darling another idea I thought of is for me to get a small business loan when I am in England small enough for me to pay back every month but still enough to be able to renta house or start the business, there it much easier to do something like that. or I will get a credit card again.whatever I will find a way for us to be together.. I suppose your family hates me for being a different culture or older than you? whatever their reason I wish they could siomply understand and be happy for you that you have someone who truly cares.I love you very much I have no doubts about us at all.

Thank you I think so!! hope so I am too old to keep on an emotional rollercoaster!

I was of course very upset by your e mail, I am not changing my mind at all, but you know when a person gets divorced it does not immediately get settled, all I am saying is it might take a little longer to get the money.
Until March I will be working which will bring in a little more for us. hopefully enough to be able to rent a house until I get the settlement money.
If it is difficult in Turkey then maybe we should think of looking at another place to settle down/.
This is a once in a lifetime true love we can not simply let it go because we do not have money..yes we must have a house I understand your position with your brother and his wife it is unfortunate that they cannot just accept the fact that you love me and are happy. But I do understand the culture difference etc.
I am not just going to end it I am going to try to find a solution to the situation. Our love is strong and will I am very sure withstand all the problems. So my reply is I will fight hard to keep what we have.

I know its long but please please someone! if you can translate for me I would appreciate it

hi canım beni çok iyi anlamanı istiyorum ben bu konuda ciddi yim . if you to come here kesin bir şey söyle bana her gün ayrı bir şey duymak istemiyorum. ben sana her şeyi açık açık söyledim benim şimdi maddi durumum sıfır . sen diyorsunki benimde yok ama ben geleceğim oraya sonra düşÃ¼nürüz diyorsun böyle olmaz. bizim yaşayabilmemiz için maddiyat şart .hemde ev den önce işyeri gerekli bunlar olmazsa bizim bir araya gelmemiz çok zor . her ne kadar sevsek. te birbirimizi because sende yok ve bende yok para buda durumu imkansız hale getiriyor .bizim burda kardeşimle beraber yaşamamız mümkün değil olmaz zaten karşı geliyorlar . ama sen varsan bende varım. ama dediğim gibi ikimizinde parası yok. bunuda çalışarak yapmamız mümkün değil. sen daha önce mart ayında lacağım dedin şimdi ise belki alamam diyorsun bu çelişki neden.ben paran yok diye sevmem demiyorum ama bizim burda iş olmadan ev olmadan yaşamamız çok zor . buda bizim bir araya gelmemizi engelliyor sana karşı mahçup olmak istemiyorum senide üzmek istemiyorum. ama malesef gerçekler acıdır.sonra ikimizde çok üzülürüz bunu istemiyorum sen iyi bir kadınsın üzülmeni hiç istemem evet bu bir mucize senden hoşlandım seni sevdim yaş farkına rağmen ama ikimizinde şansızlığı .paramızın olmayışı .çok üzgünüm bu ilişki böyle devam ederse ilerde ikimizde çok kötü günler yaşarız .özellikle senin bu üzüntüyü yaşamanı istemiyorum. eğer benim param olsaydı ben hemen ev tutardım ve seni hemen buraya getirirdim ama ben sıfırı tüketmişim .üzgünüm canım bana kesin ve net bir cevap lütfen.ı love very much baby ramazan dal

ok let me try this another way!!

It could happen that I can not get money by March you know.
When you divorce you do not get instant money it might take weeks even months to settle.
I just want you to know and understand this darling.
Why could we not live where you are now for the time being until we could get together enough money for our own house?
Perhaps you already explained this and I missed it .
I know four people in one house is not an ideal situation but as a temporary one wouldnt it be better than not at all?I love you very much and we need to be honest and clear about everything.

AEnigma
Thank you but we have talked every day to each other he has a few major problems..I seriously think he is genuine though
I do appreciate everyones concern and I do hear what you are all trying to tell me ...I am not sending any money .

Darling are you telling me that if I do not bring money then you do not want me? I have to be sure I understand what you are saying
you love me I know that but you keep asking me how much I will have in March.

appreciate all the input!!! but can someone translate my reply for him please? many thanks
Astry

love is blind!!