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Marriage between two faiths
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08 Jul 2007 Sun 04:35 pm |
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Quoting mltm: I congratulate you, it shows that we can find the love of our life when and where we least expect it.
And I hope I will not have to wait until 36 until I find my caring love of my life  |
Thanks Mltm I am sure you will not have to wait as long as this  I am still always very grateful I have even if I am alot older now 
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08 Jul 2007 Sun 05:10 pm |
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Quoting Loveprague: When I looked back on the replies the last 10 or so pages have nothing to do with the topic that was first created here. The forum is a great place to discuss views on very different and sometimes important subjects but I find when reading many posts the title is somehow forgotten and a totally new structure to the heading subject is formed. |
Rich, I do understand that you may feel in some way offended that conversations go "off topic" and the normal reply to this is "that's nothing unusual at TC!" or "some people always spoil threads".
My opinion is that this is not unique to TC. It can happen in any conversation where the subject matter is of interest. People "bounce" off eachother's comments, maybe say something that another doesn't agree with, and the conversation flows into different directions.
You shouldn't take it personally just because you started the thread. I think you had some interesting and helpful replies to your question and alhough the discussion went off on another tangent towards the end I dont think it affected your thread by then.
I am sorry if you felt upset or offended by the turn of conversation. 
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08 Jul 2007 Sun 07:29 pm |
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Quoting vineyards: I want to say a few words to those who criticize Catwoman. In this country (Turkey) ethnicities of people have always been a source of suspicion and an excuse to excommunicate. In fact, in this society people declare others suspicious because of their ethnic roots. If you are a backward country you cannot hide that by coming together and trying the conceal the truth by collectively stampeding on it. The truth is there for everyone to see. This society is following the bad examples of some European countries in regards with ethnic consciousness which has been plagueing countries like Finland, Sweden, England, Germany, France just to name a few.
The owner of this site has been undertaking the financial burden of this site to let us come here and do our jive talking. He has a right to appoint an admin and he has a right to establish the rules on usage as long as those rules do not contradict with applying laws. So, mind your manners and remember, Catwoman has even the authority to ban you if she decides that she doesn't like you all that much after all (I don't believe she does. |
Vineyards, thank you very much for this post. It was very honest and helpful to me in better understanding of the roots of people's feelings about their nationality. Thank you .
Even though I express my opinions in the forums, I follow objective rules when it comes to being an admin. I cannot ban anybody from this web site just because I don't like that person, he/she has to violate the rules of the site to be banned.
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08 Jul 2007 Sun 09:04 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting AlphaF: I apologize for the private curses coming to groups attention.
What this jackass can not understand is calling someone "pervert" is a heavy insult in Turkish. I wont other with him anymore |
As the gentleman of TC, I knew you wouldn't let us down
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Uhmm... Forgive my understanding English, but I am confused: who is "the gentleman of TC"- you or he? Since I know you hardly have language mistakes, your ambiguous sentence, in fact, proves that he mustn't have let you down. 
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08 Jul 2007 Sun 09:18 pm |
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Quoting catwoman:
Even though I express my opinions in the forums, I follow objective rules when it comes to being an admin. I cannot ban anybody from this web site just because I don't like that person, he/she has to violate the rules of the site to be banned. |
+1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 I can't imagine a mod deleting people just because they didn't agree with him........... 
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08 Jul 2007 Sun 10:53 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting catwoman:
Even though I express my opinions in the forums, I follow objective rules when it comes to being an admin. I cannot ban anybody from this web site just because I don't like that person, he/she has to violate the rules of the site to be banned. |
+1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 I can't imagine a mod deleting people just because they didn't agree with him...........
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Well she was going to throw me out just because I disagreed with her. Just look at ramayan's post no.62 of the 22nd February. That is why I resigned before I was pushed.
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08 Jul 2007 Sun 11:42 pm |
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Its funny and rather pathetic to see everyone frantically searching through Catwoman's posts to look for some kind of "evidence" of wrongdoing.
Perhaps we should remember more often that we are "guests" on a wonderful FREE website, or, as Vineyards put it:-
Quoting vineyards: The owner of this site has been undertaking the financial burden of this site to let us come here and do our jive talking. He has a right to appoint an admin and he has a right to establish the rules on usage as long as those rules do not contradict with applying laws. So, mind your manners and remember, Catwoman has even the authority to ban you if she decides that she doesn't like you all that much after all (I don't believe she does. |
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 12:14 am |
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Hi Loveprague I am sorry your thread has been hijacked once again but I am sure you and Nesrin will surmount any obstacles in your path. I wish you all the best in the future.
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 12:29 am |
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Quoting aenigma x:
Perhaps we should remember more often that we are "guests" on a wonderful FREE website, or, as Vineyards put it:-
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I thought you supported the idea that we shouldn't become sheep, and we should criticize our heads to improve things or to change the wrong-goings.
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 12:37 am |
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Quoting mltm: I thought you supported the idea that we shouldn't become sheep, and we should criticize our heads to improve things or to change the wrong-goings. |
Of course I believe that people should speak their opinions openly! I have argued with Catwoman many times (as I am sure you noticed while checking all her posts! ). And I think Catwoman is entitled to her own opinions and does not (in my view) let it affect her role as Moderator.
I just don't see any "wrongdoing" in Joey's referenced post. All I can see is Ramayan joking that Catwoman would delete him :-S
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 12:40 am |
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Quoting bydand: Hi Loveprague I am sorry your thread has been hijacked once again but I am sure you and Nesrin will surmount any obstacles in your path. I wish you all the best in the future. |
This idea of "hijacking" threads does seem strange. I think the subject of this thread has been talked about and finished. Does that mean that the conversation cannot evolve?
Does anyone "own" a thread? 
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