to understand sarcastic humor."
Cultural Differences
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18 Mar 2008 Tue 12:05 am |
Quoting catwoman: I would definitely agree that there are some examples of lack of mutual understanding (although I still would like to see what exactly they are), but what I find very strange is that Alameda keeps on talking about mutual respect... yet, she never mentions anything that the other side might have done wrong :-S. According to her they are always right about everything and it's always all our fault.... This is hardly fair and far from true. |
I never said "they" are always right in any of my posts. I have only commented on the fact that we are not dealing and communicating with an all American or Western audience/membership here. In order to better communicate, if that is the purpose of posting, good manners and some cultural sensitivity is in order.
THE CORE RULES OF NETIQUETTE
Rule 1:Remember the Human Rule 2:Adhere to the same standards of behavior online that you follow in real life Rule 3:Know where you are in cyberspace Rule 4:Respect other people's time and bandwidth Rule 5:Make yourself look good online Rule 6:Share expert knowledge Rule 7:Help keep flame wars under control Rule 8:Respect other people's privacy Rule 9on't abuse your power Rule 10:Be forgiving of other people's mistakes
Post: Those with vivid imaginations are often unreliable in their statements.[8]
Shea: Make yourself look good online: Know what you're talking about and make sense.[9]
NETIQUETTE
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18 Mar 2008 Tue 12:07 am |
Sorry Alameda, but dont you think he also failed to follow those rules?
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18 Mar 2008 Tue 12:09 am |
Quoting geniuda: Sorry Alameda, but dont you think he also failed to follow those rules? |
He? Who he? We have been talking about a few things here, so if you could clarify, it would help.
Thank you.
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18 Mar 2008 Tue 07:59 am |
Quoting alameda:
A yes, girleegirl....that paragon of etiquette and moderation. How nice to hear from you again. May I suggest you read this sentance again....I will repost it here to make it simpler for you
"In this forum we are dealing with an international community that have different standards of social behavior. We can't expect everyone to understand sarcastic humor."
Cultural Differences |
Hmmmm, alameda you were obviously insulted by my post and I don't understand why...it was quite polite.
But for the record, I don't need your "lessons" on cultural differences or etiquette or anything else for that matter. You are quite simple to understand.
I have never claimed to be the paragon of anything..that's your department...
But to make it simple for you.....stating that a "cultural" difference makes someone like adonis' behavior acceptable when you obviously consider mine not to be....that is hypocritcal. I hope that is simple enough.
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18 Mar 2008 Tue 10:32 am |
Alameda, could you be more precise what you mean by netiquette? I'd appreciate if you explained if the following were ok or not:
1. Saying you are against honour killings.
2. Saying you believe people should be free to choose a religion and that imposing a religion on everyone by the state is a violation of human rights.
3. Asking people of different religion why their Holy Book is used by people to justify cruelty/murder
4. Saying that censoring access to information by the state is dictatorship
5. Calling suicide bombers terrorists
6. Telling people to go and 'care of' their husbands instead of posting moron posts
7. Telling those who don't agree with you that the only reason for them not to agree is because of their sex.
8. Using vulgar language and justify it by inadequate knowledge of English
9. Demanding that everybody not only respects but also agrees with your point of view
10. Insulting others in case they disagree with you
I've had many debates here with both 'western' and 'eastern' people. However, never have I come across a person as full of hatred and bias as Adonis. I am surprised you're defending him. In all the debates I kept a polite language and never called anyone names, yet, I was accused of being anti-everything. He goes around using curses rather than arguments and you believe that's perfectly ok. I'm sorry, that's pretty illogical.
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