btw loveprague,
i hope you understand that you expect different replies when you start a thread?
better not to start/post anything if you expect only positive answers.

All this is starting to make Femme_Fatal look like a kitten

Alpha and Cirque - be gentleman and go outside with pistols at dawn. Its the only way...

I apologize for the private curses coming to groups attention.

What this jackass can not understand is calling someone "pervert" is a heavy insult in Turkish. I wont bother with him anymore.

Yes, Im well aware of that.

I wouldn't really call that a discussion, appeared to be more like people grasping an opportunity to over-analyse and criticise other peoples comments.

I wasnt referring to people getting worked up about topics-of course one has the right to hold and express strong feelings about a topic.

I was merely saying that it seems like people are always picking at what other people have to say.
But whatever, I won't say too much as it will only result in more unwanted criticism.

Marriage is a sum of cultures. I think different cultures should not argue about marriage. In Turkey most girls like me told before marriage "there wont be any return from your husband' s house to here". This is just a tradition, anyone can divorce anytime. But still society will keeps chatting about the reasons of your becoming divorced widow. Everything you do after that will be shame for your family even if they well educated and supportive. For all that reasons marrige bases are quite different. Families are more involved our marriages. So, we can not see marriage like other cultures do. Not that we dont want to, it is about how we raised, how we treated.

I think you have just shown us how to discuss a subject without being santimonious or opinionated Asli Its great to learn about other cultures this way.

I can't promise I can post in the same unopinionated way I guess that's Aenigma's' Culture'