when you say small cities in Turkey, there are many cities who are bigger than most of the big cities in Europe. City is another thing, village is another thing. In modern Turkey, primitive village traditions should be eliminated. I respect the culture, but urbanization is another thing. Red ribbon that represents virginity?? If someone says that even the educated and cultured ones in cities do this, I oppose. Which educated? Please. I oppose when a Turk shows that Turkey highly consists of this backward things. She shows that she's "modern" and her family is "higly modern" but she's still a victim. Maybe, she can be a refrugee in another country if she thinks that even the modern in Turkey does this. This Turkey also consists of people who have opposed these things, that's what we call the modern Turkey. I do not look down on any village people, but what I oppose here is quite clear I think.

AND I won't say anything more about this, because this has started to go on my nerves. So much wrong generalizations. I wrote everything that should be written, the rest is yours. The one who is willing to understand will understand.

I am witness to what Mltm is saying.

The whole thing is weird.

I would like to inform those who are confused about who talks the truth: Mltm speaks the truth here.

aferin sana , aenigma x...,
böyle güzel konuşmayı iyi öğrenmişsin.aferin sana...
you know too much..
but you dont know courtesy..
you came here to learn Turkish Language...
you dont come here to talk English Language in this Turkish Class...It is your personal duty...
I am not your teacher..,
you must learn "courtesy" first of all.